He ejaculated near vagina can I be pregnant?
Q. Hi i am a mother of 2 and happly married (6yrs) We are planning on a 3ed child for next year. We currently use condoms for protection which has worked the past 6yrs...BUT THEN IT HAPPEND...the condom ripped...he wasent inside me when it happened...
A. 4 January 2009: If the sperm touched your lips it's possible, but anyway a very small chance. This is how sometimes virgins happen to get pregnant, cases have been seen. If you washed up afterwards then the chances are almost null... (read in full...)
What are odds of getting a boy?
Q. Hi... Wel, i'm rather asking for people's views about this. I'm 23 years old and Jus recently, my boyfriend and i have decided to have a baby. He wants a boy and i'm happy with just any gender but would prefer a boy right now as well. Now we've be...
A. 4 January 2009: The gender of the baby doesn't matter in conceiving. It's just a matter of 50-50% try. Like throwing a coin. You may have problems conceiving, try to make a month calendar and see if you have any success by trying the most fertile days. Also if ... (read in full...)
Am I normal? Is any other guy experiencing the same thing as me?
Q. Okay so im a virgin, and when im watching porn (not masturbating) my penis gets hard. And after a while when im not watching anymore, i found in my underwear a liquid... it's not precum, it's just liquid and it does not smell or anything... i can ...
A. 4 January 2009: Masturbation is not that bad, it keeps a regular flow of eliminating sperm. As you can see if you don;t masturbate then it's eliminated in sleep or some other way ( spontaneous ).
This is the case when you don't have regular sex which is a way to e... (read in full...)
How can I make my penis get bigger and longer without pills?
Q. i am about 6in right now. how do i make my penis bigger and longer without taking pills? ...
A. 3 January 2009: I know about the penis size issues in men, just that there is no reason to make your penis bigger since it doesn't matter your penis size to give a woman an orgasm ( women can answer to that ), you may try holding your penis and push it towards the ... (read in full...)
What is fingering?
Q. Hey.... what is fingering?...
A. 3 January 2009: Producing pleasure by stimulating erogenous zones of your partner using your fingers... (read in full...)
Love at first sight - do you believe?
Q. do you guys believe in love at first sight? ...
A. 3 January 2009: I completely agree to a_decent_1. Love is something completely different of attraction or a passion. If the person really looks nice but in fact the soul is completely different or something is different then the looks then the "love" is gone.
L... (read in full...)
Am I normal? Is any other guy experiencing the same thing as me?
Q. Okay so im a virgin, and when im watching porn (not masturbating) my penis gets hard. And after a while when im not watching anymore, i found in my underwear a liquid... it's not precum, it's just liquid and it does not smell or anything... i can ...
A. 3 January 2009: Have you ever ejaculated before ?
It could be sweat, or it might be coming out of your penis after your erection has fall down ( precum ). Also take a look around to see if you look normal in there , any leakage of some weird kind may mean some... (read in full...)
First kiss advice
Q. I am approaching my 18th birthday and I have yet to kiss a girl. When I was in 7th grade my Uncle who was essentially my father passed away suddenly due to a stroke.I went to see a doctor for depression and am fine now. A year after his dea...
A. 3 January 2009: Well if the girl you want to kiss really likes you she will probably like it when you kiss her. First kiss is something more emotional than actual real something. Don't think she will expect you to do it perfect and that's normal. And don't think a ... (read in full...)
I can't find that special person and won't waste a kiss on someone else, am I normal?
Q. I have been told I'm romantic and an amazing catch,but no girls ever take interest in me. I'm 5'8 and weight around 160 pounds.I'm not interested in random hookups to which I've been called gay because of it. I want my first kiss as well as ev...
A. 3 January 2009: There is nothing wrong with you. You have a lot of love to offer and perhaps you didn't find yet a person that is truly worth it. Inexperience is not that bad, some girls might like the same thing that you are : not sleeping around with everybody, ... (read in full...)
I'd do anything to find a girlfriend, what should I do?
Q. Hi here is my question I'll do anything to get a girlfriend, iv run 18 miles with flowers to see them, for them to turn me down and not even talk to me. I take 3 hours on a train just to see them, i take them for nice walks, i hold there hand...
