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female
age
30-35,
*ayLeighP
writes:I've been in this situation for about 6 months. Basicaly I am a girl and I'm in love with another girl. She is 13 and I am 14, and she knows I am, or atleast I think she knows I'm in love with her. I told her sometime in July that I loved her through IM, but that's only because it was during the summer, and she's not able to hang out with me so I couldn't tell her in person. Anyway, I've known this girl for atleast 2 and half years, but never realized how much I liked her until the month of March when we started talking. I told her a few days after we started actualy talking that I really liked her, and she was okay with it. Then like I said in July I told her I loved her. She said "awwe" then logged off and didn't speak to me until 4 days after school started again. On the 1st day of school I school I looked at her, but she was already looking at me. I quickly looked away because my face was probably red. The next day she looked over at me again, and on the 3rd day she asked me a question. Then finally on the 4th day we had a conversation. I'm so confused on what's happening right now. I'm wondering why she kept looking over at me. Was she waiting for me to say something, or was it something else? (Sorry I had to tell you the whole story so you'd understand the situation better--Sorry this was so long!) Please reply back. I really need answers. Reply to this Question
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reader, KayLeighP +, writes (16 August 2009):
KayLeighP is verified as being by the original poster of the question Shes already told me a while back in April that she isn't gay and likes me ONLY as a friend. So I'm pretty sure she wasn't wanting me to ask her out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009): I think she still wants to be your friend because you are a really cool person and she misses your friendship, but I don't think it's any more than that and she took off because she thought if she remained near you, she would hurt your feelings
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reader, Mr. Adviser +, writes (16 August 2009):
 Hmm looks like men aren't the only gender that fail to understand women. I may be a man, but I do know just as much about dealing with women. You both are talking, so this I find is a good sign. Does she know what you meant when you said you loved her? The response "awwe" brings to question whether she fully understood. Perhaps she is just as confused.Assuming she knows perfectly well what you meant, I think she is looking over at you and checking you out. I think she is interested. She is probably waiting for you to ask her some questions or just simply ask her out. So go and get some closure. Ask, and you may find enlightenment.
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