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*ittleMissNewby
writes:i am the new girl at school and it seems like everyone at school is fond of me...well so i thought. there are some "black" girls at school who absolutely hate my guts. no im not racist because im mixed but i just dont understand why.... i am also known as the rich girl because of the stuff that i have and the cars that my parents drive, but i am not snobby or anything of the type. another thing is, i am kind of talking to this guy who i am assuming to be an ex of the leader of this "click". i am really confused about it all because the same group of girls smile and wave at me but behind my back they say nasty things about me.... can someone help me??? thanks in advance. Reply to this Question
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reader, LoveJoy  +, writes (3 November 2008):
 you know what i'd do?
Smile and laugh, say thanks, it will get to them more than it gets to you it always does, reverse phycology always works with bullies, they dont get the reaction they want so they get bored and the onli thing you will hear them say is wierdo, which reli is not the worst that could happen, try it don't satisfy them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2008): Girl, I know it's hard, but you have to find a way to not let them girls get to you. You live your life for yourself - not them. They most likely are just jealous of you. But keep in mind, do not get down to their level!Keep your head up, keep smiling, and kill them with kindness. Just keep being nice. I know this all might sound stupid, but believe me it works. No matter what you do, be it good or bad, someone will always have something to say. You have to learn to be strong willed and overcome all the hate. I hope you have someone at home, or a close friend you can really trust. Whatever you do, don't keep your feelings bottled up inside. Another thing is, when girls like this are in a group, they like to talk a lot of B.S. Me - I would ask the main one, when she is by herself, why she dislikes you? People like this can't usually handle upfront questions. Well I hope this helps. And don't forget, Keep your head up!
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reader, yum yum  +, writes (3 November 2008):
 Don't play any attention to what these girls are saying. I believe they could be jellous for a number of obvious reasons.
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