How should I deal with my newborn's father?
Q. I have a gorgeous 2 month old daughter and she's my world. My past with her father isn't so great and I haven't even talked to him since I was 16 weeks pregnant, so basically forever ago! He treated me poorly and said hurtful things, as well ...
A. 20 November 2011: I really do want to but I usually have the support of my family behind me but I don't have it in this situation so I don't have the confidence to go through with it ):... (read in full...)
My best friend doesn't know that I love him
Q. I am in love with my best friend , also my neighbour , and I don't know what to do , if I should tell him , or leave it alone. Here's my story. Let's call him , Cody. Cody is my best friend. Not just best guy friend...he's my number one best ...
A. 4 April 2011: I've felt this way with all of my guy best friends since 7th grade except one-he was gay lol. In my experience- 7th grade: hooked up with him for awhile-never talked again 8th grade: I told him and it pushed him away and we never talk anymore ... (read in full...)
Stretch marks on my breasts...how do I get rid of them??
Q. Hi, So recently I gained a bit of weight and my bra went up a cup size. So now I have small stretch marks at the top of them. Does anyone know of something that works for sure to get rid of them???...
A. 4 April 2011: I've tried a billion products to help mine go away, but the best thing that worked was time. After a year or less of having them, they faded to a color probably 1 shade lighter than my skin color-you can hardly see them. They are just scars.... (read in full...)
I am exhausted by the intense highs and lows that come with my boyfriend! Do all couples go through this?
Q. I am so confused. Been with b/f 5 years and they've been rocky years. He's short tempered and impatient and it causes us to have alot of fights, but he is aware that his personality is very intense, and he does apologize and he's good at doing a ...
A. 10 February 2010: I'm not in a relationship but you sound like my dad and mom. my dad's mood were so hot and cold ALL THE TIME. my mom hated it and always threatened divorce for many, many years. eventually, something happened within them that changed because now ... (read in full...)
Could it be? A...Soulmate?
Q. Hi, I'm Kajimaru, and I wanted to ask a question. There is a boy who I am interested in. Lets call him 'Tatsuno'. Tatsuno has everything in common with me. Even before I knew him, there was always his name in my mind...His real name, of course. So, ...
A. 10 February 2010: sorry, girl, but my opinion is no... you guys probably don't even deeply know each other because you guys probably don't even know yourselves deeply... as for being whereever you are... what do you mean?... (read in full...)
Should I get the morning after pill?
Q. should I get the morning after pill? I just had sex tonight w/o protection but he didn't cum inside. do you think I should?...
A. 25 January 2010: I didn't get the pill & I didn't get pregnant : D but I think I have an STD. ... (read in full...)
I swallowed and my mouth and neck burned - is this normal?
Q. I just gave my bf a blowjob today and I swallowed... and my mouth and throat burned so I chewed some gum and it went away after like ten minutes... is this normal or is something wrong?...
A. 20 October 2008: oh ok so he's not like a walking std because his cum burns a little? lol. I was like concerned that it wasn't normal & my parents would kill me if they found out something sexual related was wrong lol. because they looove my boyfriend (:... (read in full...)
I swallowed and my mouth and neck burned - is this normal?
Q. I just gave my bf a blowjob today and I swallowed... and my mouth and throat burned so I chewed some gum and it went away after like ten minutes... is this normal or is something wrong?...
A. 19 October 2008: I'm too scared to get tested because I'd get too embarassed and wouldn't trust anyone. also, I wouldn't want to offend him, and even if I did ask him, I'm not sure if hed be honest. the burning went away and i dont know if the gum helped, and is it ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my best friend. he's a pothead and I believe he's becoming an alcoholic.
Q. I'm in love with my best friend. he's a pothead and I believe he's becoming an alcoholic. he's had a rough life. his mom just committed suicide last year and he found her and its just tragic. basically, I just want him to be happy. he can really be ...
A. 15 October 2008: yah he's 17. he lies to me and his little brother and he steals from his dad and his other friends. I've tried talking to him but he doesn't listen because he says it makes him happy. but I'm really concerned about him because he can get really mad ... (read in full...)
Do I have an infection in my big toe? What made it go green?
