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anonymous
writes: hey :) me and my partner have been sexually active for a while now, and id like to try out some new stuff to make it more intense for him, simply because i want to please him :) i would really like to suprise him by doing new things, be it foreplay or during actual sex. i dont mean outfits and stuff like that, im clued up on that :) i was just after some tips really, about the actual physical things i could do to make it really something. appreciate any advice. thanks :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2010): The best thing to do is talk, share you fantasies, find out his desires. I cannot tell you to do anal or dress like a nun because I do not know what he likes. Role playing, fantasies, maybe tying him up. You do not have to tell him you are going to do anything, just find out what he really desires and that way you cannot go wrong
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reader, mikehimself +, writes (23 March 2010):
guys nipples are very sensitive, like girls. I'm sure every guy (like every girl) also has their own turn-ons, but I love it when my girl squeezes and slaps my ass during sex. it's very encouraging. light biting is very sexy as well.
also, depending on your level of comfort, dirty talk is very arousing. you don't need to worry about being good at it or anything, just let him know vocally how much you are enjoying what he is doing and ask for more.
to get down to specifics, it is a great feeling to get a hand-job while your balls are being worshipped.
lots of guys also enjoy a bit of anal stimulation, can be anything from light touching during vaginal intercourse, to oral fun (not as dirty as you might think), to outright anal penetration (like with girls, go slow and start small).
these are a just a few physicality tips, as per your request. fantasies are a whole other world.
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reader, kerizz +, writes (21 March 2010):
try this my hubby loved it n me 2 cold ice lollies all over his bod wen he,s worked up a sweat try n enjoy dont forget to lik it off lol
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reader, Luckie128 +, writes (20 March 2010):
Hmm... lots of thoughts going through my mind. Here's one..have you tried anything in the shower? I've heard there's nothing better than standing in the shower, having hot water hit your back, and getting blown at the same time...on hot water and a hot mouth..just saying...lol
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reader, The Realist +, writes (20 March 2010):
Try kissing various parts of his body, all over and run you tongue around his neck, chest and lower region. You can also also do the same sort of thing with your hands just stay away from direct contact with his penis until he is absolutely begging for it. This should really get him going.
Good luck and have fun with it.
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