Why do some women hate their men watching porn?
Q. why do some women have a problem when they find out their man enjoys a little porn? i don't get it. we all know men need something visual to get them excited, so what is the difference between a woman reading an erotic novel or having a fantasy...
A. 26 February 2009: My suggestion
Find a woman who enjoys porn or is okay with you enjoying it.
However you must also be open minded if she enjoys porn as well.
We come in all preferences. Nothing wrong with disliking porn. just a simple choice of a different in... (read in full...)
50 GB of porn clips in one week?! Does he have a problem?
Q. I hacked into my bf's email accounts and found out that he's been downloading an excessive amount of porn: he's downloaded close to 50GB worth of porn in the span of one week. Is this normal? I am just so utterly disgusted with this righ...
A. 26 February 2009: Your only issue is the amount of porn you found when you hacked into his account?
Is it affecting your relationship in any way?
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Is it normal to not like porn?
Q. Is it normal to not like porn? All my friends always talk about the porn they watch but whenever I try to watch it... I didn't find it very interesting or arousing, I prefer to just use my imagination when I am masturbating. Is there something ...
A. 26 February 2009: Normal does not exist.
Normal is descrition coined by someone to put people's behavoirs into a little box.
Human sexuality is a many splendored thing.
and the fat that you do not like to watch porn is just part of who you are.
Those who enj... (read in full...)
Why can't I find a girlfriend?
Q. Why can't I find a girlfriend ? Okay I am 20 years old soon to be 21 I have brown curly hair brown eyes. I have tan clear conplection and I am 6 foot tall about 165 I bench around 245 I am well built and I even make $6000 dollers a month and I I ...
A. 26 February 2009: do you want a girfriend and a relationship?
or are you just having trouble meeting women in particular?
flesh out the question a bit.... (read in full...)
Do most men like to offer oral sex?
Q. Do men really like going down on women? - I know that most men like blow jobs - but do men really like going down on women or do they prefer to skip the foreplay and just get on with it? Honest answers please - as I've got my first night of passion ...
A. 26 February 2009: I do not enjoy performing oral sex on a woman. However in past committed relationships I did it because it satisfied them and brought them to orgasm.
I also do not enjoy receiving blowjobs.
I absolutely hate it.
I have turned down sex before ... (read in full...)
Would most men accept sex if it is offered to them?
Q. Would most men accept sex if it is offered to them? We hear that men are always thinking about or watching sex at some point or other but even some unattractive average woman offered herself to a man for the night would he take it??...
A. 26 February 2009: I would not generalize about most men.
But as to myself I would.
Back when I was in college I said yes to every woman that offered and asked plenty. I was about enjoying every moment then.
Then when I graduated and was supposed to be 'mature' acc... (read in full...)
I want to have sex at 13, what do you advise?
Q. im am 13 and i really want to have sex i just dont have anyone to do it with! who can i go to?...
A. 26 February 2009: Go talk with your parents about your feelings.
Or a school guidance counselor or even your spiritual leader of whatever belief system you follow.
At then end of the day even though you are a young teen it will end up being your choice.
Hop... (read in full...)
I was working 4 jobs and she was at home watching tv & cheating on me!
Q. I did perhaps the greatest mistake of my life. I met a girl who was coming out of an abusive relationship and I decided to give it a GO. I worked 4 jobs at some point but still had time to attend her emotional and physical needs. I workship and a...
A. 26 February 2009: How long have you been married? If its less than a year in most states you can get it annulled with the courts without too much pain on your part. However, you do need to get a divorce as soon as possible. Like the other person said, she may g... (read in full...)
He hasn't replied, should I start looking elsewhere?
Q. Basically went on the first date, Couldn't of gone any better, We chatted for 2.5hrs then we walked for a bit and found a place to sit there we kissed for 2.5 hrs, Then i walked her to her car holding hands, Text her on Monday to see what she is ...
A. 26 February 2009: give her a little bit of time. she may be busy. give it about another couple of weeks giving her one or two calls or texts a week. if she still does not reply let it go. ... (read in full...)
What do women 'really' want?
Q. I've come to the realisation that when women talk about they want in men, the words cannot be trusted 100% - sure they may be some truth in what they say but not entirely or either not at all. Actions and behaviour prove the opposite. Women ten...
A. 26 February 2009: One thing that has worked for me. Be yourself. Involve yourself in all the activities, people and things you enjoy as much as you can. Try to get a job you enjoy if possible.(considering the recesion). Try to enjoy life the way you want in each... (read in full...)
He is very good at running away and hiding!
Q. Everytime he gets angry over anything he runs and hides for days, even weeks. he is very good at running away and he admits it. What to do with this behavior...
A. 26 February 2009: He might need time to get over things. Some people prefer to work through their anger on their own before they communicate with others again. And sometimes it takes days and weeks depending on the person. If you are uncomfortable with that all ... (read in full...)
