Family drama....
Q. My mother in-law wants to move in should i let her it not just her its her grandaughter to because my boyfriends brother is in the army and his mother is watching his child until next year when he comes home we already have 2 kids and 1 on the way ...
A. 2 July 2009: thsnk you all and i decided not to let her move in and needless to say my hubby wasnt happy about it he feels like this is his house to and know he sayd he feel like he dont have no say so i told him that when he wants some private time alone with ... (read in full...)
Any baby name ideas that go well with Gerrard?
Q. Hey everyone, I know you lot are a clever bunch so thinking you could help us out here :) i've been thinking of baby names, and would like to use my late grandfathers name as a middle name, which is Gerrard, but I want it to go with manson, which'll ...
A. 2 July 2009: it really dont matter beacuse they never really aknowledge the whole name if you give your son 2 middle names he will prolly end up using the one he like the most only time he will ever see his whole name is on his social secruity card lol but if it ... (read in full...)
He thinks a threesome will save our relationship, but will he lose respect for me instead?
Q. My boyfriend of about a year wants a threesome. (If you have read my other post, you might laugh and think it is a crazy idea.) Last week he said he would like to have a threesome. Since we do not know anyone to do it with it is mostly all fa...
A. 2 July 2009: you guys have not been togethere long enough to bring someone into your relationship i mean i think it is every guys fantacy but is that where it would stop or is that something he wpuld want all the time and you never know he might get a little to ... (read in full...)
I don't want to give the baby, my boyfriend or my education up, what shall I do?
Q. Hey, I've almost finished with collage, am about to start univsity and have a steady boyfriend. Just on problem, I found out I'm pregnant. My parents where a little upset but are ultimetly okay with it and say they will help out so I can carry on ...
A. 2 July 2009: its hard juggling your career your dreams and a family but not impossible i mean the baby will need and want mommy there all the time but you said that you have help and you will need it if you love him them marrage should not scare you you are ... (read in full...)
I need tips on giving oral sex
Q. There is this girl that I've been fooling around with for a few weeks now... it will most likely turn into a relationship soon because I have strong feelings about this girl and I'm assuming she does as well because we spend a lot of time with each ...
A. 2 July 2009: all you have to do is enjoy it you dont need tips on how to do it cuz what works for one person may not work for the other but if you like to do it then go explore you will be able to tell what she likes by her reactions... (read in full...)
Seeing a married man and he wants us to have sex in his wife's bed!
Q. I'm 18 and seeing a married man of 40, and its just mainly sex but i wish he would leave his wife for me, we usually have sex in his car and he suggested how hot and thrilling it would be to have sex in his and his wife's bed? The only thing...
A. 2 July 2009: he is using you for a toy and i hope you are getting more then a wet ass from him and you should be worried what that lady will do if she catches you you think she gone wait around for you to finish and ask you why she gone try to kick your ass!! ... (read in full...)
My married lover is stalking me
Q. My married lover is stalking me - I only found out he was married recently, he gets a group of his mates to help him spy on me too-thing is, from how he's treated me and the fact that he's married he doesnt love me and from how he is with me I'm ...
A. 2 July 2009: call his wife let her know that her husband is a stalker i mean why is he stalking you if he dont care about you talking to other guys and as for his friends do they not have a life of there own i would tell his wife about his freinds that he as ... (read in full...)
I lied to him about the kind of car I drive, how can I tell him the truth?
Q. I lied to my bf about the type of car I used to have. I know this may sound really weird, why would I lie about something like that? Well, my car I used to have was a really expensive one and people would always judge me by it. As soon as I say what ...
A. 2 July 2009: why is it such a big deal if its something you use to have before him it shouldnt be that big a dea; make it a joke be like i was just playing i had million dolla car at one point of my life shit he post to be with you anyway not your car... (read in full...)
Help!!! How can I get over him?
Q. Couple of months back i lost my virginity to this boy I'd gotten to know pretty well - who had been chasing me for a while. Personality wise we were a great match and always got on amazingly, thing is he was always open about the fact he wasnt ...
A. 2 July 2009: you will always remember your first and that suck ing this case but if you start acting like he do and talking to other guys maybe it will get his attention that you are someone that he might want to keep you ant change anyone but you can make him ... (read in full...)
Advice needed? Is he using me for sex?
Q. hiya :) I'm 15. There's this boy I've liked for a while. we'll call him connor. I've been on a date with him but that was months ago. He knows i still like him and he says he likes me too. we're quite close friends and have been for about a ...
A. 2 July 2009: dont do it why give up yourself to someone who dont want you save it for someone who gone treat you like you are the most important person in the world once its gone you dont get it back and why would you want to be number 8 in his book hes nasty ... (read in full...)
I feel as if I just exist. How can I pull my life back together so I enjoy life?
Q. Where do I begin. At the moment all I do is exist. I only have one close friend, never had a girlfriend. I sit at my computer all night because I havent got anything to do with my time. I sleep as long as possible just so I dont have to face ano...
