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writes:So I was out having a good time with my friends at a bar, and I just happened to see some guys I used to know (not super close but I have known them for years) so anyways things lead to things and we end up having a threesome. I feel horrible about it because well it is not the classiest thing i have ever done, but I just want to know how to get over it because I feel really guilty about it...?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2011): At your age you have permission to go out and do a bit of experimentation. That includes a few instances of group sex, and possibly sampling another woman. This is what the college age years are about! You're young, go sample life and figure out what rocks your world!
It's natural the next day to have some anxiety, set some time up for yourself and see if you can work through your feelings and address what's at the root of them. Cut yourself a little slack!~
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2011): So here is the thing...I know the guys and it was ok, not the best but a good experience, but the thing is we live in a little town and I am worried this is going to get a little out of hand. I am a big girl I can handle gossip because that is the foundation of small towns but I dont know the best way to deal with it when it gets around, because i have no doubt it eventually will.
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reader, popeye_loves-cuspi  +, writes (22 February 2011):
Can i ask, why do you feel guilty for it? You are single, no commitments right? If so, why do you feel guilty, you never really said why! Class wise, alot of people have threesomes, there is nothing wrong with it, i would be more worried if you was doing this type of thing every night of the week, but it happened once, put it down to experience, and try and move on, and also, maybe watch how much you drink, as that will always affect your decision making, you don't need to get hammered to have a good time!
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reader, No watered down advice here!  +, writes (22 February 2011):
 You can't change what you did! That's a fact! Did you enjoy yourself? If so, then that's the best way to get over! You enjoyed yourself and now life goes on. Learn from your mistakes and don't do it again.
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