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31 July 2008: I have been with dear cupid for a while now, and, i have found that there are quite a few questions about pupil/teacher relationships, I have myself posted a couple. But it never ceases to amaze me. Has anyone got an opinion or story they could ...
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How to get over a teacher crush?
Q. This is a commonly asked question, I know. I'm pretty much in love with a teacher. He's amazing, but I won't go into details. The only thing I want to know is how do I stop loving him? I know it's a stupid, pointless crush, but I can't sto...
A. 27 May 2009: I know the feeling. I know this sounds stupid but a lot of the time you will only fancy teachers that teach you, and when i say fancy I mean you feel like you love them, but, when you get a new teacher your attentions will turn.
As for your frie... (read in full...)
When I was younger my brother forced me into having sexual activities...
Q. Hi there, when I was younger my brother 4 years older than me forced me into sexual activities. I hated it, I use to beat him to stop! He was so much stronger, I couldn't do anything! I have never told anyone before! Shall I? or shall I keep it ...
A. 28 December 2008: call childline, tell the police or your parents, save other kids from what you went through, but don't say anything to him.
Be Brave :)... (read in full...)
Is this teacher behaving innappropriately? Or just being friendly?
Q. Long story cut rather short, I have the best friendship with my ex head of year. He know alot about one another, can read read me like a book! We have a very mature and brilliant relationship, some students actually envy as he is an amazing man. ...
A. 12 November 2008: I'll say teachers aren't actually allowed to hug or kiss students and his behaviour is absolutely innapropriate.
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Obsessed with my math teacher....
Q. I'm sure this question's been posted many times before, but my problem concerns my calculus teacher. He's just so funny, witty, nice, and he really cares about his subject and makes me want to care about it too. As you can guess by now, I have a ...
A. 4 November 2008: Obviously you have misread his body language it is his job to love his subject and get others interested in it, u will eventually come to your senses dont worry xx love joy... (read in full...)
I'm the new-comer and these girls say nasty things about me behind my back, what can I do?
Q. i am the new girl at school and it seems like everyone at school is fond of me...well so i thought. there are some "black" girls at school who absolutely hate my guts. no im not racist because im mixed but i just dont understand why.... i am also ...
A. 3 November 2008: you know what i'd do?
Smile and laugh, say thanks, it will get to them more than it gets to you it always does, reverse phycology always works with bullies, they dont get the reaction they want so they get bored and the onli thing you will hear them... (read in full...)
CRAZY THOUGHT
Q. CAN'T WAIT TO SEE WHAT GETS SAID FROM THIS ONE! XX--"ACCUSED" You have the choice to live with a gorilla who knows sign language or a dog who sings lullabies, which do you choose? What would chairs look like if our knees were on the back of ou...
A. 26 October 2008: You have the choice to live with a gorilla who knows sign language or a dog who sings lullabies, which do you choose? the gorilla at least you have someone to speak to! What would chairs look like if our knees were on the back of our legs? wierd ... (read in full...)
Philosophy does not draw people into a verbal frenzy but I love it! How can I make others interested in it?
Q. I am a hardcore philosophy geek. Some people have have sports, some people have music, I have philosophy. Whenever I try and get to know someone I lisen to them talk about their hobbies but when whenever I tell them I like philosophy they ...
A. 23 August 2008: You can't really make people understand it you just have to give examples if they dont get it u know to move on :)... (read in full...)
How do I find out if she likes me, and will my parents let me have a girlfriend?
Q. im a 13 year old boy. I hav a crush on someone and i am really desperate for a girlfriend. I dont know if she likes me because sometimes shes sending me lots of texts and laughs at my jokes but sometimes she completely ignores me. How do i find out ...
A. 15 August 2008: Why is it that 13 and 14 year old boys and girls insist on having bf's or gf's?
Don't be desparate and if you like the girl then ask her out, your parents don't need to know if you don't want them to. A lot of my friends are like you, don't be desp... (read in full...)
The real issues about pupil/teacher relationships?
Q. I have been with dear cupid for a while now, and, i have found that there are quite a few questions about pupil/teacher relationships, I have myself posted a couple. But it never ceases to amaze me. Has anyone got an opinion or story they could ...
A. 1 August 2008: Interesting answers here.
I myself think that often both are to blame with the body language of the teachers mis interpreted by the pupils.
But I love it when a relationship goes nicely, but the thing i really hate is when people say its wrong to... (read in full...)
Trouble adapting to a new school and coping with the nasty comments!
Q. hi. ive recently moved from the US to the UK and i started school just a while ago. when i got to school on my first day everyone was friendly and nice however after school the most popular girl in school overheard my mum complaining about how there ...
A. 1 August 2008: Well I suggest telling your parents that its too hard to just ignore them and that you want to be taken seriously, not ignored. When you recieve these comments just smile and say thanks, because bullies don't like it when they aren't getting the ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to be best friends with groups of teachers when you're only 13?
Q. Is it wrong to be best friends with groups of teachers? I am 13 and I have quite a few friends who are teachers, I sometimes have lunch with them, I have some of their e-mail addresses and even get hugs off them. They joke around with me and they...
A. 31 July 2008: Oh and btw i have loads of friends my own age just sometimes find i can understand teachers better...... (read in full...)
Is it normal that I'm only attracted to older men?
Q. I'm a 14 year old girl and I'm only attracted to older men... like 35-65. I have never been attracted to anyone my age. Is this normal? If not what's wrong with me? ...
