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| | *apalm_Angelripper's profile:Well, DearCupid totally raped my last account (Angelripper) and wouldn't let me answer any questions anymore, so I had to make another one!
Here's to hoping this one doesn't get seized.
I may be young, but I've been through quite a lot of experiences through my life, more so than the average person, and I use what I've retained to help other people.
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Can guys really just be friends with girls, even when they have a girlfriend?
Q. I imagine the question is relative to every guy, so I would like your own personal opinion, plus your opinion on what this guy's true intentions are. Of course, I know they can't be accurate as you don't know him personally and truthfully, but any ...
A. 30 June 2011: Thanks for your answers! They have definitely helped :)
And I will talk with him about it to set things more clearly.... (read in full...)
Why do more white women than white men date outside of their race?
Q. This is just a simple question, not one with a lot details or anything. I was just wondering what people thought...um...why is it that there are more white women to date outside their race, then there are white men? I know this can be a ...
A. 30 June 2011: I see an equal half of both where I'm from, honestly. It's pretty multicultural as well, and quite liberal in that sense, which probably attributes to it. I, myself, am Indo-Aryan, and have only dated white men. Hope that helped! -The Resi... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is possessive and mean to me. Now he has told me about a woman he finds attractive. Is it time for me to move on?
Q. Hello, My boyfriend and I have been together a long time, around 3 years. He's always said "I'm it" he wants to marry me, etc. However, his actions speak differently. He put a deposit down on a ring, but later got a refund, which hurt immensel...
A. 28 April 2011: OP, I'm curious to see what happened and how you handled this, please. ... (read in full...)
Is everyone out there obsessed with money? Do people revolve their entire lives around it?
Q. I just wanted to come on this site to vent. I can honestly not believe how much MONEY changes people. Is EVERYONE out there obsessed with money? Do people revolve their entire lives around it? I've always worked for wages my entire life and ...
A. 28 April 2011: No, you're not alone. It baffled and hurt me when I first discovered what most people's priorities were (money and sex). It was a devastating discovery initially, as I had always naively believed that everyone shared the same morals and prior... (read in full...)
Fiance wears inappropriate clothing. Is she trying to attract other guys?
Q. Girls: My Fiance, wears clothes that are not appropriate, showing her cleavage, very tight pants, lots of perfume, make-up and hairstyle everytime!!! i feel insecure, what do you think girls, is she trying to impress other guys?...
A. 20 March 2011: I only started making myself up because I noticed my boyfriend checked these girls out.
I never felt too comfortable dressing too skimpily before, but I decided to do so basically to get my boyfriend's attention. I am very fit, and have a better b... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is possessive and mean to me. Now he has told me about a woman he finds attractive. Is it time for me to move on?
Q. Hello, My boyfriend and I have been together a long time, around 3 years. He's always said "I'm it" he wants to marry me, etc. However, his actions speak differently. He put a deposit down on a ring, but later got a refund, which hurt immensel...
A. 19 February 2011: I dont know how the dynamic is in your relationship. I dont know if you two are very open about how you find other people attractive.
I personally, would not stand for that. I understand if my boyfriend having a discussion about a celebrit... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and my breasts are really small. Is this normal?
Q. Hi, I'm 15 and I have really small breasts. I want to know if it's normal at my age. My friends all have big breasts. I don't wear a bra yet. ...
A. 8 February 2011: Dont worry about it. I was size A up until a couple of years ago. I now am in the bigger Bs and can sometimes fit into C cups. Thats not to say that Ive gained weight, as Im quite slender and petite, and have decent sized boobs considering how small ... (read in full...)
I don't know what I do that makes guys not interested
Q. I have known my best friend all of my life, shes has been well known for having a bf and having guys after her. where as im the one who doesnt get any attention. She knows that i feel down about this even though i am happy to be alone im use to it, ...
