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Conflicted feelings of love and bitterness towards my boyfriend....

Q.   Recently I've been having conflicting feelings of love and bitterness towards my boyfriend of a year and a half. I love him, he's kind and caring and makes me laugh, and a lot of the time everything seems fine, like it always has been: we'll go ...

A.   4 August 2010: im in litterly the exact same situation , my boyfriend deletes his history every time he gets off the computer , and he only does it casue i caught him before by his history , and like your situation he promised me he wasnt gonna do it again and now ... (read in full...)

I need someone to tell me that two people can love each other and it last forever.

Q.   I'm 17 years old. An orphan, dumped into the arms of grandparents when I was 12 after my mother died. My sister lives in London as a pediatrician, so I rarely see her. I've learned the way of life on my own, and now I've fallen in love. I met my ...

A.   21 June 2010: i uesd to only belive that love exisited in fairy tales to untill i met my boyfriend , i am actully still young im only sixteen but i think it feels like were forever , if u find the right person two people can love eachother and have it last.the ... (read in full...)

Is he telling me the truth?

Q.   im in a long distance realtion ship my boyfriend moved away about three months ago ,i have seen eachother periodically since he has moved tho. he told me that he wasnt gonna watch porn or anything cause he wants to save him self for me and i ag...

A.   18 June 2010: its not that i dont want him to do it , i was just wondering if hes telling me the truth about it , cause it kinda seems like he just doesnt want me to do it so hes saying hes not . and he does come down about every two weeks sometimes every week so ... (read in full...)

Why do we not talk much anymore?

Q.   im in a long distance relationship and im supose to be moving in with him in about a week but now hes saying that his guy friends supose to be comeing down the weekend that im supose to move there and he wants me to wait an extra week before i go ...

A.   14 June 2010: you see the thing is tho , we havent been in a long distance relationship forever , when i met him he lived here and we were friends for two years before he even asked me out and then we were going out for a year and seen eachotehr litteraly ... (read in full...)

He's hanging out with his friends and is so different when he's with them

Q.   me and my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship , we havent been the whole time and it is only for another few months, but every weekend hes been hanging out with his friends and he acts completely differnt when hes around them and the only ...

A.   28 May 2010: hes not clubing or anything they mostly just game , but hes been hanging out with one of his friends who is like the biggest man whore i have ever met alot and i told him i dont like that friend and it makes me feel uncomfortable when he hangs out ... (read in full...)

My teacher kissed me like I've never been kissed before

Q.   HELPHELPHELPHELP!!! That is like the 3 time i write here about the sama teacher,, ! last time wrote that he kissed me and i think i kissed back (i had a black out for a moment, don't remember anyrhing for like 15 seconds!),and yeserday he came to ...

A.   29 April 2010: tell ur effing parents or the police , who cares how nice he is to u or how much u may "think" u love him , what hes doing its petofileish and u need to tell someone , that is serously messed up !!!... (read in full...)

Me and my girlfriend are both 15 years old and we BOTH want to have sex. But how do we know if we're both ready?

Q.   I need help on a desicion. Me and my girlfriend are both 15 years old and we have been together for about 3 months. But we've known each other for a little less then a year. I asked her just recently if she wanted to have sex with me over the...

A.   28 April 2010: by the sounds of ur panicing your not ready for it , if shes on birth control and u use a condom then u shouldnt worry so much about getting her pregnant. i personally think you should wait to have sex because u want to make sure its what you both ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has to move for work, and my mother wont let me go with him

Q.   okay so heres the deal . my boyfriend got offered a job about 8-10 hours away , and im still in school so my parents wont let me go with him .my school year so far has been hell and my boyfriend is like the only way ive been getting through it ,to ...

A.   28 February 2010: okay thanks guys , i was planning on going to school out there but my mom wouldnt let me do that either , she said that i can move out there in the summer and take grade 12 there but we just found out the job tehre might not be permanent so i might ... (read in full...)

He keeps screwing around with girls online!

