What are the UK laws involving sex at this age?
Q. ok i recently turned 16 and i dont know the laws on sex. i just want to know one thing i like this girl who is 15 now i dont want to go out with her because im scared about certain laws that i think are in place.( pedofilia i definatly dont want to ...
A. 19 June 2012: No one in the UK that is under the age of 16 can consent to sex
You can have a relationship with her yes, kissing her is not against the law, but anything that is an act of the sexual kind is against the law
Wait untill she is 16, then you both hav... (read in full...)
My LDR g/f is an actress and has to kiss other men. I feel uneasy!
Q. Hello, actually I am in a long distance relationship since last 10 months and these months have been extremely good. As in, we enjoy each others company and love to talk to each other all day and spend time together. But the thing is that since last ...
A. 6 May 2012: I think its perfectly understandable why you would feel uneasy about it, its something you do together as an act of intimacy, so knowing or seeing her with someone else, doing what you both do, im sure there are many that would feel very insecure ... (read in full...)
Is an emotional affair like texts, emails not cheating and more like porn?
Q. I am right now very numb... Two days ago I woke up and was going to paint getting ready for my long term bf to finally move in. He had slept over and left his iPad. I was looking at the furniture that we had been looking at the night before on it ...
A. 23 February 2012: From my point of view, its cheating.
Its that emotional bond that you are supposed to have with the person you love, not with someone you know/talk to over the net or whatever.
He was sharing things that should be with you, and creating that emo... (read in full...)
How do I get through to my wife that we are over?
Q. So around 10days ago, i posted a question about myself and my wife, but we have since separated as a result of constant fights over what was so pointless and petty. But, she will not just let me be, i ask her and tell her that things are over,...
A. 23 February 2012: Thank you so much everyone for your replies and help.
Its always a good thing to look at it from another perspective and also from the outside like everyone else see's it.
I have made it clear to her that we are done and dusted, no going back and... (read in full...)
How do I get through to my wife that we are over?
Q. So around 10days ago, i posted a question about myself and my wife, but we have since separated as a result of constant fights over what was so pointless and petty. But, she will not just let me be, i ask her and tell her that things are over,...
A. 23 February 2012: Hi, thanks for your replies, most of them are very useful and helpful, although the anon reply, i didn't enter into marriage in a way that i felt was easy to get out of or want to get out of, i married for life but that changed when all we spent our ... (read in full...)
I'm sure there's something wrong, but she won't talk about it
Q. I can't work out what i have done or am doing, i am at my wits end emotionally and its because me and my wife are fighting over pretty much nothing. When you love someone, you know them, almost better than what they know themselves, so you know whe...
A. 16 February 2012: I would like to thank those of you that took the time to read this or answer, but unfortunately, we have decided to separate from eachother as its continuing and getting worse as each day goes by and to the point where crying is all i do and nothing ... (read in full...)
I'm sure there's something wrong, but she won't talk about it
Q. I can't work out what i have done or am doing, i am at my wits end emotionally and its because me and my wife are fighting over pretty much nothing. When you love someone, you know them, almost better than what they know themselves, so you know whe...
A. 9 February 2012: Hi, sorry its taken 24 hours to reply to your replies, was unable to.
And thats not the title i gave this problem DearCupid!!!
When we fight, its basically her getting so so uptight and defensive, ranting at me that im digging and that i alway... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 20 October 2011: Thank you @Tasha-1 thats very kind of you to say and wish.
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Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 18 August 2011: What people fail to understand is that as said, its not something guys choose to do of a morning waking up and saying "oh, il be jealous of your past today" Its something we cannot help and its there in our minds randomly one day and thats it, to ... (read in full...)
She has stopped the flirting but still talks to him and I have asked her not to! What can I do now?
Q. I am going around with this girl for more than a year. We were best friends for 5 years before we got into this relationship. Although we already having it tough times as her parents are not approved of her relationship with me and are completely ...
