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writes: I have been married to a man for two years now. Over the last many months, he has done nothing but argue and fuss about everything. Since then my 16 year old daughetr made a mistake and got pregnant. SINCE THIS WE GOT IN A BIG FIGHT. It started becasue he was blaming my daughter for our problems. She started crying and I told him to get off ehr. He grabbed me by my throat, we fighting he kicked her in ths side I told him he kicked her he said he did not care. I threw him out of the house. He called to tell me he wasn't going to be a grandfather he didn't want to he wanted to live his life and enjoy it with me not be with me and hima nd her kid all the time. I fell like he is selfish. He's very controling and mind confusing. Here's the really big problem. He has several friends that has always stood beside me. The other night we was all hanging out and this one just kept on telling me he loved me my husband always said that he knew that Mr.X liked me. Well, he hugged me bye the other night and he kissed me bye on my lips by accident. He is calling me telling me he can't stop thinkging about i and it's all he can think abouyt and that I should let him show me how I deserve to be treated. He said that what my husband done to me wasn't right and that I deserve better and that the baby needs a grandpa. This man only wants a family and I know he loves me you can see it and all the other friends say go for it. But I am scared it will ause hard fellings. But I am hurt and I want someone to love me and my children not try to hurt us by words and all. Please ell me what to do. I feel confused but Mr.x's touch feels so real I never felt this it feels almost magical. He wants to come over to talk to me he said what he has to say he needs to see me face to face to tell me. And that he is sorry for loving me but he does. I told him you can' thelp who you love. Please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, lori +, writes (7 February 2006):
you dont need someone to abuse you in this way its tragic that he is not supporting you at this time it was hard for your daughter to admit to you that she is pregnant we always think that sort of thing happens to other people it happened to me my daughter was 15 when she fell pregnant i was really hurt and people fired there comments from all cannons its not the end of the world although your patner seems to think it is no woman deserves to be hit or abused by anyone but before you take up with this other guy you must make it quite clear to your partner that your time together is over men who hit woman and dont get help will always return to there old ways leave him before its to late and you become seriously injured enjoy your grandchild i know you will but most of all enjoy your new life and i hope eveything works out for you
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