Q.   okay so my boyfriend is screwing me over , around december i found out that he made a my yearbook account and a seperate msn that i never knew about and was tlaking/ fliring with chicks and doing shit on webcam with them , i found out wat abck then ...

A.   20 February 2010: last time it happened he got to the point of nude pics and stuff cause he was doing it for at least two monthes before i clued in . na dyeah we kinda talked it out and i think im gonna stay for now cuse for some reason i dont feel worried anymore, ... (read in full...)

I can't walk away but I don't want to be his little bitch either!

Q.   Ok so here's the deal; I like this guy a lot. And I'm really comfortable with him more than any other guy. We went out twice before and he ended up lying to me both times. The first time he cheated on me and the second time he told me he loved me ...

A.   17 February 2010: i completely understand whats happening with you , i went through the same thing with this guy before he asked me out but it wasnt exactly that bad.he didnt actually cheat on me there two times where he ksised other girls but only one of the times ... (read in full...)

Why have I not got a promise ring???

Q.   hey everyone , ive posted quite a few relationship questions on here my lastest one has nothing to do with what im about to ask im just looking for a male perspective on my situation. okay so me and my boyfirend have a group of 2 other couples ...

A.   17 February 2010: its not that i want one so bad i was just wondering if theres a reason that im the only one of the girls in my gruop that i hang out with , that dosent have one :)... (read in full...)

Advice needed. 15, pregnant and don't know what to do... please help!

Q.   Im 15 I Am pregnant and dont know what to do.. Please help me? If your gunna judge than dont say anything....

A.   16 February 2010: talk to your mom . that must be really scary , im sure if anyone will understand it will be her and she will be able to give the best advice , think about what u really want for yourself tho . good luck!... (read in full...)

Why have I not got a promise ring???

Q.   hey everyone , ive posted quite a few relationship questions on here my lastest one has nothing to do with what im about to ask im just looking for a male perspective on my situation. okay so me and my boyfirend have a group of 2 other couples ...

A.   16 February 2010: he graduated last year :P, but yeah i understand thanks for the advice :) ill just keep hanging in there what ever happens happens i guess :)... (read in full...)

He said I'm loose but I've NEVER had sex with anyone else! How can this be?

Q.   okay so last night me and my boyfriend we just laying there cuddling and talking and he told me i was loose..... and he was serious... he said its the most noticeable when hes on top which is one of my favourite positions.... hes the only guy ive ...

A.   16 February 2010: k well thanks for the posts everyone , i talked to him yesterday and he said he didnt mean to offend me by it , at first he try'd to cover up and say he was kidding and i was like ur clearly not kidding... and yea so we talk about it a little bit ... (read in full...)

He said I'm loose but I've NEVER had sex with anyone else! How can this be?

Q.   okay so last night me and my boyfriend we just laying there cuddling and talking and he told me i was loose..... and he was serious... he said its the most noticeable when hes on top which is one of my favourite positions.... hes the only guy ive ...

A.   14 February 2010: he"s 18 tho hes not 16 like me , we've been dating for like a year thats why i dont get why he just said that , i love him more then anything but it makes me like really self concious , we"ve never had any problems liek this beofre... (read in full...)

Opinions needed! Question about birth control.

Q.   Okay, so I just got the depo prevera shot like 2 weeks ago, and my boyfriend decided about 3 days after getting the shot, it was okay to cum in me.... what are the chances of me getting pregnant?...

A.   14 February 2010: i dont no much about the shot , but when u first start taking the pill it takes about a month before it actually strats to work , so if its anything like the pill then ur chances probably are higher but i wouldnt panic about it , if u do get ... (read in full...)

Why does he want to keep me a secret? Is he just using me???

Q.   Well im seeing this boy, and he asked out another girl (my best friend). So i immediatly dumped him, my friend didn't know we where going out (well seeing each other) at the time, so I didn't say anything. Luckily she said no. Then about a week ...

