My daughter is ten! Is this sexual role play normal?
Q. my daughter is ten and is friends with a girl the same age. my daughter told me about a year ago that her friend masturbates in their class at school (which i have since told the head teacher) and has now told me that this girl has been role playing ...
A. 2 November 2009: The fact that this little girl is openly masturbating in class suggests that her perception of what is acceptable sexual behaviour isn't right, it also suggests that she is doing it in an environment which it is openly allowed and probably from a ... (read in full...)
Are these actions normal for a man almost 30 yrs old?
Q. My boyfriend (29) and I (25) were really enjoying having sex the other night and when he wanted to have anal sex I said no because I knew that my stomach was not up for it. He knows that I really do not like it yet I have promised to continue doing ...
A. 17 October 2009: Thats Vile!
Show him the door, thats just plain wrong!... (read in full...)
I lied to my parents and now I'm afraid its going to blow up in my face
Q. i messed up a little last year and did stupid things , one of these things was telling my parents that i'm staying at a friend's house to study when i was staying over at my bf's place , didn't get caught . now that friend's mum is calling at the ...
A. 12 October 2009: Lies always get found out, it's just one of life's lessons!
I think maybe if you just told your mum thats what you did, Yes she might be mad at you for a little while, but at least you came clean! It would be 10 times worse if she had to find out... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I had sex without protection, but I had my period. Could I be pregnant anyway?
Q. okay so me an my boyfriend had sex without a condom cuz we didnt have 1 like a week and a half ago. he pulled out wenever he was ganna cum and ive had my period already but cud i still b pregnant? because hes ben freakin out cuz ppl have made it ...
A. 12 October 2009: 13and26forever - So relieved he isn't what we all thought, I hope you got the advice you wanted :) And thank you for your feedback, happy to help!
Other Aunts, Particularly Rythmandblues2 - My sincere apologies, It was very inappropriate of me to... (read in full...)
Fashion tips for orientation?
Q. Hi am looking for an outfit idea to where to my freshman orientation for grade nine! At the school im going to theres like a whole day made out of it lol! And the school is really preppy like brands like hollister ,abercrombie, american eagle, ...
A. 10 October 2009: Firstly, Just go in what ever your comfortable in....Just totally be yourself.
If people do like you image thats there problem and not yours, if you are being yourself, you'll ooze confidence and people will notice you regardless of what your wea... (read in full...)
I'm 17, still a virgin and I really don't want to be!
Q. Heya, I'm 17, still a virgin and .. I really don't want to be! All my friends are in relationships and having lots of sex or just having sex anyway. I have quite a lot of male friends that I am close friends with and feel confident around but I seem ...
A. 10 October 2009: Why on earth are you in such a rush to lose this??
Trust me, you dont want to be! Save it until you meet the right guy, are in a relationship where you feel safe, secure, comfortable and respected. I lost my virginity through a one night stand, a... (read in full...)
Shouldn't she inspire me to get my driver's license?
Q. I really fell for this girl I met online. We dont live too close by, but its not that far either. About 30-40 minute drive. We have been talking for months and we planned on getting together a few months back, but things didnt work out. Then we ...
A. 10 October 2009: Ok so you need the inspiration from the girl to pass your driving test however this girl is putting pressure on you to do something your not overly confident with, and that you think your going to fail, but she wont get with you until you pass even ... (read in full...)
What's the point of a relationship?
Q. i need to know whats the point of a relationship? after being dumped, cheated on, hurting others, and my obsession with romance. ive lost my way and reasons why a relationship is so important...
A. 10 October 2009: There not! Its just what people have always done! It dates back from when we were animals and would pair up to mate, as we have evolved over time so has the 'relationship' from being just nature, to this complex thing that involves so many... (read in full...)
Can you feel it if your soulmate dies without having ever met them?
Q. A very weird question I know but my friend has recently been telling me that she has these really bad aches as though she has lost someone in her life, which she hasn't, and she says it feels like she can never love anyone again but she doesn't know ...
A. 10 October 2009: Echo the posts below...She seems full of it! i am very connected to the spirit world and I have never heard of someone going through this, it could be linked to other things, like a spirit guide crossing over or if she is a sensitive she could just ... (read in full...)
I can't afford protection so are there any other methods of birth control?
Q. My boyfriend wants me to live with him in his car. He hates his father and his mother kicked him out. He asked me to help him clean it out because of all the vodka bottles in the back seat. He chain smokes, so that will take some getting used to. ...
