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*overnotafighter
writes:Advice really appreciated here....I really like one of my best friends. Hes the nicest guy ever, he always looks out for me and listens to me when I have a problem and makes me laugh when I'm upset.Were spending a lot more time together recently and I've definitely fallen for him. When we hug or are lying down together I'm wishing I could just turn around and tell him I love him, but I cant.I dont know if he feels the same about me and if he doesn't feel the same about me I dont want to make our friendship awkward by telling him how I feel.If I see him with another girl its goin to break my heart...what can I do..??:(Lovernotafighter..xxx
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reader, Mr. Adviser  +, writes (16 August 2009):
 No risk, no gain. You got sh*t or get off the pot. I was in the same situation with my girlfriend 2 years ago when I first asked her out. Turns out she was waiting for me to pop the question. Also turns out if I had waited a day longer she would have given up on the prospect. Instead I went on to make her the happiest girl in the world.
All in all, you could lose a little if he says no. Or you could lose it all if he finds another and it effects your friendship.
My final advice- Make like Nike, Just do it!
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