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writes:My girl says she really enjoys guys giving her oral sex. I really want to but im put off by her pubes. I don't want her pubes in my mouth. I've talked to her about it and she says she might get it waxed but that was months ago and still the bush remains. What do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2011): Hmm, could you compromise? That is could you live with her cutting some of the hair down instead of a wax? If not you may have to part. I for one would never, ever wax my private area. I detest the pubescent child-like look of a bald private area and have no complaint of my natural triangle of hair from my current man or lovers I have in the past. But I do self-trim my hair a bit with scissors, and hit my bikini line with a razor, but that is it. I am not balding myself. I just don't like the idea of it... or the look from what I've seen online mostly from the porn sites where it seems to be the thing.My skin is sensitive and prone to ingrown hairs so that is another reason I am not 'balding' up my private areas. I get an occasional hair in my mouth from giving oral love to my man, no big deal. I suppose you could always try to move the hair out of the way as double-m suggests. Despite the recent trend to 'bald' privates some women do not. But a scissor trim can help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2008): The world is a big place. If you she knows this and its equally important to you as it is to her, move on. We all do things we don't like to make someone else happy - if that makes them happy it makes you happy. This is what everyone wants to give and be given by someone else.
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reader, Mark25  +, writes (9 August 2008):
 To be honest with you, it's her body and if she doesn't want to trim or get rid of her pubes then that's her business. It's clear that she doesn't want to get rid of them so it's rude and , to be honest with you, a little bit insulting. You might be making her feel bad and I'm sure that that's the last thing that you want to do. Getting hairs in your mouth is not that bad. When you see the ecstasy that you're giving her it's worth putting up with a few hairs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all the advice guys, especially DoubleM's techniques. I don't know if i said it properly but i suggested that she trim a bit, she was the one who suggested a full wax. I am completley fine with her having a bush but its just i don't like it when loose hairs get in my mouth during the deed. Still, thanks for all the help, it is much appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008): She clearly doesn't want to so don't ask again. Don't make her feel uncomfortable about how she looks or she won't have sex with you.
You can do nothing but get over it. Your problem not hers.
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reader, lexilou +, writes (8 August 2008):
 A lot of ladies dont like the bare look I dont personally think its very attractive, Im a grown woman not a child. I keep my 'undercarriage' hair free and bikini line is trimmed too. Doublem has given some good tips try them out.
And Miss Wendlemoot, my hubbie shaves his balls for me!! Its something I have asked every man Ive ever been with to do, not just for me but for the intense pleasure it gives them when I lick their hair free smooth balls!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008): You could make it a game and shave each other. Sound hinky (to use a word from NCIS) but it's actually kinda fun.
Besides I find it weird if a woman is fully waxed down there... give me a neatly trimmed woman, with a landing strip or something, over the glorified preteens that go hairless.
Flynn 24
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reader, BigSis +, writes (8 August 2008):
 Here! Here! Miss Wendlemoot and Waz...my sentiments exactly.
There is just something not quite right about a completely clean shaved pussy, to me it borders on the verge of looking too much like an underage one.
Yes a nice trim is the furthest I would go, and I've never had any complaints.
DoubleM knows what he's talking about.
Perfectly explained M! Right down to the 'Come-hither' motion, I love that bit and couldn't have put it better myself. Nice one!
BigSis
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008): She obviously dosen't want to shave it off! maybe if you shaved you maybe she will too?
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reader, MissWendlemoot  +, writes (8 August 2008):
 This hairless thing is a fairly recent fad. Did you know men have been eating at the Y for years with full bushes and never once complained?
I can't imagine anyone's pubic area shedding so much you are getting clumps of hair in your mouth.
Ladies how many of you get male pubes on your mouth but do men normally shave down there or are willing to. No.
Apparently she isn't willing to shave for you. Try the technique DoubleM is suggesting. I imagine he is old school and has tamed many a full bush in the day before all this shaving fad happened. ;)
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008): I know what you mean. Having to comb your teeth afterwards isn't all that pleasant. DoubleM has it spot on if she won't get rid of them. Another solution is to get in the bath with her and have an erotic game of 'Shave the pubes' which can be fun, but be careful with the razor!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008): If you don't like it then don't give her oral again until the bush is gone or noticibly reduced.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (8 August 2008):
 Well I solve this issue by using my fingers to spread the pubic hair away from the areas of interest. When my woman is lying on her back in bed, I'll place a pillow under her bun and position myself flat on my belly between her legs. Of course, there are other possible positions. Prior to licking or plunging in, I'll "fluff" the area with my hand to clear most any "loose" pubies, then part the hairs using the thumb and index finger of my left hand from an "above" position. The position also allows you to add the desired pressure on her mons pubis area (above the clitoris) as she nears orgasm. You are still likely to be dealing with the presence of some pubic hair, but you can hold most of it away and have good access to her vaginal opening, labias and clitoris without getting many pubic hairs in your mouth. For her added enjoyment, you can hold this position and also work two fingers of your right hand into her vagina to stimulate her G-spot. Use a "come-hither" motion. Sometimes it is difficult to breathe because if your nose is buried, so take momentary breaks while using your right thumb to massage her clitoris.
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reader, mamasaidknockyouout +, writes (8 August 2008):
eww I hate bushes lol. talk to her for real for real about it and let her know it truly bothers you without sugar coating it. if you have to, stop until she compromises. it doesn't have to be completely gone. just where you put cha mouf (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008): you could bring it up again. but she doesnt have 2 wax it she could just shave it. (be sure to tell her that) but you also have to respect her disision if she doesnt want to.....and just dont do it if its a problem.
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