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anonymous
writes: ok I have got a major insecurity issue. I barely have breasts at all. And I don't think they are going to get much bigger. How important is having boobs to guys? I don't mean big boobs either. I barely have anything.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2010): Having boobs to a guy means a lot because boobs are like a bucks antlers the bigger they are the more men will want them as their own. The more guys see the more they will want to do. For instince every guy thinks that i stuff my bra but i dont and when they find that out they try ro ask me on a date trust me i know from experience.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2010): I met someone who says I'm lovely and charming. I know I will be alright. Thank you everyone.
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reader, SirenaBlusera +, writes (19 March 2010):
You'd be surprised: A lot of guys prefer small ones, and a lot of them don't care at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2010): I prefer them natural. Big or small doesn't matter. Everyone is beautiful for their own reasons.
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reader, delly2k10 +, writes (19 March 2010):
the right guy for you will come your way one of the days and he will like you the way you are. every guy is diffent some like small and some like big and anyway it is not about boobs that matter it is the personality that matters the most hope this helps you gd luck!!
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reader, Missprettynpurple +, writes (19 March 2010):
let me put itt this way i am a double D at the age of 15 i have had 1 boyfriend an he was an idiot.one of my bestfriends still wears a vest instead of a bra she has had 3 serious relationship an has now found like the guy of her dreams.in short u dont want to attract guys wit ure boobs cuz thats all they will want at the start an at the end.attract a guy with ure beauty an ure mind an asure u will have a longlasting relationship, not just a touch an go kind of relationship!
make sure u love yourself an u'll b fine!
XXX
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reader, mikehimself +, writes (19 March 2010):
If a guy doesn't like you because you don't have boobs, he doesn't deserve to be with you. And as the anonymous male reader posted, different guys like different things. The important thing is to feel good about your own body. There are 3 billion men on this planet. Don't worry about a few losers that only see boobs.
And besides, you're still young. People develop at different ages. Some women have tiny breasts that get big, and stay that way, when they get pregnant.
Best of luck.
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reader, pandabird +, writes (19 March 2010):
I have small boobs, it's quite annoying because I'm a size 12, and they don't look quite right on my frame! However, I prefer them to larger breasts, my friend has massive boobs, she's only 20 and they've started to go saggy already. we wont have this problem :)
Also, it says you're 16/17... I was a AA til I was 19, then filled out a little(not much mind!), I don't know why this happened so late.
Men definitely don't care about them as much as we do, any boy worth his soul will love your breasts because they are part of you, not love you because of your breasts.
And besides, I wont let any man make me feel any less attractive because I don't have an over-sized pair of mammary glands strapped to my chest :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2010):
Having "no boobs" is probably going to hurt your chances with more men than it helps you. But there is a wider variety of preferences in men than what the media would lead you to think. Some men do prefer smaller ones. And some men don't have strong opinions about boobs either way.
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