A. 2 July 2009: sometimes i think people think to hard on thing i mean you sound like a normsl person who is just down right now what does your close friend say about how you feel and you should not feel like you just exist i went through something simular and it ... (read in full...)
Family dilemma!!!
Q. My mother died when I was real young and my dad never really got over her but about two years ago he met another woman and they ended up getting married. She has two, a boy my age and a girl a bit younger. You see, me and her son (let's call him M) ...
A. 2 July 2009: wow thats a pretty messed up place you got yourself into and i wouldnt say anything about it to my parents beause its not like you are the only one involved you have to think about youe step bro too i mean if his mom dont know he is gay then its his ... (read in full...)
Advice please? Do I have a yeast infection?
Q. so... this is really gross! but i think i might have some kind of bacterial or yeast infection! there's a discharge and it's kinda yellowish-white. smells kinda like chlorine. and it gets clumpy like cottage cheese! what is it?...
A. 2 July 2009: anytime anything goes wrong down there you need not ask any but your doctor no one can diagnose you but them they run test dont wait just go to the doc and it sounds like a teast infection but you still have to be tested and i believe they sell ... (read in full...)
Family drama....
Q. My mother in-law wants to move in should i let her it not just her its her grandaughter to because my boyfriends brother is in the army and his mother is watching his child until next year when he comes home we already have 2 kids and 1 on the way ...
A. 2 July 2009: Thanks everyone for your answer and to honeypie she says she gone help with bills and the kids she dont have a car and she works partime.my kids are 5 and 1 and my hubby wants her to come he all like i mean thats my mom and i want to help her did i ... (read in full...)
Left with the tattoo, but not him!
Q. My boyfriend and I dated for like about three years, about five months ago, we got matching tattoos. I got his initals and he got mine. We both got it on the back of our neck. Now we are broken up and I am trying to get over it but everytime I ...
A. 1 July 2009: how do you manage to look at it on the back of your neck lol but i would cover it up no sense in bringing up the pass you have to let go to move on o yea get something nice over it!!!... (read in full...)
He guards his phone with his life! I'm suspicious and tempted to look through it. What should I do?
Q. I've been married to my husband for 4 years now. I trust him but his behavior with his cell phone gets me thinking. He guards his phone with his life. Wherever he goes, he takes his phone with him. Should I be concerned? I feel tempted to look ...
A. 1 July 2009: he guards it cuz hes hiding something prolly a girl calling him and to be honest dont go lokking for what you dont want to find but hes the fool cuz he making his self look supicious... (read in full...)
I'm lost right now...
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years since i was 19 i do love him but feel like I am missing out on life and we now have 2 kids i am pregnant now and i feel like we have to stay together for our kids he has no lue that i feel this way but ...
A. 1 July 2009: renee ok i never said that i didnt want my kids they are great and to be honest they are my joy in life i dont regret them i only feel like i have nothing but them i think i do need to get out and try not to feel so down it prolly just the baby and ... (read in full...)
How do I tell him that I know!!!?
Q. I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 23, i am 13 weeks pregnant and have just found out he has been cheating on me. Because of my past i have trouble trusting people. A few things made me think that he was cheating like he took my picture of his wallpape...
A. 1 July 2009: you are pregnant and you dont need to be put through stress or drama first off you should have taken it right to him when you found out you dont think about it you do it cuz you going to start thinking that it was your fault he cheated if you think ... (read in full...)
My wife has lost all sex drive. What do I do?
Q. I am a happily married husband of 24 years with 2 gorgeous children and a beautiful wife. We have been married for 8 years, I am nearly 32, she is 31. I used to vists my family weekly since my job is away from family. After ourlast child ws born, my ...
A. 1 July 2009: I thought i was the only woman going through the same thing for a while after having my baby but from a woman view after you have a baby you feel all wrong inside i mean i ant really explane it uz your a guy but her breast dont even try it after the ... (read in full...)
Why am I more attracted to married woman?
Q. Why am I more attracted to the married woman? ...
A. 1 July 2009: maybe you like to compete or maybe you are afraid of making that jump yourself and you be the married man
and you know sometimes people just want what they know they ant have that might be the ultimate turn on for you that why you go for they alre... (read in full...)
We want to elope but I don't want my parents to feel cheated in seeing me get married.
Q. My boyfriend asked me to marry him a week ago and we still haven’t told anyone. We want to avoid the tension, stress and drama that come with planning a wedding and not to mention the debt. We just want to go on a tropical vacation together and ...
A. 30 June 2009: you have already answerd this question for yourself you said WE WAMT and thats all that matters you cant live for other people you have to live for yourself moms will understand and i am sure she will forgive you once you give her grandchildren lol... (read in full...)
I feel like such a sinking wreck...
Q. I'm beginning to feel like my life has come to a halt. Just come out of a bad and messy split with my fiancee of 5 years-he has been emotionally abusive and has completely and utterly financially drained me-i managed to get debt help but my cred...
