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*osesAreRed
writes:Hi AllI need some advice. I've met someone I like a lot, except there's one problem, I'm not sure if he likes me, so could you please give me your honest opinion. Here's what's happened.Well, this guy asked me for my number, and we texted each other for one night, then I text him, and he didn't reply, apparently he ran out of credit, and I thought I'd leave it a few days, and text again, and still no reply, this guy works in the same shop as my mum, anyway, he was sitting on a wall, opposite my house, he didn't know I lived there, until my mum told him we did, and he asked why I didn't invite him in or go and talk to him. Anyway, a few days later, he told my mum he had lost his phone and asked her for my number, which she gave to him.However, to find out, if he was telling the truth, I decided to call the number, from a friend's phone to see, and he answered the phone.Now, I find it extremely coincidental that he had no credit one week, then lost his phone, I could be getting the wrong end of the stick, and it could be genuine. Is he trying to tell me doesn't want to talk to me, or does he like me and wants to get to know me?Any feedback would be greatly appreciated. If he does like me, how do I go about talking to him or approaching him, after what's happened?
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reader, niceguy07  +, writes (14 August 2007):
 well see how it goes on your drink date. he is interested if he has agreed to go out for a drink. now its just time to see how much u two can get along. good luck
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reader, RosesAreRed +, writes (13 August 2007):
RosesAreRed is verified as being by the original poster of the question I called him today and got through to him, and asked if he was avoiding talking to me, and he said he wasn't, and I asked bout going for this drink he mentioned about when he text me and he said in a couple of weeks, so we'll just see. He said he had no credit on his phone, which must be a load of rubbish cos he got paid last friday. So, do you think he likes me, after I called him. He seemed quite shocked that I called him lol, like it was unexpected.
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reader, niceguy07 +, writes (13 August 2007):
ok being a guy first off i would take his story with a pinch of salt...it could be coincidental or it could just be him just not wanting to talk to you. again being a guy, if a girl was to ask me out for a date it would make me feel like i have the advantage. so what i would do is talk to him the next time you can, get a vibe from him. if u feel like he is into you then suggest an outting, not a date. if u feel like he just does not care, play the same game. either way i think something could spark up...being in such close proximity to one another is an important component of reciprocal liking of one another.
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