Are these signs of him wanting to break up?
Q. So my boyfriend always ignores me whenever he sees me, he doesnt call me anymore and when i call him he makes up excuses and says "someone else is calling, ill call you back" and when i say "i love you" he'll say it back but it's more of an "i dont ...
A. 26 February 2009: He is trying to break up with you without having to actually do it. Lack of attention and communication is an easy way to get someone to break up with you. It basically lets the person get out of the situation without having to explain why. So... (read in full...)
My husband is "gay for pay"?
Q. Earlier this week I came home from work and found my husband in the living room on the floor writhing with another guy. The windows were blacked out. I asked him what the hell he was doing, and he was brazen enough to say he was making guy-on-gu...
A. 26 February 2009: Divorce him. I know most posters are telling you to try to work it out. However he cheated with men and lied about it. He did so in your home where you two have a young child. He has no respect for you or your child. He can possibly get he... (read in full...)
Try again? Or lost cause?
Q. Okay there is this woman I care for, I have know here for eleven or twelve years, since we was kids. Now she is grown up and has one child, and getting ready to have another. She has told me that the relationship she is now is over but she cannot ...
A. 26 February 2009: Either she wants the fianacial support or she is actually interested. If you are interested in dating her do not move her in with you. That would help you determine whether she is romantically interested in her or not. If you actually want to hel... (read in full...)
Is he gay? Or just experimenting?
Q. my husband likes to have phone sex with gay guys he meets on the party lines and he recently asked me if i wanted to put my dildo in his ass is he gay or just wants to experiment?...
A. 26 February 2009: He is attracted to men somewhat. But he may not want to date or actually have sex with a man. He wants to see how it feels to be penetrated but without having to accept tha mantle of homosexuality or bisexuality. So in essence him asking you t... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing? And will he come back???
Q. Ok so I've known this guy for about year, everything was good. In the beginning he was like, he wasn't looking for a relationship ( not ready/stable I guess) and I was like "whatever" on the whole thing. If I got into one, I got into one, but I ...
A. 26 February 2009: Seems like he was attracted to you in the initial stages where the flirting and similar were going on. And then that attraction wore off. Several things are possible. He could have found a woman with whom he has more chemistry at present and is... (read in full...)
He says maybe when he has lost some weight we will have sex again!? I don't understand him.
Q. I have been with my boyfrined for 2 years now. Since september last year he has been acting strange and we havent been sleeping together. We have has sex 4 times since then. He isnt cheating on me i know that for sure because i am always with him.He ...
A. 26 February 2009: Help him to reach his goal.
Suggest healthy diet alternatives, working out together, anything to get him to where he feels comfortable.
And maybe go together to purchase porn that might be interesting to both of you. (If you would care to try ... (read in full...)
Could someone please tell me what is up with my relationships?
Q. Question: I had 2 flings the past year that i was crazy about. So heres the pattern: 1.They chase hard 2. they get me 3. I fall for them ...eventually it becomes sexual 4. I think of them and want to get a lil serious 5. they get distant...
A. 11 February 2009: communicate more. from what i see you have the traditional inefficient chase and conquer situation going on. get out of the mindset of the 'chase' and 'games' and get in the mindset of having an equal or close to equal partnership with someone. ... (read in full...)
I am having a lesbian affair even though I'm not gay. What is wrong with me!
Q. Dear Cupid. I am in a loving relationship with a guy who i am intending to spend the rest of my life with. And i think i am about to start a serious affair with a GIRL from work. I know what i am doing is wrong and immoral and do feel guilty. How...
A. 11 February 2009: if the feelings are that powerful then you are sexually attracted to women as well as men. and it will keep plaguing you until you meet the desire head on. by all means sleep with the girl but break up with your boyfriend first. it isnt fair for ... (read in full...)
I am a 25 year old male virgin and have no desire for sex.
Q. I have no desire for sex, does that mean I’m doomed to live a life alone? I’m a 25 year old guy, still a virgin, and I have never had the desire to have sex. However, even though I am happy to remain celibate because of this, has it doomed my cha...
A. 11 February 2009: you are perfectly normal as an individual. humans come in all ranges and you just happen to be a person who has no sexual desire. and the fact that you are comfortable with it just cements the fact that its part of the unique person that is y... (read in full...)
Is this premature ejaculation? Don't know what to do!
Q. Hey, i am 17 years old and i have been dating a girl for almost 3 months now. she comes to my house and we watch movies and cuddle on the couch, eventually we make out for a long time and touch eachother form 40 minutes to an hour. when she puts her ...
A. 11 February 2009: technically yes. however since you were excited and had all the petting going on, its a normal thing sometimes. and being that we are as men genetically designed to ejaculate fast for procreation purposes its a natural thing. thats why you h... (read in full...)
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