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Do Women See Penises As Men Do Breasts?

Q.   When a man sees a nice pair of boobs, they usually get turned on. But when a woman sees a penis does she get turned on like a man would by boobs? I was reading a post on here earlier and a woman said she doesnt find them attractive at all. If a ...

A.   6 September 2010: It depends, it seems to me men get turned on a bit easier than women. ... (read in full...)

How can I find out if my dad is cheating?

Q.   I've watched my dad for some time and watched him on the computer where he goes on dating sites and chats on msn with other women and when he left his phone in the bathroom once i checked and there were dirty messages and sick pictures of other ...

A.   6 September 2010: You should tell your mum about the pictures. And don't try to investigate or your dad might get stupid about things as he panics.... (read in full...)

Love talk?

Q.   If a girl and a guy started talking as friends and they say the following hey hun3 and one says hey hunny3, is that meaning a relationship or just true love...

A.   6 September 2010: I don't think calling someone hun or hunny actually means anything of the sort... Alot of people call each other it and it doesn't mean anything.... (read in full...)

I'm using the toilet too often!

Q.   hi im really annoyed because i need to use the toilet anthing up 20 times a day, wat can i do please i need help!!!...

A.   5 September 2010: It's a good job that there is a relationship between you and your toilet or this would be an inappropriate question to post on here when you should GO TO THE DOCTORS x... (read in full...)

I'm done with my ex

Q.   Im done trying to get her to write me back I have got rid of every thing that I use to have on the internet facebook,just.in,youtube,msn etc.. Im just done she emailed me today like in the moring IN was saying how we need to keep in tuch well yeah! ...

A.   5 September 2010: Well if she has a new bf then calling you would be a bit of an argument starter.... (read in full...)

How do I tell my Mum...that I am bisexual?

Q.   Ok I'm confused and don't know what to do I lnow for a fact that I'm bisexuale but I'm not sure how to tell my mom she says thatbeing a lesbian is " not her cup of tea " but I can tell she would be devastated No one knows that I am bisexual yet and ...

A.   5 September 2010: Give it time because alot of people think there bisexual when they're younger. By the time your 18 you will have probably settled on one sex more than te other. Maybe tell her then.... (read in full...)

Do I have my priorities straight in this relationship?

Q.   I am going to a one off gig that my favourite band are doing in a few weeks, and its the day after my boyfriends birthday. i will be away on his birthday as this concert is no where near where we live. he is saying i think the concert is more ...

A.   5 September 2010: Take him on a really big romantic sexy night out for a meal etc as soon as you get back to make up for it!!!... (read in full...)

Please help, I cheated on my wife with a prostitute

Q.   I've been married for a year and a half, I cheated on my wife with a prostitute and got caught. I love my wife and was seeing the prostitute just because I was so damn horny and wanted to do things with the prostitute that my wife doesn't do. Since ...

A.   5 September 2010: Sorry, you were naive about what cheating would do to your relationship and now you've ruined it. If another woman takes you on in the future just try to learn from your selfish mistakes. If I was someones wife and they slept with a prostitute I wo... (read in full...)

What's the correct etiquette when couples go clubbing together?

Q.   Hi everyone, What's the correct etiquette when couples go clubbing together? Like do you dance with people of the opposite sex, how far can you go? If my boyfriend was dancing very close to a girl (like bodies touching), is that acceptable? I've...

A.   3 September 2010: I'm pretty sure you both stay away from other people and dance together!! Would you not consider watching him get close with another woman cheating??... (read in full...)

Any tips for losing weight?

Q.   Need help if anyone can help me!!! I have had 4 kids and is over weight now. In 5'4" and weigh almost 210 pounds!!! I have tired to lose weight but don't ever seem to!!! If anyone could give me some excercizes that would help me out of any advise I ...

A.   3 September 2010: Cut out processed food and meat and fish, do a bit more walking. I've lost a stone from it. And I lost that stone in a month... (read in full...)

