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*mber nuttall
writes:Hi,I'm having relationship problems. I have been in a happy relationship with my boyfriend for the past 8 months. Lately we have been very rocky. I've started to fall for another guy, i've only met up with him twice, i haven't 'cheated' on my boyfriend. But i'm falling hard for this guy, i've known him for a long time but hadn't seen him or heard from him until now. I can't help how i feel for both of them. My boyfriend knows i meet up with the other guy, but thinks were only friends. The other guy, doesn't know i have a boyfriend.I don't know what to do. As me and my boyfriend haven't been the happiest lately, and we keep arguing. I don't know how much longer we're going to last.Help please. Reply to this Question
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reader, niceguy07  +, writes (3 September 2007):
 Do your boyfriend of the past 8 months a favor and break up with him. By you saying that you are falling hard for this new guy should set off something inside you morally and give you the motive you need to break up with your boyfriend. Although you have not had any sexual contact with this new man, you are still cheating on your boyfriend by falling for another man. its only right to tell him, you cannot keep him in the dark anymore. let him move on.
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reader, Helen Help! :) +, writes (3 September 2007):
 hi huni ouch a tough one i was sorta in same situation my self not long ago i was attracted to another lad but he knew i had a bf turned out he had a gf to but it didnt stop us we ended up doin stuff i told my bf n luckily he stayed with me see the thing was i love my bf but we had a tough stage to so thts y i did it i wish i hadnt done it now so maybe theres ur answer. but then again ur only young u dnt need to be tied down n have these serious long lasting relationships either so if ur really not happy with ur bf then try it with this new guy but i suggest u b honest with him n tell him u have a bf at the mo. good luck take care :)
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