A. 3 January 2009: What do you mean by a girlfriend at this time ? Having nice walks with a girl, holding her hand perhaps hold her in your arms, a kiss looks like girlfriend to me
If they don't talk to you anymore after you did all this looks quite strange. How many... (read in full...)
Do men like virgins?
Q. Do men like virgins?...
A. 3 January 2009: There are a lot of variety of men around. I know men that don't want to go out with virgins because they lack experience and can't satisfy them too well and I know men that just appreciate a girl for her innocence and her self respect. But I believe ... (read in full...)
She said "I didn't know what to say" when I expressed my feelings! Now what?
Q. Okay, so here is my problem. I really like this girl, and I have liked her for awhile. I felt like she had been flirting back, and my buddy told me she had as well. So I had been really struggling with whether or not to tell her I like her/ask ...
A. 3 January 2009: Nothing is lost for sure. I believe that when trying to tell somebody important things like this, you should try face to face.
If you got an anonymous message saying somebody likes/loves you, then you got another message saying it's some spec... (read in full...)
I don't want to get too close
Q. a good friend told me that he is attracted to me. i like him a lot as a friend and he is a great human being. in general i am afraid of relationships/getting close because im insecure about my many faults and hide some big emotional problems. i ...
A. 3 January 2009: He is attracted to you right, so he sees something beautiful in you. When somebody loves another person, it loves him/her for their good and their bad. Even if you have faults, who doesn't ? Don't be afraid of them as all that makes us human are our ... (read in full...)
Guys, girls, I need your insight on my situation with my longtime crush.
Q. Hey. I'm a common 18 year old girl that has been plunged into the depths of lovesickness! I'm in desperate need of love advice - so please help me if you can! Here's my question... Ever since I was 7, I've really REALLY liked this guy tha...
A. 3 January 2009: I ment that perhaps he would understand you better if he knew the whole story from your point of view. I'm sure that his interpretation of all this is quite different as you can see from his reactions... (read in full...)
What can I do or take to lessen my chance of getting pregnant?
Q. yesterday me and my bf ended up having unprotected sex. i know it was really stupid so in not looking for thoses comments saying "well u shouldnt have had sex in the first place u stupid girl" caz i know it was stupid. ok i was stying the night at ...
A. 2 January 2009: There isn't much you can actually do, except pray for the worst not to happen. Wait some time and take a pregnancy test, and make this a lesson for the future.
Usually a vaginal cleaning/washing can help but that just after having sex so in your... (read in full...)
Did I do something wrong here?
Q. after speaking to him how i feel about the fact that he still had a photo of his ex wife on their wedding done, and her number under sweetheart. I told him how feel and hurt i was. To make a long story sort, he said i am special to him and i mean a ...
A. 2 January 2009: Perhaps he has trouble letting go of his ex wife. And he perhaps thought that marrying you will solve his problem and make him happy but it actually didn't. You should talk to him and see if this really is the issue.
You never do something wron... (read in full...)
Guys, girls, I need your insight on my situation with my longtime crush.
Q. Hey. I'm a common 18 year old girl that has been plunged into the depths of lovesickness! I'm in desperate need of love advice - so please help me if you can! Here's my question... Ever since I was 7, I've really REALLY liked this guy tha...
A. 2 January 2009: Well I;m a guy but I will try to answer some of your questions...
First of all it seems you have a very unusual personality and you are very impulsive, perhaps of shyness. You should try to control yourself more , acting on some impulses is not usua... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant? Please help me!
Q. i had unproctected sex with my boss on dec 27. he was only inside me for about 5 mins, but before he went inside me i noticed the tip of his penis was very wet and i think i might have ovaleted the day before. could i be pregnant? and what are the ...
A. 2 January 2009: The most fertile days of the period are at the middle of the biological month when the egg is actually expelled from the ovary and it's ready to be fecundated, so if your period comes on 10th looks a little bad. I think you should be more careful on ... (read in full...)
Telling someone how you feel - say it? Or write it?
Q. f you were going to tell someone how you feel - they've been confusing you so much and you dont know whats going on and you need to explain something about whats been happening with you. is it better to say it to them? or is it better to w...
