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*nknown boy age 15
writes: Hi here is my questionI'll do anything to get a girlfriend, iv run 18 miles with flowers to see them, for them to turn me down and not even talk to me.I take 3 hours on a train just to see them, i take them for nice walks, i hold there hand, i walk on the out side of the path whilst walking with them. please i'd do anything to find a girl, what shall i do?please give me some advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): Just find a girl you like and ask her out, but don't start listing that stuff u just did to her, she'd find it potentially creepy instead of gallantly romantic.
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reader, NITRAM BLUE +, writes (3 January 2009):
please i'd do anything to find a girl, what shall i do?
You sound desperate to find a girl. As in any girl? 13-15 y.o. geez, ok. If you can enumerate 10 reasons why you need a girl then it would be easy for you to find a girl.
Any girl will not do. She has to be unique and her feelings must be mutual and in conformity with yours. She has emotions too and rights as well. You have to respect those or you gonna wish you didn't do anything to find a girl.
It will happen by accident and it requires patience. Try to fish in a lake or in a pond, see if you can catch any. That is how patient it is in finding a girl.
But before finding a girl, enumerate the 10 good reasons why you need to find a girl. If you cant, then you have no reason at all. Why go for it?
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reader, pietry +, writes (3 January 2009):
What do you mean by a girlfriend at this time ? Having nice walks with a girl, holding her hand perhaps hold her in your arms, a kiss looks like girlfriend to me
If they don't talk to you anymore after you did all this looks quite strange. How many girls did that to you ? You might have been unlucky and found a strange girl that behaves weird ( seen some around too ). But that's no reason to despair. Continue to be nice with them and I'm sure you will find one that will like you.
In short words, you don;t need to do more than what you are already doing, just have patience
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (3 January 2009):
Hi again.
You've had a girlfriend. You've said so in previous questions. The fact it didn't work out isn't the end of the world.
You are very young so I know it's hard but seriously, don't worry about things like this. There are bigger things in life.
Good Luck!! xx
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