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writes:I have been told I'm romantic and an amazing catch,but no girls ever take interest in me.I'm 5'8 and weight around 160 pounds.I'm not interested in random hookups to which I've been called gay because of it.I want my first kiss as well as everything else such as virginity to be special and with a girl I truly happy with.The girls at my Highschool tend to annoy me as most of them tend to sleep around a lot.I don't want to be just another notch on the bedpost or whatever.All the girls I've met and have had feelings for had ended up hurting my feelings.As I said I'm 18,but I haven't even shared my first kiss yet.I know that not normal and embarrassing.I want it to be special and with someone I truly care about and I can't find that person!When I do find that person how do I make the kiss better because chances are she will have had more kisses and possibly have had sex,I'd be to embarrassed to say I haven't had my first kiss or that she was my first kiss,but I also wouldn't want her saying it to the school if I told her. I also don't want to be the worst kiss she's ever had.I am strange in where all my friends say they would never perform oral on a girl,I find myself wishing to give the girl the most pleasure possible.Not that I've done so as I am completely inexperienced and have been called a loser over it.Is there anything wrong with me??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): Good for you. I lost my virginity at 15, it was horrible. I really wasn't emotionally mature enough. I wish I'd waited until I was older and with someone I genuinely cared about. Relax, in time you'll meet someone who thinks like you. The guys at school sound really imature, there view on oral sex just proves it. Oral sex is usually part of an adult sexual relationship. I bet they'd expect to recieve it, they'd be pretty selfish, rubbish sexual partners if they weren't willing to give it in return, beside a lot of guys actually enjoy giving oral sex. It just show's they're not as sexually mature as they'd like to make out.
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reader, a_decent_1  +, writes (3 January 2009):
 Buddy.. !!
You're THE BEST.. !! Trust me on that.. There are very few people like you and i SALUTE you for what you've said.. !!
I had my First Kiss when i was 19 Dude.. I am just like you.. I wanted to save my first Kiss for a girl I TRULY LOVE. And i got a girl who had saved herself for me.. !!
You completely normal and have good morals.. !!
Well Done. .!!
G'day
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reader, NITRAM BLUE  +, writes (3 January 2009):
 Is there anything wrong with me??? None.
16-17 y.o. still fresh from puberty. You will gonna experience things in the future. Don't be impatient. You will get there.
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reader, pietry  +, writes (3 January 2009):
 There is nothing wrong with you. You have a lot of love to offer and perhaps you didn't find yet a person that is truly worth it. Inexperience is not that bad, some girls might like the same thing that you are : not sleeping around with everybody, being strong faithed and they will feel they are not "another notch" as well.
My advice is don't look in the middle of the room. Don't look at the girls everybody knows and the girls that are in the middle of the attention. Look around you and see that shy girl in the corner, the one you never thought about, I bet she has a lot to offer as well and she is really wonderful in her own way.
If she likes you then she will like kissing you even if you don't do it perfect from the first time. She will think you're wonderful as well. Nobody was born knowing to kiss. Don't worry about yourself, keep confidence that you will find what you are looking for
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (3 January 2009):
You are mature for your age, and hanging around a bunch of teenagers. They are going to call you stupid names.
Deal with it and life will get better when they grow up.
Good Luck!! xx
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