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writes:Well me and My girlfriend have been going out for 2 and a half years now and we started having sex. Its great and all but what I kinda hate is that, after we began having sex I noticed when were alone and not doing anything..I "cum" for no reason. Not like..Orgasm Cum but just.."Fluids". Lol and I think its just cuz.."Raging Hormones" but I'm not sure. Can any one help? Reply to this Question
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reader, mamasaidknockyouout +, writes (9 August 2008):
sorry bud but I'm not sure what to tell you. since you can't control it, its natural. for example, breathing is natural and we can't stop until death. yah you may argue we can hold our breath, but not for long.. at least average people! so don't hate on my example lol. anywho if its not like a whole lot then it shouldn't be that big of a deal, you know? does she notice it? and who knows, she may be getting wet or something around you! I know around some guys ill get wet and its embarassing.. even though they can't tell.
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reader, Chestnut +, writes (8 August 2008):
Chestnut is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah I know but..I wanna be around her with out ejaculating lol which happens..basically all the time and I hate it!
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reader, mamasaidknockyouout +, writes (8 August 2008):
I think since you guys have had sex, in the back of your mind, you're still sorta thinking about it and its still turning you on even though you're not cognizant of the existing thought. its no biggy!
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reader, Chestnut +, writes (7 August 2008):
Chestnut is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIs there anyway(s) to stop this?
Cause I visited her just last week and..it happened again.
We were just outside talking ,while our parents were talking inside, and she didn't turn me on or anything(not that she doesn't :p) but like it just..happens. Ihate it cuz I want to hug her or just be around her without "Pre-Ejaculating" lol its happened ever since we started having sex and yeah. If there's anyway that it can stop please tell!
Thanks
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reader, Aunty_Amber  +, writes (23 July 2008):
 its just precum or pre-ejaculation....perfectly natural and nothing to be worried/annoyed about.
in fact its kinda a compliment to your girlfriend because it shows that she 'turns you on' all the time not just when you are having sex...which i think would make any girl happy.
have fun and stay safe
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reader, mamasaidknockyouout +, writes (23 July 2008):
'pull out' is like when a couple, well, or maybe not a couple, decides to have unprotected sex and the guy pulls out before he cums and cums elsewhere. since there is pre-ejaculation, that method doesn't exactly prevent the girl from becoming pregnant everytime.
lame? fa sho! (:
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reader, Chestnut +, writes (23 July 2008):
Chestnut is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHahaha "Pull out" hahaha what's that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2008): This is precum. You get it because your body has its own memory and knows what it expects and what it longs for. Normal and no worries.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2008): its pre-ejaculation.
look it up.
its normal, I promise (:
my good ol' health teacher from 7th grade made it very clear to us why the 'pull out' method doesn't work. (:
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