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writes:This question is more for the guys (lol) (this is a girl that is asking tho)If a guy was just trying to 'Score a virgin', get a 'v-card' or whatever - not nice but there are guys like that!!! lol1. Would you still keep the girl around ?2. Or ditch her?3. How long would you wait before you disappear?or ask a massive favour that is going to keep her around for at least the next 6 months..????? would you tell her that you still smile at her photos and they are very cute?thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): You're a virgin being encouraged to lose it with a guy now, right? Well I think you should love a guy that loves your virginity, but fear a guy that loves it a little too much. Especially if he's clearly not a virgin but your virginity has been large in his mind.
One time I actually saw guy put at least 6 months of relationship into a virgin and then start pulling back within a week after getting her in the sack. He had officially broken it off before another month from then.
It seems completely counter-intuitive to most of us, but these guys are out there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): I know you said for guys but he would ditch you right away or try to get more sex from you. Some real jerks might pretend he likes you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): I have never been in your situation.But I have got an analytical brain.
He sounds like a player.He seems to be looking for more time in the sack.
He is just checking if you would put out for him again.Run!Run Girl!in the opposite direction.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): There must be a reason why you're asking the questions, and I'd love to know what it is! Anyway:-
1. Probably
2. Unlikely
3. Until one got fed up with being with the other I suppose
4. Can't say without knowing what the favour is
5. If a white lie ensured further legovers I might.
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (2 January 2009):
guys are assholes!
of course not all men are like this, well actually i wouldn't put it past them.
all you can do is maybe look out for the signs that he is using you or going to use you. like he will talk about sex all the time, find out about past realtionships. the best thing to do is if you are ever unsure of a guy, make him wait for sex for a good few months of dating him. i did this with one guy and all he kept talking about was sex, so i guessed that's all he wanted. didn't stay with him. i did the same with another guy and he never really mentioned sex, and we had a great relationship and sex life. it's all about being able to read a person and figure out what they really want.
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reader, pietry  +, writes (2 January 2009):
 I see there is much you're still not telling us.
If this is just a hypothetical situation , I can answer for some hypothesis: such a man has very little feelings from the start since all he wants is "the score". He uses a lot of lies, and usually is the good looking type that women fall easy for. He usually dumps them very fast, or after he gets bored ( since he is girl-jumping that happens quite fast )
Having the guy wanting the girl around it means he is not that "scorer" after all perhaps he has something behind but can't know more about it. It depends on what relation they had before the actual sexual contact and what happened after wards.
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