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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ok I'm confused and don't know what to do I lnow for a fact that I'm bisexuale but I'm not sure how to tell my mom she says thatbeing a lesbian is " not her cup of tea " but I can tell she would be devastated No one knows that I am bisexual yet and I hate hiding a part of my self everyone pleas help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2010): I agree with Morrissey-fan... you're young, and odds are very high that your sexual outlook is going to change (maybe a few times) in the next 2 or 3 years. At your age, many girls are where you are, but in the past, none of them felt compelled to tell their mothers about it.
The good news is that today you have the ability to reach out and talk to others about it BEFORE you go to Mom. One of my best freinds went through this, and made the mistake of telling her mother when she got into her first female relationship... it was NOT pretty, and the pain outlasted the relationship. Since she's been married - yet Mom can't let it go (he husband knows all about it, so that's ok).
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reader, Morrissey-fan  +, writes (5 September 2010):
Give it time because alot of people think there bisexual when they're younger. By the time your 18 you will have probably settled on one sex more than te other. Maybe tell her then.
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