A. 2 January 2009: Make it in a private context, and make sure he is really listening to what you have to say perhaps tell him before that you have something important to say and that you've been thinking a lot about it... (read in full...)
If a guy was just trying to "score a virgin"... would he...?
Q. This question is more for the guys (lol) (this is a girl that is asking tho) If a guy was just trying to 'Score a virgin', get a 'v-card' or whatever - not nice but there are guys like that!!! lol 1. Would you still keep the girl around ? ...
A. 2 January 2009: I see there is much you're still not telling us.
If this is just a hypothetical situation , I can answer for some hypothesis: such a man has very little feelings from the start since all he wants is "the score". He uses a lot of lies, and usua... (read in full...)
Says he loves me but won't break up with his girlfriend
Q. Im 16 and he is 21. That isn't the problem though. He has a girlfriend. I have spoken to him about it and the only thing he says is you know how i feel about the situation. He claims to love me but then he doesnt want to break up with his girlfriend ...
A. 2 January 2009: He might be under emotional stress, not knowing what to do . He probably has feelings for both of you , and you can't compare love to different persons because it's different everytime. Perhaps he needs some time to choose or he cares about his ... (read in full...)
Wife cheated while wearing her wedding dress
Q. My wife cheated on me. The guy she did it with wanted her to wear her wedding dress while she sucked him off and while he fucked her. She did this for him, and let him cum all over her dress. I'm not sure what i should be feeling here, but its not ...
A. 2 January 2009: It depends if you love your wife or not. What she did is a very bad thing for your relationship and for you. You should talk to your wife and see what she feels about it and what there is left for your marriage. If you love your wife then you will ... (read in full...)
Telling someone how you feel - say it? Or write it?
Q. f you were going to tell someone how you feel - they've been confusing you so much and you dont know whats going on and you need to explain something about whats been happening with you. is it better to say it to them? or is it better to w...
A. 2 January 2009: Having emotion is normal if you say something this important. Even if you forget something, he will surely get what you mean. Having emotion will make him believe you more, that you are actually feeling what you are saying. Don't be afraid of your ... (read in full...)
Help with anal, oral and videotaping it all?
Q. Hey my bf wants to try anal and he wants me to swallow his cum and videotape it all im cool with the videotaping part though. i just need to know how to give him the most pleasure in anal and how to recieve anal, also i need to know how to give a ...
A. 2 January 2009: Just my 2 cents: whatever you do with your boyfriend is all right as long as you both agree to it and you like. If you are sure you really want to do this then go ahead but make sure your boyfriend treats you right as you are and respects you. Maybe ... (read in full...)
What does it mean if my boyfriend and I don't have sex as often as we used to?
Q. What does it mean if my boyfriend and I don't have sex as often as we used to? He says he is so tired lately but for some reason I feel like he isn't as interested or attracted to me. We don't live together, and we are both 19, if that is any help. ...
A. 1 January 2009: Perhaps he has something on his mind or some problem of some sort. If he says he is tired he probably is, but that doesn't mean he is not attracted to you or he has somebody else. You should speak to him and see what problem he has ( might be a ... (read in full...)
How can I make my boobs less saggy?
Q. My boobs are really droopy and I don't want to show them to my boyfriend. I can't even look at them myself. How can I make my boobs less saggy? I know why they are like that, I yoyo diet, and I want to lose weight again but whenever I do my boobs ...
A. 1 January 2009: Even though you don't want to show your boyfriend, be sure that in fact he feels more or less or knows how you look like. Don't be scared of yourself, he is your boyfriend for how you are right now, and he probably likes you like that. For a man, a... (read in full...)
I'm in need of love
Q. Dear cupid.. please help im in need for love...im so empty..and i also have an anorexic friend that i wanna help..what should i do?...
A. 1 January 2009: It's a normal feeling that you have, everybody has this need for love. But be sure you are not paying a too high price for love that you might regret later If you can help your friend go ahead and do it. ... (read in full...)
I'm so upset my 16 year old daughter lost her virginity
Q. Im a mother with strong beliefs .right know i can't think straight just found out that my sixteen year old (girl)lost her virginity and im so hurt im purely old school hey you want that you got to pay the responsibility. my husband wants to beat the ...