Q. right what does it mean when a aprt of your big toe has gone green? Is it just an infection? and is it easily sorted? its just down the side bit, not on the nail but on that area and then the bit of skin that goes down the right hand side of that ...
A. 7 September 2008: my finger was infected like that, in the same area of your toe that you described, and yah it was green. kinda sick. and really did hurt. my school nurse said to soak it in a warm saltwater solution until its soft and with a sterile needle poke a ... (read in full...)
I can't fall asleep until really early in the morning, but when I do I sleep for 12 hours. What is this?
Q. I know this has nothing to do with love and what not.. but I think I have sleeping issues? I'm definitely a night person and I can stay up really late, even if I want to sleep early. I just find it difficult to sleep. but when I finally do, I sl...
A. 25 August 2008: well, it was like this last school year. I'd get about 3 hrs average and then I'd come home do my work and stay up late still everynight. like sometimes I'm mentally tired from school but not physically and then the opposite... (read in full...)
I can't fall asleep until really early in the morning, but when I do I sleep for 12 hours. What is this?
Q. I know this has nothing to do with love and what not.. but I think I have sleeping issues? I'm definitely a night person and I can stay up really late, even if I want to sleep early. I just find it difficult to sleep. but when I finally do, I sl...
A. 25 August 2008: well, it was like this last school year. I'd get about 3 hrs average and then I'd come home do my work and stay up late still everynight. like sometimes I'm mentally tired from school but not physically and then the opposite... (read in full...)
"Fluids" come out even when we're not doing anything sexual... Help?
Q. Well me and My girlfriend have been going out for 2 and a half years now and we started having sex. Its great and all but what I kinda hate is that, after we began having sex I noticed when were alone and not doing anything..I "cum" for no reason. ...
A. 9 August 2008: sorry bud but I'm not sure what to tell you. since you can't control it, its natural. for example, breathing is natural and we can't stop until death. yah you may argue we can hold our breath, but not for long.. at least average people! so don't ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend enjoys oral sex, but her pubic hair is a turnoff for me, I've talked to her about it, but so far it is still the same, what do I do now?
Q. My girl says she really enjoys guys giving her oral sex. I really want to but im put off by her pubes. I don't want her pubes in my mouth. I've talked to her about it and she says she might get it waxed but that was months ago and still the bush ...
A. 8 August 2008: eww I hate bushes lol. talk to her for real for real about it and let her know it truly bothers you without sugar coating it. if you have to, stop until she compromises. it doesn't have to be completely gone. just where you put cha mouf (:... (read in full...)
"Fluids" come out even when we're not doing anything sexual... Help?
Q. Well me and My girlfriend have been going out for 2 and a half years now and we started having sex. Its great and all but what I kinda hate is that, after we began having sex I noticed when were alone and not doing anything..I "cum" for no reason. ...
A. 8 August 2008: I think since you guys have had sex, in the back of your mind, you're still sorta thinking about it and its still turning you on even though you're not cognizant of the existing thought. its no biggy!... (read in full...)
I am a scorpio, she is a capricorn, we care deeply about each other, but I have trust issues and I am very jealous of her, how do I resolve these problems?
Q. i have been dating this capricorn girl and she is sooo sweet and nice and trust worthy im a scorpio and i feel we r too open emotionaly together everything is great i feel we were born for each other she tells me that too we cant live without each ...
A. 28 July 2008: hey I'm a cappy (: I'm into zodiac lol. and uh I'm one of the most trusted people withing my friends. I'm trustworthy, honest, loyal, and respectful.
I used to be skeptical about zodiac until the accuracy was crazy creepy.
anywho I'm the bigg... (read in full...)
What do I do so that I do not hurt anyone?
Q. I can't decide! there's this girl in my school that I really like, but there's this other girl who likes me, I don't wanna hurt anyone.What should I do?...
A. 28 July 2008: awh you're filipino? me too (:
anywho. yah I'd totally just get to know both of them more and decide from there. but I'd lean more towards the one you like where as the girl that likes you might be considered a pitychick you know? but the chic... (read in full...)
Is it possible to get withdrawal symptoms if you stop masturbating?