Has anyone actually become pregnant after the pulling out technique?

Q.   Hey Me and my boyfriend have been having unprotected sex but he doesn't actually ejaculate inside me.. I've been hearing mixed comments about this as some people say it is very unlikely to get pregnant and some think it is very likely.. Has anyone ...

A.   3 September 2010: Yep, how I was made. I'm 17 now. Use your brain and get put of denial. Also if your boyfriend doesn't want to ruin your future by getting you pregnant he probably cares about you, but that's not the case is it. Sounds like your being used... (read in full...)

My first time having sex! advice please!

Q.   Me and my girl were thinking about having sex for the first time. We are both in our 20s. Both of us are virgins so we are new to this. So we plan to be safe about this so I was going to buy some condoms, but I have no idea what size to get. My ...

A.   2 September 2010: Your size does not guarantee you to be any better AT ALL so don't rely on or she'll be so bored she'll fall asleep!! You need to go slowly and if she asks you to slow down make sure you do, I wouldn't expect anything amazing first time and if you ... (read in full...)

Is it natural to NOT breathe for periods of time?

Q.   i know this may sound a little stupid but, iv recently noticed that sometimes i dont breath at all. its not like im holding my breath with blown up cheeks or something; it tends to happen when i am deeply focused on something or im thinking deep on ...

A.   1 September 2010: It can come from stress, or deep thinking where your not really physically conscious. What I did was pit a sign on my door that says breathe so I realise!!... (read in full...)

In love with friend's son!

Q.   Hi, I'm a 38 year old female (but look much younger) who has been very happily married for 16 years with three beautiful children. We recently went to my home country over the summer and there met one of our family friends after a long time...

A.   1 September 2010: This sounds like a mid life crisis. Don't throw away what you have... (read in full...)

Am I infertile or is it my boyfriend?

Q.   okay. Here goes. Im 19 and my bf is 18... We have been goin out 4 thre years now. I lost my virginity to him in the second year of relationship. I have been on the pill for about six months during that second year. nOW i am off da pill for so long,...

A.   30 August 2010: You have to go to a doctor to find this out... (read in full...)

Do girls like nice guys or bad guys? I'm confused!

Q.   im 18 years old and ive never had a girlfriend. i have plenty of friends that are girls but have never had a serious relationship. ive never even been kissed. im not a bad looking guy. i have girls tell me im good looking and some actually check me ...

A.   25 August 2010: Not all women are the same!! Sometimes guys get bad and confident mixed up, confidence is extremely extremely sexy... (read in full...)

Am I attractive?

Q.   i would just like to know if i am attractive. I am about to turn 16. Im 5 4 and 96 ibs. light blonde with bright green blue eyes and a 34B. people say im pretty but i just want to know other's opinion thanks. any questons about me ill answer....

A.   25 August 2010: Are you being serious? You've just listed a load of conventionally attractive features and asked if your hot?!!!! Modesty would serve you well rather than just trying to seek attention... (read in full...)

I'm so in love with a teacher it hurts...

Q.   Hi, When I was in year 8 at school a new English teacher joined (Mr T) That year my English left so we had a new one which was (Mr T) that's when I realised I was in love. Something clicked one day I didn't care it's just a teacher the next day...

A.   24 August 2010: Haha Mr. T. Right basically love is alot more intense and this is a school girl crush, it will be really hard to get over this but one day it will just stop.... (read in full...)

I'm attracted to older men

Q.   I could really use some advice and guidance. I don't know what is wrong with me. It seems since I've been about fourteen or so, I have been attracted to older men. This attraction for older men keeps intensifying as I get older. My friends have ...

A.   24 August 2010: Okay from personal experience I can tell you now that at 17 like I am I'm still immature and any older (like 40/46) guys who I find interesting and have gone to bed with have all turned out just to be as immature. Your attracted to older guys ... (read in full...)

13 and may have missed a period......I'm so scared of being pregnant!