A. 1 March 2011: I had a problem in reading your question, can you just clarify something.. Did she have one or more these conversations with this guy on the net that included the description of sex while you and her have been in a relationship? ... (read in full...)
I have serious problems in breathing, but the doctors cannot find anything wrong!
Q. Okay so this isn't a relationship question but i get good advice from this website so here goes.. for about the past three months i have been having episodes where i feel like i do not get enough air when i breathe. It all started one day while ...
A. 1 March 2011: They have ruled out it being anything physically wrong with you, it is more than possible that it is an anxiety attack, which is where you have a sudden on-set of fear well up inside of you, and the fear grows to such an extreme, that you start to ... (read in full...)
How do I reassure my insecure man?
Q. Just a quick question! How do I reassure an insecure man of how I feel about him? He's distanced himself from me lately, and I'm fairly certain that it is because I've not given him enough attention. I'm uncomfortable with expressing my feelings...
A. 28 February 2011: Right now, he needs to hear your true feelings for him, he feels alone. As you have said, when he needed you, you wasn't there for him, so he also feels rejected by you. That will always suppress someones feelings. You are scared to be hurt, and is ... (read in full...)
How do I reassure my insecure man?
Q. Just a quick question! How do I reassure an insecure man of how I feel about him? He's distanced himself from me lately, and I'm fairly certain that it is because I've not given him enough attention. I'm uncomfortable with expressing my feelings...
A. 27 February 2011: You just answered your own question to a large degree, you're not showing your feeling out of self protection, and that in turn is pushing him away and causing insecurities. You know that by closing yourself off, and not being open with him, that it ... (read in full...)
My GF and her ex-BF
Q. Hello friends, I have a question about my Gf and her ex bf. but first a little background on us. I'm 25 and she's 21. I'm not very attractive or good looking but I'm very friendly and I have a good ear to listen to people. We'v been tog...
A. 27 February 2011: Take care of yourself too.
Hope you come back and let us know how it is all going. ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend that a mutual friend tried to kiss me?
Q. I have been dating this guy for about a month now and we have a mutual circle of friends. I'm majoring in computer science and most of my friends come from the same major as me, ergo they are almost all exclusively men. I've never had problems ...
A. 26 February 2011: Weed will always have effect close to booze, it clouds your decision making, reactions, and what you perceive to be a normal situation.. is in actual fact something wrong. The weed was a contributing factor to it. But as you have also said, a ... (read in full...)
My GF and her ex-BF
Q. Hello friends, I have a question about my Gf and her ex bf. but first a little background on us. I'm 25 and she's 21. I'm not very attractive or good looking but I'm very friendly and I have a good ear to listen to people. We'v been tog...
A. 26 February 2011: I am delighted for you. I hope this can be the beginning of the end to your feelings of losing her, and be the start to something truly amazing.
I sincerely hope she has taken your feeling on board totally, and you both have a wonderful and happ... (read in full...)
Penis size, what is large, average and small?
Q. Hey guys I am a dude and I'm not gay but I have read some questions about penis' and large and small but I want to know what is considered a large, average and small penis size. I am 6 inches erect and about 3.5 non erect and also where do I fall t...
A. 26 February 2011: CaringGuy is right, average like allot if fellas!
You do not need a big chopper to please a woman, no
matter what they say, because it is all down to technique, communication, listening.. that is what makes great sex, not a big willy! ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend that a mutual friend tried to kiss me?
Q. I have been dating this guy for about a month now and we have a mutual circle of friends. I'm majoring in computer science and most of my friends come from the same major as me, ergo they are almost all exclusively men. I've never had problems ...
A. 26 February 2011: I think your bf deserves to know, for the exact same reason you said, in wanting to know if a female friend of his tried to kiss him, if he never told you and you found out, maybe lead to you questioning what else he has under wraps... the same ... (read in full...)
My GF and her ex-BF
Q. Hello friends, I have a question about my Gf and her ex bf. but first a little background on us. I'm 25 and she's 21. I'm not very attractive or good looking but I'm very friendly and I have a good ear to listen to people. We'v been tog...
