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reader, thickness  +, writes (12 January 2010):
 Your a virgin so the last thing on your mind is losing your virginity n at the same time becoming a father. Dont do it. N if your really anxious about losing your virginity, find someone who is willing to use the protection thats necessary, especially at your age. Good luck!
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reader, Libra1963  +, writes (10 January 2010):
 What would your parents think if they found out:
1. You are having sex at your age.
2. You are involved with this nutter and her intentions.
3. If she did become pregnant you could have a damaged child or she may be damaged as her body is not old enough to carry a child.
This girl needs a hobby. She seems to have just sex on her mind - Stay away from her. She needs help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2010): run away from this nut case... she's crazy...
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reader, missSamanthamary  +, writes (10 January 2010):
dont do it , un less you wanna be called daddy in 9 months and suport a family... and you cant at 14 dont throw your life away..
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reader, r_a_w_r1645 +, writes (9 January 2010):
 wow wtf that girl sorry but shes messed up if she wants to have a kid right now. dont do it.
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reader, Tagalina  +, writes (9 January 2010):
Please don't go through with this!! Aside from you being too young to do such things - this girl is seriously trying to take you for a ride. My suggestion would be not only to tell her no, but to tell her to get some therapy because she is seriously in need of it. As for you - get out and about, find things that interest you, hang out with your friends and and spend some time developing yourself as a person. Serious commitments like kids and full-on relationships are just too much for somebody your age to deal with. The right girl will come along for you when you're a bit older.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTyti she told me she wanted a kid with me
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Guyz I will just tel her straight out NO !! thankz 4 d help :)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (9 January 2010):
No, doesn't hurt for a guy first time around. Just don't do it yet, that's all.
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reader, Blod +, writes (9 January 2010):
 No need to be confused. Whatever her game is and whatever the reason behind it, say no!! She's using you for a child, and you're only a child!!! 14 is very young, too young for anything like this. You'll have a responsibility for life, be relied upon heavily and in demand in so many ways. It's illegal and you'll have lost your virginity for all the wrong reasons. You shouldn't be having sex anyway, not even if you're over 16 if only 'know' her. You're not even in a relationship with her. And if you did have sex then you should use protection. If she isn't a virgin then she could be carrying all sorts of STD's and STI's. So it's simple: say NO!!!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (9 January 2010):
Wow, she wants 20 years of your life and you are considering it???
You are seriously ready to start changing nappies, thinking about scans, putting all your money into baby food?
Don't you have any friends? Don't you want to go out and have fun?
I know so many girls who would not go out with a guy who had a kid, so you are also considering missing out on girls through your 20s who could be the love of your life.
Oh and this is assuming you are going to carry on getting an education and not leave school and have to get a job to support the little brat. Lets face it, it's going to be a brat and grow up to be a chav. 14 year old girls who demand sex from a virgin boy are hardly going to be mother of the year are they?
If I were you I'd want to grow up and go out and drink and have a life. You'll get so much more sex in the long run if you have the freedom to travel, get good jobs where ever they may be, can have a girlfriend who you doesn't have to dump at the weekend to see some kid who hates him.
Tell her to go and find some other idiot. Why on earth would you be stupid enough to consider this?
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAnd does it hurt 4 a guy 4 his 1st time ?
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reader, Lorenn. +, writes (9 January 2010):
DON'T DO IT?! Jheeeeez. You're only fourteen. You have your whole bloody life ahead of you. This chick needs help. Jheez you don't wanna be lumbered with a baby! You're still a child yourself. DO NOT DO IT. serious. Everyone else will agree!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (9 January 2010):
Simple. Don't do it. Really don't. Apart from being illegal, she's trying to trap you into fathering a child with her, which means at this moment she is unstable and confused about her life. DO NOT DO IT, or you will have a child to be responsible for the rest of your life, when you haven't even started out yet.
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