Feeling alone, when is a person at the bottom of the barrel?
Q. Sometimes in the past I have found myself in a situation of extreme loneliness. Like not being able to find a friend in the world:(. During those times I found slight comfort in reading or masturbating, but nothing really cured the desire to go out ...
A. 16 August 2009: Your at the bottom when you have 0 friends, 0 family, 0 anyone. Now, I'm sure you have some sort of family. Family are people who will forgive you no matter what. So long as you promise to be good as you can, and try your best not to f up. But I ... (read in full...)
Am I a slimebag and need to stop stringing ex along?
Q. Help everyone Im so messed up at the moment i dumped my ex as my ex gf the mother of my child told me to so we could get back together, which i dumped my then gf, but my thenmother of my child wh said we could start again if i got rid of her well ...
A. 16 August 2009: Hey, Einstein. Heres a hint: Just pick one. And make sure its the one you want AND the one who wants you. And once you pick one, keep her. And don't look back for the love of god. Bouncing between two girls like that is nothing but trouble and ... (read in full...)
Wife tied me up for bondage then proceeded to list all the things I did wrong, and no sex!
Q. hi aunty,I got married for 6 months now..2 nights back,we decided for bondage sex,so my wife tied me down to the bed with handcuffs..intially she teased me and kissed..once I was tied up properly and at her mercy..she slapped me..and then yelled at ...
A. 16 August 2009: Honestly, what I would do is go up to her and say, "if I'm so freakin bad then I'll just leave your life for good. I don't deserve to be treated like that. Have fun living your life alone, btch." Then proceed to walk out and go to a hotel for a ... (read in full...)
With friends like this....
Q. okay, so im seventeen and ive never actually had a boyfriend, i was more interested in my school work, i was interested in boys, but felt i was too young for a relationship.. etc :) well recently, me and this guy (dean) have been talking, alot. we ...
A. 16 August 2009: First off, lose that friend. Either way truth or not, shes a piece of you know what. You don't lie to someone like that, and you definitely don't interfere with someone elses relationship like that. I can almost say for certain Dean is telling you ... (read in full...)
Damage through prostate massage?
Q. Earlier this week, I gave myself a prostate massage. Since then, I have struggled to get an erection or even become aroused. Is it possible that I have somehow damaged myself? I've never felt like this before. My Penis feels sort of... not "numb"...
A. 16 August 2009: First off, calm down. Second, you obviously did something wrong. Either you massaged to hard or you were masterbating too long or something just got a little overused. Its a common fact that having a lot of sex or masterbating alot can reduce ... (read in full...)
I really love this girl, and I'm confused about what is happening!
Q. I've been in this situation for about 6 months. Basicaly I am a girl and I'm in love with another girl. She is 13 and I am 14, and she knows I am, or atleast I think she knows I'm in love with her. I told her sometime in July that I loved her ...
A. 16 August 2009: Hmm looks like men aren't the only gender that fail to understand women. I may be a man, but I do know just as much about dealing with women. You both are talking, so this I find is a good sign. Does she know what you meant when you said you lov... (read in full...)
Does he want me to move in with him or doesn't he?
Q. I need some man advice cuz my hormones are going nuts before my period and im pretty sure other than crying i dont have any other viable solutions to my little problem. Ive been dating my lovely bf for over a year and half and since like 3 mon...
A. 16 August 2009: I'm thinking your taking what he says wrong. The simplest and most direct answer to your question lies in the very person in question. Interpretation? You need to ask him if he wants you to move in with him. Plain and simply. Straight up. You can ... (read in full...)
I love my cousin is it wrong to want to marry her?
Q. Hi friends I am frm India. For the past one year i am in love with my cousin that is my mom's elder sister daughter.In India we cant marry mom elder sisters daughter. but til this moment i love her to the core and DE same from her too.IS there any ...
A. 16 August 2009: Well friend, I am not from India, but I can accurately say your culture and mine feels the same about the issue your dealing with. You would not be the first to do so, nor the last. One of the most intelligent persons on earth, Albert Einstein, ... (read in full...)
Ugly woman thinks I'm her b/f just because I'm nice to her!
Q. Dear Cupid, There is this girl that lives in the room and board house I'm at who is very attracted to me, but I can barely look at her because she's so ugly. To describe just how ugly she is, not only is she horribly overweight, but she looks li...
A. 16 August 2009: Ooooh, poor boy. I have to admit your situation is rather amusing. Perhaps the best action here is nothing at all. Let her think what she wants. Sooner or later she is going to figure out you are definitely not her boyfriend. Just continue on like ... (read in full...)
I wish I could tell him that I love him but I can't
Q. Advice really appreciated here.... I really like one of my best friends. Hes the nicest guy ever, he always looks out for me and listens to me when I have a problem and makes me laugh when I'm upset. Were spending a lot more time together recentl...