A. 10 October 2009: Ok sweetheart, firstly...this post screams that you are with this bloke because you crave your fathers love and attention! Please Please Please, do not live in this guy's car with him, It's insane! Yes be it romantic, liberating and exciting....... (read in full...)
I had dreams that are now coming true! Were they telling me something?
Q. Sometime in July or August I had the same type of dream about someone who I thought I was in love with. I had it 3 nights in a row, and the dream was about me trying to get her attention and trying to say that I'm sorry to her, but she'd always walk ...
A. 10 October 2009: That was a very mature reply! Im impressed! Good for you, Its very difficult not to have an ego...took me years to understand and control mine, I had to completley change my whole school of thought, all through working with horses actually! it's ... (read in full...)
How do I help him stop undergoing unnecessary pain?
Q. My boyfriend gets upset about my past (not really a wild past, but it upsets him). He's very confused, because he loves me. However, he says rationally, he knows the past is long gone and that I love him now, but that irationally he can't help ...
A. 10 October 2009: Your question is a little confusing, as to why he is feeling like this.
What he a part of your past?
Is it still affecting you now?
To be honest, I dont think the is much to say other than 'get over it' there is no way you can change whats... (read in full...)
I had dreams that are now coming true! Were they telling me something?
Q. Sometime in July or August I had the same type of dream about someone who I thought I was in love with. I had it 3 nights in a row, and the dream was about me trying to get her attention and trying to say that I'm sorry to her, but she'd always walk ...
A. 10 October 2009: ok very basically, Its when you think your a better than other people. It can also take other forms such as when you think everything revolves around you or when you make big deal out of things for the attention - all for the egotistical benefits.
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Has anyone else had a similar experience....letting a guy kiss you in a club?
Q. Basically we were all out and bit tipsy. Some guy said "let me kiss you on the check and these girls will make out", naturally I said yes because the girls were nice looking and it's only my cheek. Then he said if he kisses my lips then I can have ...
A. 10 October 2009: Get over it lol??
Haha...I love your little added 'im now reformed' comment at the bottom
You were tipsy and everyone gets upto drunken antics!!
I dont advise you keep it as a story to tell the grandkids tho!!
LOL... (read in full...)
I had dreams that are now coming true! Were they telling me something?
Q. Sometime in July or August I had the same type of dream about someone who I thought I was in love with. I had it 3 nights in a row, and the dream was about me trying to get her attention and trying to say that I'm sorry to her, but she'd always walk ...
A. 10 October 2009: an inflated feeling of pride in your superiority to others
self: your consciousness of your own identity
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My boyfriend got a girl pregnant?
Q. Hello everyone, I am in desperate need of some advice. I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years now. I am 20 and he is 22. I have to say he is my everything, I am deeply in love with him. Our relationship has always been a good one, except ...
A. 10 October 2009: Wow! That is really noble of him, I admire him for what he is doing. He risks losing everything, so that his baby stands a chance at a life!
I would be incredibley proud of him for that.
Now the cheating part....I truley believe that in ... (read in full...)
Is there something wrong with me if I don't enjoy oral sex?
Q. So I have a boyfriend and we've been with each other for just over 7 months now. We've been having oral sex for a little while now as I'm not really ready for sex yet and he's fine with that. But, the problem is when he gives me oral sex I don't ...
A. 10 October 2009: There is absolutley nothing wrong with you!
Different people enjoy sex to different degree's. Your young and inexperienced. I imagine the whole thing is still pretty stressful and uncomfortable for you!
My advice is to experiment on yo... (read in full...)
I need advice before I change my phone number and emails!
Q. We break up for months and there isn't any contact since then. Days ago, she called, saying she miss me. The next day, I called her, she said she miss me again. Before we end the conversation, she said tomorrow she is going to call. She nev...
A. 10 October 2009: I would change your phone and emails.
start afresh, you deserve better!
Love and Light
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My boyfriend and I had sex without protection, but I had my period. Could I be pregnant anyway?
Q. okay so me an my boyfriend had sex without a condom cuz we didnt have 1 like a week and a half ago. he pulled out wenever he was ganna cum and ive had my period already but cud i still b pregnant? because hes ben freakin out cuz ppl have made it ...
A. 10 October 2009: Firstly, It is not Rape!
And way to go to scare the hell into the poor girl rythmandblues2!
ok sweetheart, yes there is still a chance that you could be pregnant, the best thing to do is to do a test and see. as some of the comments have al... (read in full...)
I had dreams that are now coming true! Were they telling me something?