A. 1 January 2009: Perhaps you as a mother have part of the fault because this is very much part of the education she gets and her self respect. If you have strong beliefs perhaps you should have tried to teach your daughter in their spirit, so now that she does this ... (read in full...)
Whats his game?
Q. Happy new year all My ex bf was at the same new years eve party as me, he was a little tippsey, but he keept coming over to me kissing me on the check and nose all the time, he also keept telling everyone i was his ex, he was also doing sexual a...
A. 1 January 2009: He might have a negative feedback of your breaking up, and this is the way he's trying to handle it: drink and still you-related perhaps give him a glimpse back of your old relationship.
Another possibility is that he's trying to see what he did ... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to jerks!
Q. i am attract to jerks,who treated me like dirt who are selfish,mean,arrorgant,indepdent,shallow,ambitious,competitive,aggresstive,domneering,intimating,boastful, who only get a girlfreind when ever its suits and to show her off.when its suits or...
A. 1 January 2009: Perhaps this type of guy is your sensation of masculinity. Try to discover what other guys have to offer and see if they have something that attracts you. Also , this preference might pass away with time and you might find some other qualities/bad ... (read in full...)
How do I let go of the ex?
Q. Well after a messy end to my 4 yr relationship, I started seeing a lovely guy I'd met through friends. He treated me great, we got on well, and things were looking good. The my ex came back on the scene causing mayhem. And the guy just couldn't ...
A. 1 January 2009: You don't let go. He was an important part of your life and it always will be. You need to accept it inside you as experience and past. Everything that happens to us defines us and makes us who we are. You can't deny what happened, you can keep it ... (read in full...)
Why hasn't he contacted me now?
Q. Hi all, Theres this boy I speak to online. I have never met him before but I know hes not anyone werid as he only just stays 10 minutes from me and I know some of his family. He is 19 and I am only 15 I really really like him and I think ...
A. 1 January 2009: Online relationships can be very charming but very tricky. You have the impression that you really know the person, but in fact you mostly fall in love for the image that you actually have in mind for him and that you create, and not the real ... (read in full...)
He perves at young girls and looks at porn, am I overreacting here?
Q. I found out that my 32 year old husband looks at porn online. Mostly just pictures of naked women and women with lingerie on. This doesnt bother me too much BUT I recentely discovered he has been looking at young teens. Now I am only 30 and am g...
A. 1 January 2009: To be honest, all males have sexual fantasies or fetishes. All men have erotic dreams, this is completely unwillingly and not their fault, and nothing to be jealous about. ( Most dreams don't even have a predetermined woman, just a female presence ... (read in full...)
How can lesbians KNOW they're lesbians? Do they know from an early age?
Q. OK I have a question that I'm really unclear about. NOTE: I dont have anything against gays/lesbians OK so... I know a few people who are lesbians and I really want to know if people who are gay/lesbian, do you know it when you're small? ...
A. 1 January 2009: Homosexual persons are not born like this. Neither are the rest. When you are born, you are told " you are a boy " or "you are a girl". That changes nothing about oneself. In normal cases children develop in a family with a mother and father. This ... (read in full...)
Depressed with no improvements...
Q. Another year older and even more depressed, I have nothing to show for it, not even a freind, no job, no car, no life, no social life, never had boyfriend at this stage there is no point, never travelled, the country is in recession. Life is going ...
A. 1 January 2009: First of all hope is the most important. I don't want to give you illusions, it's all up to you. Find the strength in what you please most and what you care most about. Take a piece of paper and write down all the things that are important to you. ... (read in full...)
Can I get some detailed thoughts on what I should do and why?
Q. I am 16 and I am a virgin, I just recently got a really nice girl who happens to be 14. Whenever I look at this I think I am a wierdo, but in all actuality I really just want a good relationship and I think she can provide it. So we were talking ...
A. 1 January 2009: I think you should live your fantasy first. Having sex at such a beautiful age will cut out the beauty of platonic love and jump both of you straight 10 years from now. There is plenty of time for both of you to enjoy life in all it's stages. Don't ... (read in full...)
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