Q. i know you hear of people gettin withdrawal symptoms from smoking, drinking etc, but when its that one week out of the month and mastubating would be a REALLYY messy job so i prefer not to do it, i get realy snappy n stuff, and i get so horny its ...
A. 26 July 2008: you're PMSing. how long have you been having your period? I've had mine since I was 11 and I always get upset realllly easily versus getting mad. my sister on the other hand turns into a complete bitch lol. but I've been masturbating since I was ... (read in full...)
Why do men say they want real women if they fantasize and desire "fake" girls, if it's the ideal woman then they should want to be with them, right?
Q. Hello, I wrote this last night: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-hate-to-think-that-a-anorexic-fake.html Basically, I was saying that guys (and my boyfriend especially) say that women in the media and strip clubs are hotter than us normal gi...
A. 25 July 2008: cool. cool opinion, man. I don't understand why you're continuing with the dilemma. its just the media. and if you haven't noticed, not al stars are the ideal beauty queen or the handsome prince. you sound so one-sided. some guys are attracted to ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure what to do about this friend that is being bullied!
Q. My friend is being bullied (just teasing) and told me not to tell. Should I tell anyway or listen to him? Once stood up for him and now the bully thinks his "girlfriend" need to protect him. He got very mad at me and say your a f***ing bitch, Why is ...
A. 25 July 2008: tell him to stand up for himself.
just pretty much have a good conversation with him about how you care about him and the bullying is making you concerned. all that good stuff. you know? is it upsetting him? if the bullying gets out of hand, then... (read in full...)
He swears he has feelings for me. Why do I find it so hard to believe him?
Q. This is a kind of complicated problem, but please try to understand it. Ok, so my problem is with a lad who Im good friends with. Im 15 and he's 17. We've always been good friends, but recently Ive developed much, much stronger feelings for him (not ...
A. 25 July 2008: yet again another situation similar to mine. I've known a guy for 14 years and it wasn't until this year that we started flirting and stuff. we told each other we liked each other but I definitely feel like I like him way more and way more serious ... (read in full...)
I found out that my girlfriend likes lesbian porn. Is this normal?
Q. hi,i found that my girlfriend like lesbian porn.me too!well i asked her if she ever masturbated alone and watched lesbian porn?she said yes.but is shy about it.the other night i thought id treat her and told her to watch some lesbian porn.she likes ...
A. 25 July 2008: yah same as the other chicks.. not so much the feet but yah I watch lesbian porn sometimes when I masturbate. I think its normal. guys are boring to watch because there's not moaning or anything. just.. bleh lol. but I'd never perform the same ... (read in full...)
How can I control my raging hormones?
Q. I think i have a problem with my hormones. im 16 and i am a guy who doesnt really think about sex while being next with other girls its the last thing i want because i respect girls. Id rather talk than "do" when i am alone yea i am hiprocriticl ...
A. 25 July 2008: think about an ass that's extremely hairy with acne hahah. dude idk. its normal, actually.... (read in full...)
Help me...I keep thinking I want to lie to girls to lure them in and then screw them over!
Q. I really liked a girl as a friend for a few years at school, then found out from a friend that she "wanted to hook up with me". I asked her out to a movie, and after that things got really weird. She said she wasn't sure at first, then afterwards ...
A. 23 July 2008: aye bro I don't have a religion, nor do I believe in karma. I don't have the best of luck with boys either, but obviously I'm younger than you. I've alwwaayysss been stuck in that friend zone. its either friend zone or sexual things an it just ... (read in full...)
I'm self conscious about my weight and small eyes, please help me!
Q. well im 12 years old and weigh 11 stone. im very concious about my weight. i dont look 11 stone but under all my clothes im a mess. this has put me of having a boyfriend and meeting new boys. all my friends have boyfriends and i dont. not alot of ...
A. 23 July 2008: bleh, oh yah, so when I was younger I was also picked on. I don't know about you, but you seem pretty smart. I would use my smarts to make the bullies feel stupid with what they're saying. by either making a sarcastic remark, playing along, or ... (read in full...)
"Fluids" come out even when we're not doing anything sexual... Help?