Q. Sometime in July or August I had the same type of dream about someone who I thought I was in love with. I had it 3 nights in a row, and the dream was about me trying to get her attention and trying to say that I'm sorry to her, but she'd always walk ...
A. 10 October 2009: Your dreams are your subconscious making sense of the the things we experience in our day to day lives. So that fact that you dreamt that this was going to happen, means you knew deep down that the situation was going to take this path,
Did y... (read in full...)
Did I experience an orgasm?
Q. Hey guys, I just wanted 2 ask a kind stupid question, but oh well...well basically it first happened when my bf was rubbing me over my trousers, i got this amazing feeling which made my whole body get hot and it makes me feel so tight kind of ...
A. 10 October 2009: unfortunatley...as amazing as it was, thats as good as it gets lol!
I certainly wouldnt bother going any further, its just uncomfortable and stressful....for weeks after, even if you do use contraception, you hear all sorts of horror stories.... (read in full...)
Any suggestions on vegetarian meals I can have?
Q. I'm a vegetarian and I have an alergy to anything with egg in, I have no idea what to eat because my choices are pretty slim, everyone i date thinks it's weird and that i'm just being awkward. Does anyone have any suggestions as to what meals I can ...
A. 10 October 2009: Oh my.....
There is so much you can eat!!
Curry - Quorn piece's, veg, rice - Simple!
Spag Bol - Quorn mince, sauce, veg, pasta (egg free)
Salad
Chilli
Pasta bakes
veggie hot pots
roast veg with rice or pasta
pizza - homemade on bread... (read in full...)
Why does this girl run so hot and cold?
Q. So, theres this girl brittany in two of my classes , shes 15 and very cute and i know point blank that she likes me, but recently shes been getting pretty strange. For one, she gave me her number but then didnt get back to my text. When i asked her ...
A. 10 October 2009: She is 15!!!
She is young and just starting to experiment with boys! She probably doesnt know what her personal space boundaries are yet, her hormones will be all over the place and she is just testing the water with you....and probably other bo... (read in full...)
Females only, please: I'm in love with my sister!
Q. Probably I'm gonna get flamed here but I'm just curious if there are people out there like me and my sister. Everything started out as kid play. We both loved our Barbies and dressed up as princesses. We made up these stories about being save...
A. 10 October 2009: I can't relate to your situation at all.
But found your post fascinating! I work with alot of sexually abused girls, and they sometimes posses displaced feelings towards inappropriate people (inapropriate in a socially acceptable sense) So your ... (read in full...)
I like two girls but who should I choose?
Q. So I've known two girls for the last two years: let's call them Sophie and Katy. I've probably talked to Sophie more and we get along really well (same type of humor and things like that), but she's really shy and kind of a loner. So, she doesn't ...
A. 10 October 2009: I dont think you are shallow for choosing Katy, Everyone is first attracted to the one they find the nicer one too look at, its human nature! Its once you get to know the people that you can make a more informed decsision as too who you would rather ... (read in full...)
I seem to attract girls who always end up cheating on me, please help.
Q. Im a 16 year old boy, and I know I'm probably too young to really be needing this advice, but I just want some help. I seem to attract women who always end up cheating on me. That or they're awkward relationships that end in two weeks. I don't k...
A. 8 October 2009: Firstly, NOTHING is wrong with you! Your 16, you should be out having fun with friends, and messing around with girls not worrying about long term relationships!
However you asked for advice....so here it is, Girls that cheat are often very ins... (read in full...)
Stuck in a verbal abusive relationship, I fear he will take my child if I leave!
Q. After years of verbal abuse i have decided its best for me and my child to leave, but i cant seem to just leave im scared he will take my 15 month away from me and of his reaction, i know what i need to do but i dont know how. i dont know how to t...
A. 8 October 2009: Is there anywhere safe You and Your child can go where he will be unable to find you and in which you will be safe??
I dont advise trying to leave until you have somewhere that is safe for you both to go.
I really feel for you, but I think you ... (read in full...)
I still miss my first love after 2 years... is this normal? How can I fix it?
Q. Drunkenly I've looked at an old girlfriends profile over facebook. We've not spoken for about a year and half and separated over 2 years ago... yet, having read that she's in a relationship brings up strong feelings of sadness and envy. Surely af...
A. 8 October 2009: Its a tough one,
When you spend alot of time with one particular person you develop energetical attachments, it can be for people, animals, places, hobbies etc something that you put alot of your energy into and something you get good energy b... (read in full...)
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