A. 16 August 2009: No risk, no gain. You got sh*t or get off the pot. I was in the same situation with my girlfriend 2 years ago when I first asked her out. Turns out she was waiting for me to pop the question. Also turns out if I had waited a day longer she would ... (read in full...)
Should I quit my job and teach these guys not to mess with me?
Q. i have two questions i grew up in a crack infested hood and saw all kinds of crazy sht and got involved with alot of things as i got older, As a kid i was a crack addict before i got my first pair of pullups well i move from my home and broke my ...
A. 16 August 2009: I grew up around the same shit, and if it wasn't for my girl, I wouldn't be here today. That old dude, he was a wise guy. Keep the job. If this girl makes you happy, sometimes you gotta take the good with the bad. I'm willing to bet if you go back ... (read in full...)
How do you get over being cheated on?
Q. I do not want to have sex with my husband anymore. I found out he cheated on my five months ago and since then I have had absolutely no desire to have any kind of sexual contact with him. We have been through couseling, but it seems like nothing ...
A. 16 August 2009: I can't possibly imagine getting over such a thing. One must realize there are just somethings you cannot forget. You may not be able to get over it, but you may possibly find a way to deal with the fact. You counselor should be able to provide this ... (read in full...)
Am I a stupid wife or just an untrusting wife?
Q. I recenty got suspicious of my husband. Normally following business trips over ten years he leaves me to unpack his case and now he empties it immediately and washes his dirty laundry that he never does laundry. Last week I was involved in a minor ...
A. 16 August 2009: I don't believe you are stupid or untrusting at all. Your findings are valid and he is obviously up to something. You would think after the first findings he would have stopped. Apparently not. It is easy to believe someone you love and trust. So ... (read in full...)
He spat on my vagina to lubricate it! Now I don't want him to touch me!
Q. While making love, my vagina was a bit dry so my partner spat into my vagina to lubricate it. i feel so degraded by this i cannot bear him to touch me since. Am i over reacting?...
A. 16 August 2009: As a male, I would not feel degraded if spit was to be used in either oral or as use for a hand job. I am not a woman however. I would go as far to say yes, you personally may find that disgusting. You have to communicate that to them. I would not ... (read in full...)
20 years old and think I have ED!
Q. Hello. I'm 20, and I think I have erectile dysfunction. I've had a low sex drive recently. Usually my desire for sex is very high, and whenever I go without sex for long periods it only increases. Recently I've gotten into a relationship wit...
A. 16 August 2009: Sex drive collapse is a pretty good indicator of either a chemical or hormonal imbalance. You may masterbate successfully, but when you do is it hard enough to penetrate if she was there? Masterbation is quite a bit different then sex though. If it ... (read in full...)
Should I continue with marriage counselling? Or divorce?
Q. It will be 14 years of marriage, this month. We have 3 kids together. We went to marriage counseling in January and in April, I kicked him out. It was my decision, due to serious mistrust issues that he had. He would check the caller I.d, email, ...
A. 15 August 2009: In my eyes, trust is the basis that allows communication to happen. If he cannot trust you, and you cannot trust him to trust you, the wheels have pretty much come off the wagon. If you cannot resolve the issue of trust, you cannot have ... (read in full...)
Is not being sexually compatible enough reason to end a marriage?
Q. I have been married for 3 years. When my husband and I first got together we had a great sexual relationship. and even more so because we both lost our virginity to one another. it is special and he pleased me and I like to think I did the same. ...
A. 15 August 2009: It is not a stupid reason at all. It is a very valid reason but not root cause of all the problems. Now, you have explained you once had a very sexually compatible relationship. This means you are and always were compatible. The problem lies in ... (read in full...)
Fiance has profile on online dating website, does that mean he doesn't love me?
Q. My fiance and I have been together for three years. The other day, his mom called me and asked if I could have him reply to her e-mail she had sent him a few days ago. We know each others passwords to our e-mails, so I thought I would just check his ...
A. 15 August 2009: Communication is key. Without all is lost. I, for one, find it odd you have both never raised a voice, even once. To me, that is a red flag for lack of communication. Everyone argues at one point or another. Talk to him about your finding in a calm ... (read in full...)
20 years old and think I have ED!
Q. Hello. I'm 20, and I think I have erectile dysfunction. I've had a low sex drive recently. Usually my desire for sex is very high, and whenever I go without sex for long periods it only increases. Recently I've gotten into a relationship wit...
A. 15 August 2009: First off, relax. Out of personal experience with it once in a while, I have concluded stress and anxiety can be a root cause of a little power outage down here. Step 2- Don't panic. If you don't get lift off right away or suffer from some deflatio... (read in full...)
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