Q. Well me and My girlfriend have been going out for 2 and a half years now and we started having sex. Its great and all but what I kinda hate is that, after we began having sex I noticed when were alone and not doing anything..I "cum" for no reason. ...
A. 23 July 2008: 'pull out' is like when a couple, well, or maybe not a couple, decides to have unprotected sex and the guy pulls out before he cums and cums elsewhere. since there is pre-ejaculation, that method doesn't exactly prevent the girl from becoming ... (read in full...)
I'm self conscious about my weight and small eyes, please help me!
Q. well im 12 years old and weigh 11 stone. im very concious about my weight. i dont look 11 stone but under all my clothes im a mess. this has put me of having a boyfriend and meeting new boys. all my friends have boyfriends and i dont. not alot of ...
A. 23 July 2008: two words.
fuck people.
I'm overweight, too and I don't know what the hell 11 stone means.
boys are lame, plus being 12, I doubt they're as important. they're all probably just dating to have a bf/gf. and that seems like that's why yo... (read in full...)
Is my cousin trying to get sexual with me?
Q. My cousin is staying with the family and I, but what should I do about his adittude when he is around me? When he pisses off he will think its okay to poke or tickle me i dont like that at all, i mean its nothing sexal but last night he was looking ...
A. 23 July 2008: well my best guy friend alllwaayyssss pokes and tickles me, and he's aware it annoys the hell out of me! lol but he tells me its just funny how I react and its nice to get a smile and laugh out of me. unless he's tickling and poking your tits, vag ... (read in full...)
He's been so good to me that I don't feel I can dump him, even though I no longer love him.
Q. I'm 14, and I've been dating this guy for almost 9 months. He's helped me through some of the hardest times in my life such as when my sister died, helping build up my confidence, and being so sweet too me. I love him alot, but now that I'm ent...
A. 23 July 2008: I agree to end it with him because you're not exactly committed and its kind of like lying to him if you stay in the relationship. I'd just be completely honest with him, itd be better for both of you.... (read in full...)
She says she likes me as a friend - what can I do to change her mind?
Q. Hi everyone, I need help. Tonight i kinda got rejected by this girl i like. We have been getting along really well and talkin on msn all the time and we always send each other kisses and that sorta thing. Well anyway we were going to go out t...
A. 23 July 2008: you can deal with the his a few ways.
1)be all pissy about it and ignore her - not reccommended lol
2)confront her with how she was flirting with you and stuff and ask why she felt the need to stop.
3)keep flirting and spit your game broth... (read in full...)
I hurt one of my friends badly, what do I do?
Q. My friend Hannah (not her real name) lost her Dad (he was 42) in a car accident and she been annoying me ever since it happen. One day Hannah wining about her Dad and I lost it (didnt mean to) and told her shes being obsessed with him and needs to ...
A. 21 July 2008: ....how she replied to your friend basically gave you your answer...TELL HER IN PERSON.
but don't appease her, actually mean it because that was a totally asshole thing to do. very callous. try growing up and stop thinking about your well-bei... (read in full...)
I haven't been in a relationship for a year. There's no one I like who likes me, and I've lost respect for myself.
Q. I'm 15 and I haven't been in a relationship in a year because I don't think I can handle it anymore. whenever I've been in one I was always stressed out. Especially during school because I'm in almost all honors/ap classes and 2 year ahead in ...
A. 16 July 2008: I'm aware, its just I've stopped caring a whole lot and idk what's wrong. any advice on eliminating as much awkwardness as possible? I chill with my guy bestie a couple times a week and 90% of the time his other bestie is there. everytime we're ... (read in full...)
I've fallen for this lad, but I don't want my heart broken all over again. I would be grateful for any advice.
Q. hello there! okay so this is quite a long confusing question/problem but im hoping people can help! anyways...ages ago i went to this place (i dont really wanna name it) and i saw this lad there and i was like omg! lol anyways i was guessing tha...
A. 16 July 2008: lame! love at first sight is just something little. I just now recently messed up my relationship style but whatevs. I mean like get to know him first you know? right nowits just eye candy.
have you ever been in a real relationship? I think on... (read in full...)
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