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writes:I am approaching my 18th birthday and I have yet to kiss a girl.When I was in 7th grade my Uncle who was essentially my father passed away suddenly due to a stroke.I went to see a doctor for depression and am fine now.A year after his death I met a girl and we got along great.We talked Online(AIM) and became really close.I met her on a cruise and she lives far away. I became really attached to her and she was the only girl I could find myself attracted to. Awhile ago she decided to end our friendship and I have been shaken up since.I am now however fine and want to begin to date.I wouldn't say I'm ugly,but I wouldn't say I'm amazingly attractive either.I'm around 5'8 and 160 pounds.I think I'm average by all standards even penis size even though that doesn't matter in my case. My friend had said I was the perfect guy because I only care about the girls pleasure and not really my own.I just want to know how I can have my first kiss be enjoyable and good for the other person. I don't want to have to tell the girl because than it could get around and be embarrassing but I also don't want to be her worst kiss.I don't need anyone to say I'm weird,a freak,or a loser because I already know that.I'm just looking for advice on how to make it good for her.
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reader, kennyj +, writes (12 April 2011):
 A first romantic kiss is super important that it be memorable because guys and girls remember nearly every detail about their first kiss. Really, your first kiss can make or break your relationship.
While guys prefer open mouth kissing, girls complain about too much tongue and sloppy, wet kissing. Use the right amount of tongue-to-lips-to-teeth-ratio.
Take a look at this post for some more good kissing tips:
http://whattotextagirl.net/2011/02/14/how-to-kiss-a-girl/
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reader, Little Lisa  +, writes (3 January 2009):
You're not weird, a freak or a loser, stop putting yourself down. So you're approaching 18 and haven't kissed anyone, big deal, I bet you it's more common than you think. Relax, it will come naturally when the time is right. Not that I'm advising this, but I was drunk when I had my first kiss and didn't get any complaints. You'll be fine.
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reader, pietry  +, writes (3 January 2009):
 Well if the girl you want to kiss really likes you she will probably like it when you kiss her. First kiss is something more emotional than actual real something. Don't think she will expect you to do it perfect and that's normal. And don't think a specific way of kissing is actually the best way to do on everyone ! Some may like you being gentle, others want you to be more fast or putting more pressure, others may want you working with your hands too.
The things is you don;t know until you try. You won't be so good the first time no matter what you read or know. You need to feel her and see what she likes and what she doesn't.
Just try and you will do good, you will feel what you have to do just by doing it and while doing it.
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