A. 28 January 2011: Aw sweetie, I know how you feel, Ive been through the same thing.
Similar to you, I always thought I was pretty, Ive also been approached by modeling agents and contracts, and yet my friends were always getting guy attention when I wasnt. I then n... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has slept with 6 women, but he's my first. It bothers me!
Q. I've been with my bf for 2 years and when we met I was a virgin and he had slept with 6 other people. I love him a lot but I find this incredibly hard to deal with sometimes. Sometimes it does't bother me, but when I think about it it weirds me out. ...
A. 25 January 2011: Im in a similar situation. I have slept with 3 people total, him included, and Ive been in a relationship with all of them.
He on the other hand has slept with at least 30 women. Tbh, had I known about his sexual past earlier, I probably wouldnt ... (read in full...)
He saw me holding hands with a friend and now he won't talk to me
Q. I've been talking to some guy and now he doesn't want to talk to me because he saw me holding hands with my friend and he got all pissed off now he won't talk to me...Its been about a week or so and hes still mad at me which i do not know what to do ...
A. 25 January 2011: It really depends on what kind of person you are. Personally, if I saw my boyfriend holding hands with another girl, Id be pretty pissed. But thats because my boyfriend is pretty reserved and isnt happy go lucky like that ... if he were to hold ... (read in full...)
Pubic hair question.....
Q. Hi everyone, im just wondering does hair actually grow on the penis or they just grow on the base of the penis? ...
A. 25 January 2011: My bf has a few coarse hairs on the base of his penis ... I find it kind of alluring. I also find the smell of his penis very, very attractive, it turns me on every time. Someone had previously posted that hairs can release pheramones to attract ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to not have a girlfriend at the age of 16?
Q. I am 16 years old and I don't have a girlfriend, yet. I've never had girlfriend before in my entire life. People (primarily my peers) have told me that not having a girlfriend at my age is sad and pathetic. I remember one guy on my football would ...
A. 19 November 2010: Don't let it get to your head. It's not at all sad. I only got my first boyfriend until I was 16 (and that's not to say because I was disliked or not attractive). And you know what? I'm really glad I waited that long :D.
I've known guys in the p... (read in full...)
Am I the only woman who doesn't want children or the perfect "white picket fence" life?
Q. I'm 23 now and even since i can remember i've never been interested in having children, i mean, at all. Sometimes it makes me feel like there's something wrong with me. Whenever i've been around friends or family and they're all fussing over one of ...
A. 17 November 2010: You are not alone. I feel the same way. I am lucky to find a man who also thinks the same way.
There's nothing wrong with us, it's just that we have different priorities than other people, and we have another idea of what our futures will look lik... (read in full...)
We've already played out his fantasy but he wants another threesome!
Q. My boyfriend wants to have a threesome with another girl.The thing is we have already done this once . I like girls too but i hated seeing him penetrate this other woman. He says if I dont want to , theres no fun in it for him, but I worry he isnt ...
A. 17 November 2010: If you were uncomfortable with the idea the first time, you shouldn't have gone along with it. And he should've respected that.
I know you were just trying to please him, and it's considerate of you to have done so ... but now he's going to expec... (read in full...)
Will my second pap smear hurt as much as the first?
Q. Ok, well I've been sexually active with my boyfriend for about 2 years now and I had my very first pap smear last year. Well, it's almost time to get my second one and let me tell you, it was very horrible when I got my first one done. I cried ...
A. 17 November 2010: I don't think that was a pap smear.
Although, the same thing happened to me (pain, cramps, bleeding for days afterwards), but that's when they were taking samples to test to see if I had cervical cancer or not, as my cells are abnormal in that are... (read in full...)
Is it really right to strike someone in this situation?
Q. I was surprised and a bit shocked by some of the responses to A recent post about a guy wanting to know if women found it attractive when a guys junk happens to show. Several of the women say that they would slap the guy in the face if his junk ...
