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... Send *ori a private message | | | *ori's profile:hi i hope you all feel the benifit of my advise i was married at 19yrs to my 1st husband with whom i had 2 children who are now 19yrs and 23yrs we divorced 10yrs after our marriage i was in and out of relationships for 3yrs and was raped by 5 guys at 26yrs it was hard to come to terms with at 28yrs i remarried and had 2 more children my new husband had 1 child from his 1st marriage so i brought her up along with my husband his wife died in child birth i have now been with my husband for 15yrs my other children are 16,14 and 11 at at 39yrs i became a grand mother my daughter who was 15 at the time became pregnant i was distraut she had a son now she is 19yrs she has just had a daughter so you see much has happened in my life i dont profess to make things better in your life but i can give you advise and help you turn a corner we all have different experiances in life and how we delt with them i am happy to accept that some people dont agree with what i say and they think they do a better job im just happy to help anyone who needs it so i hope you will find by talking to us you find hope,happiness and strenth to cope with situations that face us in life all the best Lori xx just a little update here im divorced again and im due to re-marry in 2 weeks to a guy of 24years well why not i say i was beaten by my ex husband for months in the last months of our marriage it was hard to get out off but im happy again i now have 4 grandchildren and my daughter married 3 years ago. |
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My husband has been so controlling and now there could be someone else for me...
Q. I have been married to a man for two years now. Over the last many months, he has done nothing but argue and fuss about everything. Since then my 16 year old daughetr made a mistake and got pregnant. SINCE THIS WE GOT IN A BIG FIGHT. It started ...
A. 7 February 2006: you dont need someone to abuse you in this way its tragic that he is not supporting you at this time it was hard for your daughter to admit to you that she is pregnant we always think that sort of thing happens to other people it happened to me my ... (read in full...)
I'm too self-conscious to be on top, and it leaves me feeling inept...
Q. Ok, I feel so stupid admitting this, but whenever I have sex with a guy, I can't go on top. It;s dumb, but I get really self conscious, and can never seem to get into it...he clearly doesn't enjoy it, and after a while my ineptitude just gets ...
A. 3 February 2006: hello you dont say why you feel self conscious and how do you know your boyfriend doent like it im sure he does but if you dont feel comfortable just explain it to him he will understand most girls like it in this way as you are more in control of ... (read in full...)
I want him back, he doesn't seem to want me... But we still have sex. What's goin' on!?
Q. I have a major dilemma... Me and my ex boyfriend were together for almost 4 years, and we have a 15 month old son together....last July i broke up with him because things weren't working out. I moved with my son to a town 1/2 hour away. I was fine ...
A. 2 February 2006: when you have been in a long term relationship qnd split up its hard to let go of our feelings we humans are cretures of habit and we always return to what we know best your ex knows he doesnt have to impress you so its easy for him to come to you ... (read in full...)
Why did Joe's attitude change and why is he so negative now?
Q. Well. There's this boy I like. Let's call him Joe. We started talking a month ago and we have a lot in common. He makes me feel comfortable around him. The problem is I don't know if he likes me. We spent the last two weeks talking nonstop on the ...
A. 2 February 2006: sometimes boys are embaressed by the way they feel about someone i think he does really like you but hes finding his feelings all a bit much keep talking to him you say he still phones you so thats a good sign stick with this im sure it will work ... (read in full...)
I've never felt so happy to be with someone, but the guy I want is dating a good friend!
Q. I'm only fourteen but I've been hurt plenty of times before in life by guys. But for the past several months I've known a guy that makes me feel so happy I could burst, no matter what happens, all I have to do is catch his eye or smile and ...
A. 2 February 2006: hi there i think we have all been in this situation at one time or another try not to let this take over your life at 14yrs we have what are called crushes on guys and its a hard thing to shake off you always remember your first crush as you say ... (read in full...)
He doesn't understand how I feel and won't try to make things right...
Q. Hi i have been dating my boyfriend who is 20 (i am 22) for nearly 7 months and the last month has not been good. We both love each other but i feel he takes me for granted and i do a lot more for him than he does for me, for example always cookin ...
A. 1 February 2006: this weekend i want you to set the scene white sheets on the bed massage oil ready chocolate dipped strawberrys sexy underwear and low candle light and watch him sit up and beg he will want you because he will be relaxed he will give you the ... (read in full...)
Sex is a problem because I was raped...what can I do?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have a problem and I really need some advice. I am a lesbian and I am going out with my girlfriend six months now and things are great except sexually. I was raped six years ago now and everyime she touches me I kinda seize up. Is t...
A. 1 February 2006: you need to come to terms with this iv been there i know i found leaving a light on while making love helped me it made me see what i needed to and not think about what happened try talking to your girlfriend about this it will help her to ... (read in full...)
I blame myself for not doing what he wanted...
Q. Please help. I am gay and have just split from my boyfriend of six months. He is 21 and I am 33 but our age gap has never been a problem. He chased me from the start. Since the beginning of this year he has not been coming over as usual at weekend...
A. 1 February 2006: Greg you poor thing you are in a pickle arent you dont you dare blame yourself its not your fault you may have gone to swansea and been left on your own while your boyfriend was talking to his friends i really think this guy is mixed up he wants you ... (read in full...)
Is this post-natal depression, or something else?