A. 30 July 2008: Same situation here. I adore my science teacher, who is 24, and find most older males sexy in a way its scary, but to be honest most boys in their teens are not nice. So i just get on with my life as it is, through the pain and i know one day i'll... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my step brother but our parents are trying to break us up!
Q. ok. well, first off, everyone know that step siblings are NOt blood related. ok. now, im in love with my step brother, and we are planning to go to college together. We only lived in the same house for like, 3 years, so its not like we were rai...
A. 30 July 2008: I don;t believe there's anything wrong with it but just cool it a bit and try to find your true feelings...... (read in full...)
I think I'm in love with my step-brother, what should I do?
Q. So heres the deal, I think I love my step-brother (I say I think I love him because I'm not 100% sure) We've fooled around before, but now I really want to tell him how I feel but I'm worried that he'll just think I'm an idiot . . . What shoul...
A. 30 July 2008: Wierd... sometimes our feelings confuse us i had the same problem but i have had so much grief off my parents on this topic even though i know i dont love my step brother in that way but my parents don't think so, at the end of the day its your ... (read in full...)
How can I not be shy around my cousin who is a boy?
Q. How can i not be shy around my cousin who is a boy?...
A. 30 July 2008: Im 13 and my step bro is 15 we r like best m8s but i do get shy sometimes around him but once u r sure that he is ok and won't do nothing you'll be more and more confident ;)... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and find it hard to converse with my family. Can anyone help me out please?
Q. im 14 and when i have to talk to my family i really dont no what to say. it ends up to be an awkard scilence whenever im in a room alone. well im going to my auntys for the day tomorrow and im scared that im gonna not know what to say. what shall i ...
A. 30 July 2008: All i can say really is follow the previous advice, and like what i do, if i dont know what to say i just say anything, about anything. Like 'the weathers nice isnt it?' something simple like that. I have times especially with my mum where i dont ... (read in full...)
When I talk to a girl I like I get shy and freeze up. I don't understand why.
Q. I have some confidnce on pretty girls cute popular i mean they like me but when im gonna try talk to the girl i like i get shy and stop talking.. i just dont get it ...
A. 30 July 2008: Hey don't worry about it, if you get shy in front of girls, then try taking deep breaths and be confident, tell yourself good things, otherwise just say hi when you pass her and how are you start off a conversation simply, not using too many words ... (read in full...)
My mum is taking my stepbrother on holiday. Is she disowning me?
Q. My mum and dad are divorced and i have a new step brother who is 15. My mum seems to dislike me for some reason and i have treated her a bit unfairly over the years but she seems to act jealous of me or something. Recently she asked me to go on ...
A. 27 July 2008: Some of you are asking what i did to my mum to upset her, well, about a year ago i was having trouble trying to keep both of my parents happy and i just cudn't say no to either of them so instead i lied and my mum found out. This made me ill a lot ... (read in full...)
Why falling for your teacher is never good!
Q. *LONG BUT READ IT ALL TO UNDERSTAND PROPERLY* I know for a fact many of you girls on here have crushes/are in love/are in fatuated with your teachers, and most of you would love something to happen aswell.Most of the aunts say this is a b...
A. 25 July 2008: You know some of these stories just show theres a chance that your teacher loves you but theres also a chance that they dont, to take a chance in taking the relationship further is a great big smack in the face and ur lucky if you come out strong... ... (read in full...)
My mum is taking my stepbrother on holiday. Is she disowning me?
Q. My mum and dad are divorced and i have a new step brother who is 15. My mum seems to dislike me for some reason and i have treated her a bit unfairly over the years but she seems to act jealous of me or something. Recently she asked me to go on ...
A. 25 July 2008: Thanks for that, but I am quite scared of my own mum and she has a bit of a temper, so its difficult to speak to her but thanks anyway.... (read in full...)
I have a creepy feeling that this teacher likes me more than usual, what do I do?
Q. I Have Got This Creepy feeling this Teacher likes me more than usual. whether its just that I'm Friendly and because every teacher in the school knows me I am very sociable with them, but, he always smiles at me and if he sees me in the corridors he ...
A. 1 March 2008: Hi everyone,
Some of you are asking whether i fancy this guy, well the answer is NO.
I know that we are all different and i haven't recently seen this teacher behaving in such a way with any other pupils, but, i do still feel a bit unsure, I wi... (read in full...)
What does his text mean?
Q. i got this text from this boy that i think likes me i donno what it means. "i love you can it be our little secret u dont have a bf right can u come to our beach party fri night i wanna prove it to u love u xxxxx" what does this mean does it mea...
A. 28 February 2008: I don't see why everyone is saying he wants to have sex with you i think he was just trying to tell you that he has feelings for you and i believe that he wishes you feel the same way, just check out the vibes he sends when you are near him.
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Are there any teachers out there.
Q. Hi, I am 13 years old and would like to ask any teacher for advice, I have a crush on one of my teachers and I am annoyed with it, I know that love will never prosper when it comes to pupil teachers,but, Have you any advice on what I should do...
A. 17 November 2007: Hi Thanks to all that have answered this question, I think now I am starting to kind of fall out of "love" with my teacher instead we are just friends I am now more interested in someone more my age... Thanks Lovejoyxxx ... (read in full...)
I've fallen in love with my teacher... and it's not just a crush!
Q. Hey everyone...I have a big problem. Im truly in love with my teacher. I know, I know, you are all going to say "no no, its a crush" but its so much more than that...trust me. I fell head over heels over him when we first started talking. I can tell ...
A. 8 November 2007: Tis a shame all of us similar people don't always get what we want but, you know in the end we all find our true love...;)... (read in full...)
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