A.   14 February 2010: heres the way to tell if hes using u , tell everyone whats been going on and then word will get back to him and if he gets mad then hes using u , tell him that ur sick of being a secert and if he wants to be with u then people are gonna no about it, ... (read in full...)

He has trouble ejaculating and it's made me feel inadequate! Help!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together a year. He was single when I met him but his ex has been particually nasty as she was annoyed he had moved on. She told me he had premature ejaculation when he was with her, but doesn't have it with me because ...

A.   15 January 2010: well ive never been with some one whos slept with someone else , nbut my boyfriend weve been together for a year as well, he sometimes has that problem so i dont think u should be offened by it , i talked to my sisters when it happened to me cause i ... (read in full...)

Girl wants to have unprotected sex with me and I'm only 14!

Q.   I am 14 and a girl i kno wants me to hav sex with her i am about 5 inches when erect and uncircumsised i am a virgin and she is not ... she wants to do it unprotected and hav a kid ... confused :S help pls...

A.   10 January 2010: dont do it , un less you wanna be called daddy in 9 months and suport a family... and you cant at 14 dont throw your life away..... (read in full...)

Boyfriend semi cheated!

Q.   well to start of my boyfriend over the summer was in basic training and then work training. we wrote to each other everyday..and i trusted him with all my heart till this, i was in his laptop and i was looking thru is mobile uploads to find he had a ...

A.   10 January 2010: my boyfriend did pretty much the same , if u stay with him your not gonna be all that happy i can tell you that much you will hold it agenst him as much as u try not to and you'll start fighting alot and you;ll get mad at him over stupid things, ... (read in full...)

Do I ask her out?

Q.   Alright so im starting to get feelings for my friend she's pretty cool. We hang out every now and then like we went to a few college football games this summer and a couple movies. And lately we've been talkin alot i think she might have some ...

A.   6 January 2010: i think you should ask her out but be prepared for rejection because if her friend has likeed u since 7th grade theres a good chance this girl u like will say no to avoid upsetting her friend , but if your really to risk it then ask her , in my ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend lies about porn and accuses me of cheating!

Q.   my boyfriend and i havent been getting along the greatest ill tell you why after i get throught this, after almost everyfight we have i talk to one of his friends ,lately it seems like his friend is hitting on me.. im not attracted to him at all ...

A.   6 January 2010: i just wanna say thanks to both of you that commented , your adivce really helped, the chances of me leaving him are slim to never , i just hate the lies thats the only reason i was even considering it but thanks to both of you ... (read in full...)

Advice please! I don't know what to do about my boyfriend...

Q.   I don’t know what to do with my boyfriend! He has everything I could ever want in a guy- nice, very much like me, adorable, caring, loving, funny, hot, fun, and I feel like he is practically my best friend. I can share anything with him and we can ...

A.   6 January 2010: your best bet here is to confront him if you dont no the truth your gonna spend ur hole life wondering , his friend could have got one of his friends to act as the girl and message as a fake message,i belive his friends being a dick , if u care ... (read in full...)

First time jitters...

Q.   I've been speaking to a guy from my hometown over msn for a few months. We are arranging to meet up for the first time soon. We are both virgins and feel ready now to lose my virginity. Although I'll point out that it wont be the first time we meet ...

A.   6 January 2010: haveing sex isnt as scary as some people make it sound, if you dont no this guy very well then you might wanna wait till you no everything about him ,maybe some phone conversations instead of msn,from the sounds of this question it doesnt seem like ... (read in full...)

I slept with my best friend... I need to get over him

Q.   OK... So I slept with my friend (Ultimate mistake!!) And of course, me being the chick, I started to have feelings for him.I thought we could have been really good together and I know he did at one stage too cuz he told me. Anyway, I have totally ...

A.   6 January 2010: if you no your not gonna loose him and hes a good friend then just stop talking to him for a while , from the sounds of it tho you really care about him , i almost wanna tell you to go out with him cause i pretty much got my boyfriend like that me ... (read in full...)

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