A. 26 February 2011: If your feeling you are losing her bit by bit, you both need to have a frank and urgent conversation, and get these feeling you have out in the open, its not going to go away by leaving it. Talk to her, make her understand your entire feelings on ... (read in full...)
Does he like me or is he playing match maker?
Q. I am not the most popular 9th grader girl but I am the most fashionable and pretty cute. I have reason to believe that (lets say his name is James) James likes me but I am not sure, please help. We have math together and I often catch him glancing ...
A. 25 February 2011: He is.. testing the water, he wants to know if you and your best guy friend will ever be more than just 'friends'. He doesn't want to ask you out as yet, because he wants to know the full story, basically, he is protecting himself from hurt or ... (read in full...)
My GF and her ex-BF
Q. Hello friends, I have a question about my Gf and her ex bf. but first a little background on us. I'm 25 and she's 21. I'm not very attractive or good looking but I'm very friendly and I have a good ear to listen to people. We'v been tog...
A. 25 February 2011: Although your feelings for this guy are what i expected them to be, you don't like him for a long list of reasons, would it maybe easy your mind, in knowing that you are a part of the conversation?
Have you told her your feelings on this? Actu... (read in full...)
He wont put his ex's in their places for me, should I stay or should I go?
Q. Ok this might be a bit lengthy I appologize in advance! So my boyfriend of 14months continues to speak to his exes and of course says they r "just friends" !! I have met one (she is engaged over 2 years now) however anytime she calls my bf ...
A. 24 February 2011: Wow, simple answer, sit him down, phone off, attention on you, and lay out what you feel, communicate to him what you feel, how he makes you feel and how these other 'friends' make you feel too, if after that, he brushes it off and acts ... (read in full...)
Am I an accessory to cheating?
Q. ok i feel disgusted with myself but, ok my bestfriend [guy] likes this girl, and he asked her out last week and she answered today and said yes, and i did not know this and he tells me he wants his first kiss with me, so im like aww not knowing he ...
A. 24 February 2011: You was used yes, but an accessory to cheating, no! He wanted his first kiss with you, sweet, but he was with a girl already, so why did he not want that first kiss with her? tbh, I think he likes you more than the girl he asked out! Don't feel so ... (read in full...)
My GF and her ex-BF
Q. Hello friends, I have a question about my Gf and her ex bf. but first a little background on us. I'm 25 and she's 21. I'm not very attractive or good looking but I'm very friendly and I have a good ear to listen to people. We'v been tog...
A. 24 February 2011: Sorry i am only just replying now, been with no net!! grr! Does she even say why she talks to him? And how often does she talk to him? An ex is exactly that, an ex, and the need to move on and leave the past where it belongs is paramount especi... (read in full...)
My GF and her ex-BF
Q. Hello friends, I have a question about my Gf and her ex bf. but first a little background on us. I'm 25 and she's 21. I'm not very attractive or good looking but I'm very friendly and I have a good ear to listen to people. We'v been tog...
A. 22 February 2011: I relate to this so much, because my gf was in constant contact with her ex, and truth be told, it p***ed me off, and i didn't like it, he was vile to me, and he was always making comments of the vile nature, so i spoke to her, and i laid my feels ... (read in full...)
I had a threesome and feel guilty about it
Q. So I was out having a good time with my friends at a bar, and I just happened to see some guys I used to know (not super close but I have known them for years) so anyways things lead to things and we end up having a threesome. I feel horrible about ...
A. 22 February 2011: Can i ask, why do you feel guilty for it? You are single, no commitments right? If so, why do you feel guilty, you never really said why! Class wise, alot of people have threesomes, there is nothing wrong with it, i would be more worried if you was ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend slept with some guy from her office. I feel I deserve better,should I forgive her?
Q. Hai my girlfriend and i have being dating for 3 years and wants to have sex, well am a virgin i am 23 and want to wait till we get married, am so commited to her, but recently found out she has being sleeping with some guy at her office she said it ...
