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One way or the other I'm going to hurt someone, and I'll be hurt too!
Q. please help, i come from a very religious family. we are christians and my family follow the faith to the letter. recently they found out that my best friend is a lesbian through the gossips in our village. they were disgusted. they told me ...
A. 11 June 2010: Ah yess, the oldest dilema in time...Faith versus reality. i'm sad to report there is but one path to follow if you believe in the bible and doesn't include same sex unions. Ergo, you will have to remove yourself from the back and forth and make ... (read in full...)
He looked at porn right after we made love - whats wrong with me?
Q. I recently posted on here as i'd accidently discovered my fiance had been looking at porn on the computer..only one site had come up so i tried not to let it bother me as you all said and put it down to a one off. But earlier curiosity got the ...
A. 9 June 2010: why would you ever try to think it's your fault? makes it sound as if you're "holding back' or something. The thing about porn is it inflates the acts of sex to the point where NO one can fulfill the expectations of ... (read in full...)
Should I stay with him or go have fun?
Q. Ok so, I've had boyfriend for a year and 3 months now and we never have any problems just a couple small arguments, you know normal stuff... but the problem is lately I have been feeling just kind of like I wish I was single. My friends have been ...
A. 6 June 2010: My advice would be gohave fun. sew your oats now so you won't be woundering this same wonder ten years from now.... (read in full...)
Is being with 6 men sexually by the age of 30 a lot?
Q. okay so this is a very random curious question. I'm turning 30 and have been with 6 men sexually. Is this a lot for a woman of my age to have been with that many men? Sometimes i wonder and feel bad about my sexual experiences. ...
A. 3 June 2010: When I met my wife at the age of 18, she'd already been with8 or 10 guys(yeah she told me). So, @ only 6 you're a rank amature.... (read in full...)
My wife's sexual past has made me lose respect for her.
Q. cant seem to stop thinking about my wifes past past sexual history.In1972I met my wife New Years Eve in an Old Boys Rugby Club we kissed the new year in although she told she had kissed 80 others that night.To cut a long story short that evening I ...
A. 3 June 2010: Mine was a backseat boogie artist also..but strangely it made me want her more. No regrets, Now though, she can't even discuss sex much less perform it. Relish what you have while you have it. IT goes away all too soon.... (read in full...)
Will sex hurt the first time?
Q. ok...ummm me and my boyfriend are going to have sex soon but im a little scared about it cuz i dont want it to hurt,,,,does it hurt????? will i bleed??? i want to know what im getting myself in to before...thanks...
A. 3 June 2010: i really think it must hurt, I've never had sex with a virgin so I have to go on what women tell me; most say it wasn't all that bad. i can't begin to imagine the pain of childbirth but i bet it's a zillion times worse than the hymen being ... (read in full...)
Can I increase my sex drive?
Q. Hello, I have a low sexual desire and know that it is causing problems with my relationship. I am mad at myself for not wanting sex, but I just have a really low desire to be intimate with my husband. It is causing stress in my life and I want ...
A. 3 June 2010: My wife and I have been married 45 years and her sex drive no longer exists at all. she could care less...your husband is a lucky man that you even care about it.. relax you folks will be fine.... (read in full...)
He is 6 years older and been with over 50 girls.. Is he done with sex?
Q. I've been in a relationship now for over a year. We live together, love each other, things are great. EXCEPT I have a WAY bigger sex drive than him. He's not affectionate at all! He doesn’t like holding hands, making out in public, or holding onto ...
A. 2 June 2010: First...there's no expiration date or numerical trip point for sexual drive7desire. Secondly, The whole "holding hands and cuddling thing" is more of a female desire than a male's turn on. We males are a more visual and secret whispers type of ... (read in full...)
Is he gay, a sex addict or just someone that really enjoys porn?
Q. Ok..I have been researching this. I honestly need as honest and truthful and insightful answers as possible on this one. I have been with this man for a little over a year now. I am 31 years old. He is 50 years old. He just got out of (what he ...
A. 2 June 2010: The only surprise in this qyestion is that you have not already left. To me, he's semi-normal. Mst of us guys are very curious as to how the "othe half" lives. We may even be a little jealous since gay sex includes things that most women shy away ... (read in full...)
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