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writes:Earlier this week, I gave myself a prostate massage. Since then, I have struggled to get an erection or even become aroused. Is it possible that I have somehow damaged myself?I've never felt like this before. My Penis feels sort of... not "numb", but different to how it would normally feel. I don't know what to do and I'm feeling a little scared. Can anyone prescribe this, or should I see my doctor?
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (18 August 2009):
 It's funny, you didn't mention anything about your current ? I hope your doctor also checked you for high blood pressure because that can indeed cause the type of problems you are experiencing with your penis and worrying makes it worse(because it raises your bp as well).
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): Well, now that you have the possible physical damage out of the way, it might be easier to work on any psychological problem. Unfortunately, they are often more difficult to solve than a physical problem. Having a supportive partner, especially with sexual problems, is a big plus.
Often stress causes spikes in some hormones and then they affect the sex hormones. The interactions between all the hormones are very complicated and I don't think that many doctors understand it well. I have read a lot about them and can't get past the basics. Of course, I'm not a doctor either, but mine has said that he would like to know what I discover if I ever figure it out. If you want to see what I mean, take a look at this site. There is one MD who is a psychiatrist and specializes in hormones and another who is about 1 year from getting his PhD in naturalopathy (ND) and the head moderator is a psychologist.
http://forum.mesomorphosis.com/mens-health-forum/
I have read that the psychiatrist, Dr. Romeo Mariano, believes that most psychological problems are caused by hormones. Here is the discussion forum that he runs on his site.
http://www.definitivemind.com/forums/
I don't know enough about this subject, except the basics of the various sex hormones, to be able to help you. You might want to post a question on one of the above sites, as there are people there who know more about this then probably anyone here. Dr. Mariano does answer questions on his forum and sometimes on the MESO-Rx men's health forum.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI've been to a doctor regarding my problem. She concluded that my problems have been brought on by psychological issues regarding my current relationship. So, I'm glad to have found that my problems are not physical, but how do I get past my psychological problems? She suggested a book on mental health which I have ordered on Amazon. Does anyone have any other suggestions?
Thanks very much for your help in what has been a very stressful situation!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): If you are still getting good morning erections then I doubt it is related to any damage that you did. Even if it is psychological from stress or whatever, it is still best to see a doctor to rule out a physical problem. It's good that you made an appointment. Don't be embarrassed. Doctors have heard it all. I have read about more embarrassing things than that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt's been nearly a week (about 5 days I think) since this became a serious problem. My girlfriend has been very supportive of me through this, because this has put me through a lot of stress.
I just can't narrow down what happened! This has either happened through massage, through anxiety (my parents are going through a rough patch in their marriage, and of course now I'm worried sick about this), high blood pressure, hormonal imbalance, possibly some sort of abdominal disease, or maybe some other psychological problem. I've decided to arrange an appointment with a doctor, embarrassing as it is, because I can't stand not knowing what the problem is, and atleast then they'll help me find a solution.
I hate how confused this has gotten me. I'm not aroused as easily as I used, getting an erection isn't easy at all... though I still experienced "morning wood". Last night I took a "golden root" blue pill, and even that didn't do the trick.... I honestly can't wait to see a doctor about this!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009): Did you use a finger, an anal dildo or one of those curved prostate vibrators or curved prostate massagers? Unless you pressed really hard then I don't see how it could have done any damage. If you pressed on the prostate too hard then I suppose that you could have damaged a nerve or blood vessel. I'm guessing a nerve from how you describe the problem. You will probably need to see a urologist if it does not heal itself.
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reader, Basschick +, writes (16 August 2009):
Well I'll be honest, I don't exactly know what the hell a prostate massage really is - was this something you did with your hands, or with some kind of vibrator? - If it was the latter, I know the stiumlation of a vibrator can leave things "temporarily" numb because it jumbles the nerve endings a bit. Things should return to normal in a day or so but if not I'd go see a doctor if I were you. I doubt you've done any permanent damage though.
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reader, Mr. Adviser  +, writes (16 August 2009):
 First off, calm down. Second, you obviously did something wrong. Either you massaged to hard or you were masterbating too long or something just got a little overused. Its a common fact that having a lot of sex or masterbating alot can reduce sensitivity. So keep your hands to yourself and out of yourself for appox. a week longer, then see if the problem still existsIf you did damage something, the body can heal itself. However if serious damage has occurred you will know if a week from now things aren't working. If that is the case, then schedule a doctor visit. So, take it easy, give things sometime, and leave it alone.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (16 August 2009):
 You said your penis is numb and your asking if you should go see a doctor i guess men always do think with there little head, even if the doc was my grandmother i would have been in the office yesterday. what are you waiting for my friend hurry before it falls off. how do you massage a prostate, not that im gonna try.
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