A. 20 February 2011: I'm am sorry that you are going through being cheated on, it is gutting in a way you never though possible huh
Look, you want to wait for sex, she obviously didn't, nor did she consider you when she was with this guy, she happily slept with him... (read in full...)
My husband gave his blessings for my having an affair. Opinions?
Q. Okay, maybe I shouldn't have to think so hard about this, but I'm in a predicament...I'm married to a wonderful and kind and loving and a man who thinks the world of me and an acquaintance friend of ours (we're all the same age)wants to get toge...
A. 20 February 2011: Walk away from this, and walk fast.. introducing other people to your sex life will eventually lead to jealousy and feelings of total mis-trust. You husband has given his blessing, but be realistic here, could you sit with the thought of him ... (read in full...)
Is it bad my new husband and I have so much sex?
Q. Hi, I am married for 6 months now. But me and my husband are having sex all the time. We don't talk to each other too much when we are alone. Is it bad to have lots of sex? We have sex at least 3 times per day. I have also found out that my husba...
A. 20 February 2011: Do you enjoy the sex life you have? If you do and your husband does too, don't worry, enjoy it!
The BDSM, well, he likes to watch it, but doing it is a totally different ball game, you don't have to obviously, he might just get off watching and ... (read in full...)
I am physically unsatisfied in our relationship!!
Q. Let me start this off by saying I'm in a committed, strong, emotion-based relationship with a guy I really like. That being said, my boyfriend and I have differing tastes in the bedroom. I like a little biting a roughness (nothing crazy, by any me...
A. 20 February 2011: So what you actually mean, is you want more raw passion in the love making you and your bf have? Would that be a fair assessment? To most, 'rough' means what you said you are not after.. choking, whipping and alike!
Have you tried to use the ligh... (read in full...)
What to think about my boyfriend's female-friend?
Q. My bf and I had just gotten to our 5 months when he had an emotional affair with a new female friend. Now all I ask is if he could tell me when he goes out with friends and I would do the same. Well during that whole period I found out he went wit...
A. 19 February 2011: My best friend is female, and my gf is fully aware that my friend is in my life, but that is all she is, a friend, nothing more and never will be.
If you asked him to tell you when he goes out with friends and doesn't, maybe not read too much into... (read in full...)
Husband of 12 years admitted to an affair and a child
Q. my husband of 12 years have an affair. i confronted him and he admitted. he have a child there. this is the worst thing. he asked for forgiveness from me. i love his so deeply and i want him back and lead a happy family life with our only son who is ...
A. 19 February 2011: The trust right now is at zero, if you look into the mirror,
and ask yourself.. 'will i ever trust him again' and you get a hint of a yes, then you have a chance, right now you feel so raw, and so hurt, as anyone would be, but you both have to talk... (read in full...)
Husband of 12 years admitted to an affair and a child
Q. my husband of 12 years have an affair. i confronted him and he admitted. he have a child there. this is the worst thing. he asked for forgiveness from me. i love his so deeply and i want him back and lead a happy family life with our only son who is ...
A. 19 February 2011: Do you want him back and to be faithful for the sake of your child, or to be a real married couple? If you want him back for the sake of your child, there will always be resentment there, and it will always be putting on a brave face while ... (read in full...)
I am physically unsatisfied in our relationship!!
Q. Let me start this off by saying I'm in a committed, strong, emotion-based relationship with a guy I really like. That being said, my boyfriend and I have differing tastes in the bedroom. I like a little biting a roughness (nothing crazy, by any me...
A. 19 February 2011: So unless it is rough, you dont get anything from your sex life? Does it always have to be rough or is the room for compromise a possibility?
He might feel that if he is 'rough' with you, he may hurt you, rough sex can hurt, he might of had a past... (read in full...)
How can I hide from my husband that I'm not a virgin
Q. im not virgin and im going to married in 1 year and so how can i hide from my husband...
A. 19 February 2011: OP, why would you want to hide it from him? Does he not want to marry and be with someone for who they are, or does he want a virgin..?... (read in full...)
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