Q. This isn't really about relationships as such. I think I may be suffering from post natal depression. Are there any signs I should be looking out for? I got really bad baby blues when my baby was 4 days old. I wanted my partner with me but he was ...
A. 1 February 2006: i dont think this is post-natal depression i think there are issues that need dealing with like some time to yourself ask your family to help you or ask your partner to take the kids off your hands for a few hours you need a break a nice bubble bath ... (read in full...)
She had sex with a married "rebound" guy for 6 months before we met. I don't like it...
Q. Hey, I'm on the verge of breaking up with my girlfriend. It's something that I have caused because, before I met her, she went on a rebound with this married guy (one of her managers) at work (who also slept with loads of other women at her wor...
A. 1 February 2006: you mean you never did anything you regret.Rob if you love this girl then you will leave the past in the past she has been true to you and thats all you need believe me there is no girl out there without sin or man come to that or anyone without a ... (read in full...)
Hubby's been texting other women, while I'm home alone. When confronted, he didn't even apologise!
Q. Hi - am 7 months pregnant and my husband has shown little interest in this ever since we found out, have been pregnant before but unforutnatley lost the baby - he seemed quite excited when we first found out that time. We were both happy to try ...
A. 1 February 2006: its a difficult time for you being pregnant always makes you feel vunerable maybe you husband feels unable to go near you in case he hurts you as you say you did lose your first baby sometimes when this happens people give the woman all the ... (read in full...)
We're having marriage problems and neither of us wants to move out! What should I do?
Q. I WANT TO LEAVE MY HUSBAND.I CANT AFFORD TO MOVE OUT AND HE WONT WHAT CAN I DO...
A. 1 February 2006: you really need to speak to him about this you dont say if you have children or if you own your home if you have and you do then he must go he has to provide a roof over your head and the childrens you can opt to sell the house in which case if you ... (read in full...)
One of my Dad's friend's sexually molested me while I was sleeping-not sure if my parents will believe me. What should I do?
Q. please help.i dont know who to ask about this...my parents often have big parties with many of their friends. its always very "uppity" and full of people i cant stand. everyones always drinking, and quite often since there are many spare rooms in my ...
A. 1 February 2006: if you feel you cant speak to your mum contact child line you dont have to give you name it is a free phone number they will help you tell your mum and dad if thats what you want dont live with this without talking to someone you will not be able to ... (read in full...)
I went too far with the guy I like. Now I realise I'm too young for that sort of thing...
Q. OK...Well I'm a 14 year old 9th grader in High School. I met this really cute 16 year old who's an 11th grader. Well I was sooooo naive and young in love. I went to his house one night and it led to something more. I regret it so much because I'm ...
A. 1 February 2006: well to start with this guy has committed an offence it is against the law to have sex with a minor as you are under 16yrs i only hope you used some sort of protection its not just about getting pregnant as my own daughter did at 15 its about STD'S ... (read in full...)
I test him to find out what he's up to but its causing problems for us
Q. for some reason i hate it when my boyfriend spends time with his mates and always text him to see who he with, what he up to and where he is. but for some reason he sees it as a problem that i always have to know where he is. its not a trust thing ...
A. 1 February 2006: please stop this you are pushing him away you will lose him if this continues when he goes out leave him be ask someone to look after your phone for the evening and only answer txt messages dont send them to him you know where he is hes with his ... (read in full...)
He dating his ex and she's pregnant with his baby, but he wants to be with me too. What should I do?
Q. i met a lad, my brothers mate when i recently went away to visit my family.We went out and we kissed but nothing else. When i returned home we kept in contact and he was saying that he really like me. I am now moving up to this place ( bearing in ...
A. 1 February 2006: this is a tough one for you but you must stop seeing him he has a child on the way and if i had a pound for every time i heard my wife or girlfriend doesnt understand me i would be a rich woman you see men like to have there cake and eat it too his ... (read in full...)
He finished with me because we didn't see each other much. Why wasn't he willing to work at things?
Q. Hey there. I am feeling quite down/depressed at the moment and I would really appreciate some advice. I am an 18 year old girl and 3 weeks ago my boyfriend of 4 months finished with me. It was long distance as he lives in London and I liv...
A. 1 February 2006: hello Natalie you poor thing long distance love is always hard i think your friends are right its time to move on i know its easy for me to say that, but if he really loves you he will contact you at 18 you will grow with more heart ache and believe ... (read in full...)
I cheated and I know it was wrong. Now my girl says she loves me but needs space...
Q. I was with my girlfriend for 4 years and I messed up the relationship by venturing out and cheating. I now know that my ex is the one and she says she still loves me, but she says she needs space. Have I lost her already?? She also says she is ...
A. 1 February 2006: if after 4 years you felt the need to have an affair then maybe your girlfriend is not the one its very difficult to ever trust someone again after this infidelity it can happen but not over night if your girlfriend feels she wants to give you a ... (read in full...)
I'm quick and tired of it. Any suggestions on how to last more than 5 minutes?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been sexually active for 6 months and it seems as if my orgasms during sex are quite fast. I have tried the extended lubricated or climax control condoms but it only prolongs it for roughly 3-5 minutes. I try to stay calm ...
A. 1 February 2006: you are not alone in this quest for longer love making try to start by not having penetrative sex for about 10 days, try foreplay in the first instance this can be a sensual massage try lavender oil which will help you both relax and then move on ... (read in full...)
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