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*issSamanthamary
writes:me and my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship , we havent been the whole time and it is only for another few months, but every weekend hes been hanging out with his friends and he acts completely differnt when hes around them and the only time i can call him is after seven and hes always with them , and when hes with them it makes me not want to talk to him at all so we end up argueing like every weekend and barely talking , does anyone have any advice to help me make it a few more months till im in his arms again ? please and thank you
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reader, missSamanthamary +, writes (28 May 2010):
missSamanthamary is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhes not clubing or anything they mostly just game , but hes been hanging out with one of his friends who is like the biggest man whore i have ever met alot and i told him i dont like that friend and it makes me feel uncomfortable when he hangs out with him but he still does. he tells me he games when hes with his friends which i do kinda belive but he also says he goes down and they play beach baseball at the beach but he texts me while hes there so i dont really get how you can text while playing baseball .. i dont no im just worried about nothing i guess im just sick of fighting with him over dumb stuff liek this :(
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (28 May 2010):
 Hmm...what is he doing with his friends? Once in awhile, no problem. Guys need time with their guy friends. But every weekend, and I'd be wondering just what he's doing with them. If it's sports stuff or fishing or guy stuff, there's nothing to worry about. If he's clubbing and is frequently with single friends cruising for girls, I'd be nervous.
Some of this might be insecurity on your part because of the long distance arrangement and his running around with his guy friends. Trust me, fighting with him over his time with the guys will do nothing to make him want to spend more time with you.
Keep your eyes open if he's doing a lot of single guy behavior with other girls, but other than that, you can't control the guy. Best thing you can do is go find a bunch of your girl friends and go out with them and have a blast!
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