A. 30 June 2009: stop it girl! you live you learn and thats all to it!but the biggest problem you are facing is why the hell are you still helping him!! STOP STOP you are smart enough to realize that he has financially screwd you why be botherd with someone like ... (read in full...)
How do people stay away from others they know are bad for them?
Q. Help me. Besides being a bit of a Well, I cheated. I didn't enjoy sleeping with a stranger. I strongly suspect he was more attracted to my pocket book than to me. I understand now that it was not destiny, but i don't really understand what it ...
A. 30 June 2009: i guess the same way people stay away from drugs they are addicted to (check into rehab) no but really its nothing wrong with finding someone attractive but you dont have to at on it that where you have to put up a wall i mean this look he gives you ... (read in full...)
I went online pretending to be another woman and my boyfriend fell for her!!!
Q. I used this fake account and added my boyfriend on it. I started talking to him as her, and he started to flirt with her. He said he would kiss her and most probably have sex with her! I kept asking him about me his girlfriend and he was acting like ...
A. 30 June 2009: first of all you dont play those kinda games sweetie and you see why it back fired on you if you fell like you cant trust your man then you dont need proof cuz you can feel it and this computer stuff some people find exciting and thats where it ... (read in full...)
He told me he was divorced now I want him to leave his wife for me!
Q. I know your all gonna call me bad names but its so hard, i really like him and miss him loads, when i met him he told me he was divorced and i deserve a nice rich boyfriend and said he would fit that category, hes a lawyer and gets paid a fair ...
A. 30 June 2009: first let me say it happends more then people would like to admitt but right now its a lil frustrating and a lil fun at the same time but if he does leave his wife and kids for you all that goes out the door it will not be as fun as it was an the ... (read in full...)
Are porn sites bad for me?
Q. When I was 11. I was goning on porn sites till I was 15. Why? Because I was curouse and I want to know if that it can change the way I act? Also, is going on porn sites is bad for you and me? If yes, tell me everything please. ...
A. 30 June 2009: only if you pay for them lol or you get a virus from them its like you dont have to worry about getting an std from watching porn but you can get a virus lol and dont expect a woman to do everything you see on porn remember they are paid actresses! ... (read in full...)
Would you date someone who got divorced at 25?
Q. I met someone I fell in love with when I was 22 years old. We instantly fell for each other, about 4 months later we moved in together and spent pretty much every day together for the next 2 1/2 years. Because we were from different countries, I ...
A. 30 June 2009: why not it means he likes commitment he tried something and it didnt work dont miss out on a good thing what works for some people wont work for everyone... (read in full...)
Is it normal to masturbate "to porn" while in a relationship?
Q. I have been with this guy for 3 years and I was just wondering if it is normal to masturbate "to porn" while in a relationship. I understand that it is a natural thing but when I think of him masturbating to another naked women it makes me feel ...
A. 30 June 2009: as much as people will lie about it it really is i have been with my guy for 6 yesrs he does it all the time and i talk to him about it he is my best friend we talk about a lot of stuff and he does it he say cuz he like to have saex and he couldnt ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is financially dependent on me. Will he ever change?
Q. My boyfriend is always broke! We've been together for 4 years, living together for 2 years. I am a recent grad with BS, he doesn't even have a GED. I'm 24, he's 25, but he's been financially dependent on me and it's draining my savings. He's a g...
A. 30 June 2009: listen love aint gone pay no bills he needs yo understand that you are serious about him and you want to be with him but you ant afford to carry him and a real man wouldnt want his woman pulling all that wait and when you say something about it and ... (read in full...)
How do I tell her I think about her when I masterbate?
Q. ok well i don't know how to say this but my gf just resently asked if i masterbated and i said yes and i have been wanting to tell her that when i masterbat i think of her but idk how to tell her i mean i want to tell her bcuz we tell each other ...
A. 30 June 2009: pleeze tell her i mean why not she should be glade to know that it is her you are fantasizing about i would be happy to know its me and not some random chick on a porn i mean you already told her the hardest part the rest should come easy hell she ... (read in full...)
Has anyone here had breast enlargements? I'm considering it!
Q. I have been wanting to get a breast enlargement for years and really want to go up 2 cup sizes but still look very natural as if they were my own. I was wondering if anyone could give me any advice on who is the best or own personal stories. do your ...
A. 30 June 2009: i have always wanted it but lets face it in todays economy i could never afford it.But if you can afford it i say go for it i have 3 kids and when i am pregnant my breast are beautiful ful and they sit up so nioe man but once they go down i am back ... (read in full...)
I'm married but I can't stop thinking about my ex! How can I get him out of my mind?
Q. Okay well here's my dilemma. I can't get an old lover out of my head. It's been years since we've seen eachother and the majority of our relationship was sexual, but I always find myself thinking back and feeling what I felt years ago. I co...
A. 30 June 2009: Dont beat yourself up to be honest it happends more than you think.That fantasy of having the other person should have went away with your new husband lol but sometimes it lengers around and you end up feeling like you are cheating or something how ... (read in full...)
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