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writes:There is this guy who lives in my village and i've had a huge crush on him for like at least 6 months now, even though I hardly know him. I've only ever spoken to him once or twice, but whenever i see him, in my village or at school(he's not in my year though), i get this like massive surge of butterflies in my stomach. When he sees me he smiles at me, could he feel the same way too? I'd really like to get to know him but i dont know how to! Any advice? x
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (19 March 2010):
 just relax and try to talk to him a bit more, not too much, but just be at ease. I find that you can get loads of answers and not get much closer to what you want. Just trust your natural instinct and you should be fine because your gut is usually right.
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reader, Missprettynpurple +, writes (19 March 2010):
in my 15 years on this earth i have had many crushes some sucessful some..... let's say not so sucessful.but heres my advice all ways b yourself ( i noe i sound like ure mum rite) because u do end up going out being some1 eles is hard 4 long periods of time.always try an look your best wen he's around.try an strike up convos wit him so u can both get to know each other better.an plz plz plz dnt stare at him lik a crazy person ( a common mistake of mine) try stay causal but yourself.an always remeber if hez not the one there is a boy somwer out there is ure perfect match.
Hope it works out!
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reader, mikehimself  +, writes (19 March 2010):
Most importantly: relax.
Butterflies are a great feeling, but often they make us say weird things or act dorky. If you don't already know each other, don't be too direct. A first step might be finding out some of his interests, and seeing if you have anything in common.
It's often easier to get to know someone if you are hanging out in a group. It's an excuse to interact, to chat. Avoid talking about how you feel about him right away. Body language says a lot without risking too much. Smiles, little touches on the arm, shoulder or back, etc.
But it isn't just about telling him how you feel. Show him how awesome you are. Do something great. And trust me, the greatest thing any of us can do is being ourselves. If he's not into you, well, it's his loss right?
Best of luck.
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