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writes:Hi, I am married for 6 months now. But me and my husband are having sex all the time. We don't talk to each other too much when we are alone. Is it bad to have lots of sex? We have sex at least 3 times per day. I have also found out that my husband like watching a type of porn called BDSM. He has not yet introduced me to it, but i am bit scared. But the internet claims it is natural. Please advise.
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reader, epicureansage  +, writes (20 February 2011):
If you don't mind having so much sex, I wouldn't worry. Nor would I be too worried about his BDSM fetish. If it's something you're comfortable exploring with him, let him know.
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reader, adamantine  +, writes (20 February 2011):
 I don't know if I would say BDSM is natural, as a lot of people would NOT want to participate in that. But there are some people who do like the idea of being tied up/tying someone up and taking control. I don't think its abnormal for a new married couple to be having sex frequently. It's probably a good thing :)
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reader, popeye_loves-cuspi  +, writes (20 February 2011):
Do you enjoy the sex life you have? If you do and your husband does too, don't worry, enjoy it!
The BDSM, well, he likes to watch it, but doing it is a totally different ball game, you don't have to obviously, he might just get off watching and never actually done it!
I would try and talk more though, as, eventually, it will become stale and feel routine 'have sex, don't talk, have sex don't talk..' Try and engage him in conversation, he will follow suit
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reader, TamyKarcz  +, writes (20 February 2011):
 Sweety it's perfectly normal! You are still newlyweds, you still discover more things about each other... it's only natural you want to spend as much time together as possible. I don't see it as an impediment, really! If you also enjoy it...then go with the flow. Trust me when i say that there is nothing wrong.. it's NOT a bad thing to have more sex [hell guys will never hold that against you]!
Ok.. so now with the porn thing...hmm i don't know what to say about that. I mean if YOU think you will enjoy a little of experimental things... go with it and see how it develops. On the other hand.. if you are scared, or simply not want to do it... you have the liberty of doing so. After all communication is the key to everything! ^_~
Good luck love!
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