How can I stop that from happening?
Q. I'm 17 and have had my first proper girlfriend for 2 weeks now. I've got to second base with girls before but have never actually had my penis properly touched, and my girlfriend has jerked me off twice. The first time she had been rubbing my ...
A. 15 April 2010: Totally normal. I imagine every single guy went through the same thing. Many of the previous posts should be helpful.
I'll just add, why does the fun need to stop just because you came? So, clean up a bit, cuddles, show her how much you apprecia... (read in full...)
I haven't been able to bring him off?
Q. Hello people Ive been seeing my new guy for about 2 weeks ,we have slept together and hes never cum when doing anything what is all this about?? I no he does smoke weed and is always drinking down the pub ive just never experienced it with any ...
A. 25 March 2010: I'm not really sure what the problem might be, but you're right about learning about each other. That's maybe the best you can do. He maybe has a strong fetish for something.
Ask him what he wants, what turns him on, what he wants you to do.
T... (read in full...)
A questions for all the guys out there: Girl A, Girl B, or Girl C?
Q. My question is not because I would ever change myself. I just want to hear what guys actually and truly think. I'm going to name three stereotypical girls. (Only sort of stereotypical, mainly just three different personalities). Tell me which you ...
A. 24 March 2010: well, given the way you asked your question, I'd say girl C.
with a huge BUT right afterwards.
but you didn't ask for more.... (read in full...)
Do you dream of threesomes? Have you ever had one?
Q. Another popular topic around here seems to be threesomes. How to ask, how to say no, it's always a bad idea, etc. I'm curious about how many of you fantasize, or are interested in threesomes, either mmf or ffm, or group sex. Is it really only a...
A. 24 March 2010: @eyeswideopen: thanks for the link, though it unfortunately sounds like a pretty terrible experience for this woman.
but surely not ALL experiences are bad. I have read comments from other people that would suggest otherwise. but maybe I misread.... (read in full...)
Guys watch porn. Do women?
Q. It seems that one of the most discussed topics on DC is porn and situations related to the watching of and enjoyment of porn by one person in a relationship, and that being resented by the other. To wit: a guy watches porn, as guys are known t...
A. 23 March 2010: interesting. I never would've thought that women would be into lesbian porn!
and girls don't like the look of a penis? huh.
to follow up, what do you think would be a good way to propose watching porn together? we have done it once, and it was h... (read in full...)
What do men think of lots of pubic hair?
Q. Hey, I'm 14, and i already have LOTS of pubic hair, which i hate. I'm a swimmer, and i'm finding it hard to cope with shaving, and i dont feel ready to wax yet. the hair spreads way past my knicker line. Also, do men find lots of pubic hair unat...
A. 23 March 2010: a whole lotta hair is not attractive. on girls OR guys. have you ever gone down and gotten a mouthful of pubes? not fun. and dangerous. I almost choked once..
keep it trimmed, keep it nice looking, be happy with your own body. you should be proud... (read in full...)
How to make sex more enjoyable for him?
Q. hey :) me and my partner have been sexually active for a while now, and id like to try out some new stuff to make it more intense for him, simply because i want to please him :) i would really like to suprise him by doing new things, be it foreplay ...
A. 23 March 2010: guys nipples are very sensitive, like girls. I'm sure every guy (like every girl) also has their own turn-ons, but I love it when my girl squeezes and slaps my ass during sex. it's very encouraging. light biting is very sexy as well.
also,... (read in full...)
What do you guys like being done for you during sex?
Q. Hello all! I'm looking for some guys' opinions regarding sex. What are some special things you appreciate that your girlfriend/wife do during sex? I'm just looking for some things to make it more interesting. Any opinions would be helpful! Thank yo...
A. 22 March 2010: what the first guy said. but every person is different, the most important thing would be communication. not orders or even words of appreciation really, it can be sounds or movements. basically, every guy likes to know that he is pleasing his ... (read in full...)
Do all boys just want sex?
Q. soo i really want to know do boys really all just want sex? becouse when i even get close to a boy they ask for sex and so this horrible pick up lines and they say stuff like "but your just soo hot i recken you would be amazing in bed" and its like...
A. 22 March 2010: All men think and want sex. Fact. Is it the most important thing? For worthy or honourable guys, no. as Illithid said, NEVER have sex with someone just because THEY want to.
Your wants are equal, if not more important.
Best of luck.... (read in full...)
Is their anything I can do to get her parents to listen?
Q. My girlfriend had one bad relationship with one guy who was 3 years older then her previous to me and her parents seem to have a stigma over older guys now. Since day one i wanted to talk or meet her parents and try to get their approval i hate ...
A. 19 March 2010: Don't force it. Her parents have a right to be concerned about their kid and to ground her for who she hangs out with, no matter how ridiculous that might be.
They need to get to know you. Let them see how you are her friend, and what kind of ... (read in full...)
She has "long" nipples!
Q. Hey, my girlfriend has long nipples and only a size A breast she's a tiny girl and don't get me wrong I love it. She's probably the sexiest woman I have ever seen or been with. I am just wondering why does she have these long nipples? They're ...
A. 19 March 2010: Ha! Dude, every single person on this planet has differences in their bodies. Some guys have 2" peckers while some have 9" monsters. Some people are blond, some have freckles, some are hairy, some are black.
Every nipple is different. Don't wo... (read in full...)