Q.   Ok so im 13 and me and my boyfriend had sex,we used the take out method and now theres only 1 week of august left and i still havent had my period.I dont want to tell my mom that me and my boyfriend did anything but i did tell her i think i missed a ...

A.   23 August 2010: Sorry, but there is a big chance your naive behaviour has just changed your life. Take a test and tell your boyfriend now. If he really cared about you he wouldn't risk ruining your life by using the "pull out method"... (read in full...)

Why don't I feel pleasure when I have sex?

Q.   ive had sex more then 10 times but i dont feel pleasure in it. ive never orgasmed and im always soooo relaxed. his penis is big and im always in the mood but i just for some reason dont feel pleasure when i have sex with a guy. someone helppp? ...

A.   23 August 2010: Maybe you should try kegel excersises and it sounds like the guy really hasn't got a clue what he's doing!!... (read in full...)

He cried when he ejaculated! Is this normal?

Q.   i have just started a new relationship and slept together for the first time although we didnt have sex just foreplay . i just wondered if it was normal for a man to cry whilst ejeculating never had this happen before ...

A.   23 August 2010: Yeah, especially if it's been a while for him.... (read in full...)

What's wrong with me? Why do I feel this way?

Q.   I feel so trapped and alone. I don't know what to do anymore. I know I'm only 17 and I know alot of young teenagers feel like this, which is comforting to an extent, but I don't know when I'm not ever going to feel like this. I feel so clostrap...

A.   23 August 2010: It sounds like your depressed. Depression can make youfeel lifeless. I ge the idea from my own behaviour and my friends that a cycle of depression is just part of been a teenager. Why do you feel like things will never change? Also you don't so... (read in full...)

Does it sound like this married man wants to be with me, despite all the upset that has gone on?

Q.   I've been involved with a married man for over 2 years, he calls and txts me 3-4 times every day. I'm seperated from my husband due to abusive relationship. My estranged husband has confronted this married man multiple times and has also informed ...

A.   23 August 2010: Never mind your question, you need to stop doing this to his wife. Karma can be a slow process.... (read in full...)

Guy threatening to give my boyfriend proof that I cheated!

Q.   I had an affair with A, a guy from work. And I called it off after 2 weeks, no more texts, phone calls, email, facebook. I felt really bad and guilty towards to my bf, because deep inside me i know it is not his fault that he has to work long hou...

A.   13 August 2010: You need to tell your boyfriend. He has a right to know and you have no right to keep this to yourself so the guy who is going to tell your boyfiend is intact the moral one here. Hope your boyfriend can move on and find someone nice and caring and ... (read in full...)

How did she/I get herpes?

Q.   My girlfriend has what appears to be genital herpes. She has small, blister-like sores above her clit that she says feel like ingrown hairs. They have been getting worse over the past 2 weeks. A similar sore just turned up on my penis. She went ...

A.   13 August 2010: I think it's possible for the virus (herpes) to not show for ages and then flare up on people. That's probably what's happened.... (read in full...)

Withheld Unknown number keeps calling my cell!

Q.   i have a problem that has bothering me for the couple of days...i have a new number on my cell and someone has been calling me for the couple of days with the withheld number and unknown number....please i need to know the number of the person who ...

A.   13 August 2010: How on earth do you suppose anyone on here would be able to help tell you who it is?!?! How would we posibly know!!! The only way you can find out is by picking up the phone and saying hi. Seriously did you expect someone to tell you who was ... (read in full...)

I have always wondered if he (husband) was the right choice...

Q.   We have been married 22 years, and have three children 20, 17, and 14. I have always wondered if he was the right choice, even before we got married. I was an alcoholic in recovery when we met (I'm still struggling), and it seemed like the right ...

A.   12 August 2010: Generaly an outgoing person and a quieter person work out well because it's nice to have both sides in a relationship. I wouldn't worry about you having chosen the wrong guy because he sounds like he trys to change for you (therapy) and if you told ... (read in full...)

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