A. 21 October 2010: I've also, unfortunately, been in the position of having a man masturbate in front of me while watching me, ON A SUBWAY CART, while feebly trying to cover up his genitals with a briefcase. Needless to say, it was also FAR from arousing at all. I was ... (read in full...)
Was losing your virginity as you expected it to be?
Q. Was losing your Virginity as you expected it to be and would you change your mind if you could go back?...
A. 15 October 2010: I'm not with him anymore, but I don't regret the person I lost it to. I spent a great deal of time with him, and had a very meaningful relationship with him. Although I hurt him, which I regret very deeply, I am still glad it was with him.
It wa... (read in full...)
Can anyone help me figure out what she meant?
Q. My wife has an active fantasy life and requires lots of attention. Recently, she asked me to spank her--she said the idea of being spanked excited her, but then afterwards said that it was disappointing, that I "didn't do it right." I guess she ...
A. 15 October 2010: In that aspect sexually, I am very similar to your wife. So, yeah, basically, everything dirtball said is true. You probably just weren't being convincing enough.
I would say try it out again when you're more in the mood to dominate, and really a... (read in full...)
Why didn't he tell me about this girl he turned down?
Q. my bf and i have been together for 6 years. I recently travelled and he started a new course at a new uni and made a couple friends. one of them was this girl who out of the blue told him that she likes him regardless of the fact that she knew about ...
A. 15 October 2010: I really think he genuinely cares about you, and told her off because she wouldn't stop bothering him. Although I find it a bit strange that this girl would tell you straight up out of the blue that she has feelings for your boyfriend, if he let her ... (read in full...)
Will my boyfriend continue the cycle of abuse?
Q. Well me and Caleb have been dating for years. His dad abused his mom(not really in front of him). He has also done the same to Caleb and choked him even just last week for grades..he fights back with his dad whenever this happens. Thank god because ...
A. 15 October 2010: As a lot of people have said, people who have been through abuse do not always turn into abusers themselves. I was abused by both my parents growing up, specifically my father. Although I admit, I have temper issues (particularly when I drink), I... (read in full...)
Complicated and hurtful family mess
Q. I feel really stupid writing about this, but I would like to get other people's takes on this situation. My 29 year old daughter is "re-marrying" her husband of 10 years. I haven't spoken to either of them in over a year because last year I was ...
A. 14 October 2010: From what I can tell, it seems like your daughter is being used as a doormat by her husband ... and she has little to no self-esteem to care about it at all, perhaps because she believes she can't get any better, or doesn't want to. However, ... (read in full...)
How do you trust a cheater?
Q. How long does it take to get over and trust the person you are with if they cheated on you? My bf told me he cheated in the first and second month of our relationship. I told him things arnt gonna get better over night even though he wants it to. ...
A. 27 September 2010: You don't. Plain and simple.
This MIGHT be a different issue if you guys were together for, say, oh I dunno, 10+ years and there was something your partner felt was lacking. Even then, that doesn't ever justify cheating, but it might merit so... (read in full...)
I want to surprise my boyfriend but the surprise might be on me
Q. i want to sprise my boyfriend .. we are going abroad and i got my vagina pierced this afternoon and we are going abroad tommorow night will it beep going through the metal detectors? i want to suprise him i dont want him to find out this way.. ...
A. 27 September 2010: It won't beep once you pass through. I have a lip piercing, a nose piercing, a belly button piercing and my ears pierced, and I didn't have to take them out when I passed through any metal detectors. Neither did any of my buddies who have piercings ... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend and I think another guy likes me!
Q. hiii :) This is not the hardest question to answer and may sound a bit silly, but your answers make a difference :) I have a boyfriend and i think another guy's actions towards me indicate that he likes me( and my friends think there's a chance h...
A. 24 September 2010: Like dirtball said. He has no regard as to whether or not you have a boyfriend and will flirt with you anyway, especially if you're reinforcing this with flirting back.
To be honest though, I don't see why you're making a big issue out of this. If... (read in full...)
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