Waiting for the phone to ring...
Q. well i started talking to this guy 5 days back.. he said he likes me but we are gonna think about dating after we are done with our exams.i actually got too excited and started pressuring him with some questions about dating he got pissed yesterday ...
A. 19 March 2010: Don't call him. Let him come around. The best thing for you to do now is to ignore him. If he really likes you, he'll call. If he doesn't, he won't, and you'll know. Move on.
Best of luck.... (read in full...)
How important is having boobs to guys?
Q. ok I have got a major insecurity issue. I barely have breasts at all. And I don't think they are going to get much bigger. How important is having boobs to guys? I don't mean big boobs either. I barely have anything....
A. 19 March 2010: If a guy doesn't like you because you don't have boobs, he doesn't deserve to be with you. And as the anonymous male reader posted, different guys like different things. The important thing is to feel good about your own body. There are 3 billion ... (read in full...)
In fear of hurting my best friend...
Q. I'm in love with my best friend's boyfriend! The way he smiles and makes me laugh, the way we can talk for hours about anything and have the time of our lives i know he feels it to. He talks to me more than he talks to her, he spends alot of time ...
A. 19 March 2010: If he really does like you, it is his responsibility to end things with your friend. But that is not enough. You cannot be with the guy that just left her. At the very least, she needs time. At best, she needs another guy to sweep her off her feet. ... (read in full...)
I have hurt my wife - how do I make amends?
Q. I met my wife while taking a professional course last year. Both of us weren't attracted to one another at first, but as she failed one particular test and I coached her, we gradually got closer and eventually fell in love with each other. Alth...
A. 19 March 2010: In my romantic opinion, love, and honestly, conquers all.
I'm not sure from your question why you are the one who hurt her. You are not forced to take anyone's advice. The situation living with your parents seems to have had quite the effect o... (read in full...)
I don't know whether to be supportive or to be grumpy so he knows how much he's hurt me?
Q. Hi all, I am 20 years old and until recently was in a relationship with (let's call him Mike) who's 22. We got together a year ago and a policy that we could kiss other people but nothing more, and to be completely honest about it. A month or so in...
A. 19 March 2010: I don't think either of you have done anything wrong at all. Huge props to all the decisions you've made concerning living situations and counseling.
Your semi-open relationship, however, while not a recipe for disaster, certainly allows for it. ... (read in full...)
Dreaming of a grade school crush
Q. Hey I'm 21 and I keep having dreams about my sixth grade crush. I have a bf we've ben dating for over a year and I love him yet I can't stop thinking about my grade school crush. To top it all off I bumped into him a couple months ago and well I had ...
A. 19 March 2010: A lot depends on your current relationship. How much does your boyfriend mean to you? Are you REALLY sure your crush has the same feelings? Is it worth dumping your bf (and crushing his heart) for another guy?
You need to examine what you alre... (read in full...)
Can anyone tell me how to mend a broken heart?
Q. Can anyone tell me how to mend a broken heart. I'm totally in love with this fantastic guy. He had a deep obsession once for me, but on deciding to leave his partner (they also have 2 teenage kids) she gave him the biggest guilt trip and now he has ...
A. 19 March 2010: I won't say that his feelings were a lie. But I will tell you that I think you are being selfish. This guy has a wife and kids that he loves (on some level, no matter how he might feel confused) and that love him, that depend on him.
I won't sa... (read in full...)
Am I being really superficial and selfish for feeling like this?
Q. Dear Cupid: I've been single for a long time, and I recently met a super sweet guy online. After talking on the phone for a few days, we met. He is very good looking but for one thing: his teeth. Most of them are rotten. He rarely smiles, ...
A. 19 March 2010: Superficial, yes, but it's not the worst thing in the world. Dental hygiene is important, and being attractive to and pleasing your partner moreso.
You've mentioned your concern to him already, which is good. He says he intends to fix them, wh... (read in full...)
Confused? School? Family?
Q. This is not a love type question just need some advice. My older sister is coming for a visit during a time when I have to work 5 days a week and go to class 4 of those days I will not be home till after 10pm every night of those 4 days, I would ...
A. 19 March 2010: There are things you can do. Though it won't be easy. Your schedule will be disrupted, you will probably sleep less/worse, and you will generally be more stressed and running around. But it's okay for a few days or weeks, because it's pretty ... (read in full...)
Advice needed about my crush!
Q. There is this guy who lives in my village and i've had a huge crush on him for like at least 6 months now, even though I hardly know him. I've only ever spoken to him once or twice, but whenever i see him, in my village or at school(he's not in my ...
A. 19 March 2010: Most importantly: relax.
Butterflies are a great feeling, but often they make us say weird things or act dorky. If you don't already know each other, don't be too direct. A first step might be finding out some of his interests, and seeing i... (read in full...)
Going with the wave when all I want to do is run into the other guy's arms!
Q. hi.. im 22 years old and my Bf asked me to marry him like 4 and half months now, i love him which is why I said yes when he asked me.. we've been a couple for like 1 year and and 7 months now but he didnt tell me that he's got a 13 year old son,...
A. 19 March 2010: please DO NOT GO THROUGH WITH THE MARRIAGE BEFORE AT LEAST TALKING WITH YOUR FIANCÉE. He has a right to know how you are feeling, and you both need to be going into this marriage with open hearts and clear consciences. About this other guy, it ... (read in full...)
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