Do you think he has any feelings or compassion left for me? Should I call him or not?
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years last year because we felt like we were just friends and I had started to like someone else. However, we carried on seeing each other as friends, but occasionally sleeping together. After a couple of months I ...
A. 10 February 2011: i think you should forget him, sounds like he was always sleeping with someone else... (read in full...)
She means more to me so how can I just think of her as a piece of ass?
Q. i feel in love with a married co-worker and she is wonderful but i have suspiction that she is also having affair with someone else also plus her husband but my problem is i love her and she always on my mind and i just need to think of it as a ...
A. 10 February 2011: I can understand how you must feel, but loving someone who is already married will only lead to heartbreak. shes selfish because she's cheating on her husband with you. you wont be able to get the love you need from her. don't even think of her at ... (read in full...)
I still love my ex, and to make matters worse, I just started a relationship with someone else!
Q. So, here's one for the record books! It's a bit long, but it's worth reading...you will be amused! I met a girl nearly a year ago. We don't live in the same city, but both of us are professional athletes and we travel around the country a lot fo...
A. 30 March 2010: Listen love, it seems to me that the other girl has no idea what she wants. I mean come on, she doesn't even have respect for her boyfriend, dragging him alone while she makes out with you. She's confused and trust me she'll end up hurting you worst ... (read in full...)
Have you ever fallen in love with someone else while you were married?
Q. Have you ever fallen in love with someone else while you were married. How did you handle this. What decisions did you weigh out. What was the final out come. Do you feel like you made the right choice. How long did you second guess yourself. What ...
A. 15 January 2010: The answer is yes i have,I loved him for seven years, but its never a good thing to cheat especially if you're married. I knew what i was doing was wrong but it was so hard to stop, because i loved him sooo much. I do believe i allowed myself to ... (read in full...)
My best friend slept with my boyfriend and now I have trust issues
Q. My best friend slept with my boyfriend in June and i still havent gotten over it! I have major trust issues with people and im struggling to make new friends and start any new relationships. Any advice ??...
A. 15 January 2010: I can understand how you feel. And i'll just tell you what i would do, I would give myself some time there are good people in this world, you'll meet them in time. just take it easy you're young, don't worry just get out there and have fun enjoy ... (read in full...)
My boyfriends behaviour has changed and I am skeptical about his reasons
Q. I'm a little skeptical about a few things that have been going on with my boyfriend recently; am I in the right to be skeptical, am I just overly paranoid, should I consult him, and if so, what is the best way to go about that? A little bit of ba...
A. 15 January 2010: Well i would keep my eyes open, you really don't have enough proof yet but, working over time and not getting paid, sounds like he's hanging around the job to be with someone or he's lying. He might not even be at work. And why didn't he answer the ... (read in full...)
My wife cheated, we split, I married,my wife a druggie, my ex wife split, I still want her and my family!
Q. Hello. Three and a half years ago, my wife of nearly 8 years had an affair and wanted me out of the family home so she could move in her new partner. At the time our children were 4 and 3. In a whirlwind i left and started a new relationship. I was ...
A. 14 January 2010: Ok this is what i think, i think you should have never married the second wife, especially if you had warning signs. Now you said your first wife is a changed women but, is she sorry for what she did. And does she want you back in her life. If she ... (read in full...)
I know he doesn't want me anymore but I don't know how to get over him
Q. How, how, how, how do I forget or put aside my love for this person that doesn't want me anymore. Its clear to me that he doesn't want me but I can't get over it. Please help me, what can I do, I tried keeping myself busy, but not working. Help ...
A. 14 January 2010: Well i never heard of an easy break-up, so i understand whats going on with you. Think of yourself a lot more, if he doesn't want you anymore its his lost. In time you will get over it. Only time can heal us when we've lost someone, or someone has ... (read in full...)
Is there a side to my wife that I don't know?
Q. I am happily married. We had a situation like two months ago that didn't seem like a big deal, but now for some reason I grew a conscience. I completely trust my wife, she can flirt, but NEVER has given me reason to not trust her. Most of ti...
A. 14 January 2010: I think your wife may just have a really wild personality. It could be harmless, i would tell her though if you're uncomfortable with her behavior. Sometimes what seems innocent is not so innocent. But talk to her about it, she should understa... (read in full...)
Should I wait longer for him, or should I move on?
Q. I am at college at the moment, and met this guy on my course in the first few weeks, we seemed to hit it off, flirted and texted a lot. He told me he likes me a lot and I told him the same. Recently we have been seeing each other outside of class, ...
A. 14 January 2010: I would give it a couple of weeks, just to see what happens.
He really doesn't sound like he wants anything serious, So don't wait to long for him. You're young meet some more guys. Sometimes guys just want one thing, after that they're off and runn... (read in full...)
Should I believe my boyfriend or his supposed one-night stand?
Q. ok i need help with this, i have been with my boyfriend almost 2years now we have a good relationship however around 2weeks ago i heard his cell phone go off in his pocket so i got the phone and there was a text from someone he named "who" the text ...
A. 14 January 2010: Ok i think i'm going to agree with boo22, theres no way i'd be texting someone if the sex was bad and i regreted doing it. I don't think he's being honest, first he lied and said he didn't know her then he said he did know her. I always say if ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when you have stretch marks?
Q. well this isn't a sex or relationship question but I hope you can help me. What do stretch marks mean? Are you gaining or losing weight?...
A. 14 January 2010: Both, stretch marks come when either you lose weight or gain weight. either you were bigger and got smaller or vice versa... (read in full...)
I'm in love but does she love me?
Q. Hey there. So, I've known this girl for just about a year now and we are really good freinds. I'm starting to develop a crush on her, well, I say crush but really I think I'm in love with her. I just really want to know whether she feels t...
A. 14 January 2010: Hello Seanym I think she definitely likes you, and sounds like she's very comfortable with you as well. Take it slow though, you like her she likes you, things should only get better wish you the best... (read in full...)
Would you call this cheating?
Q. I'm 26, not exactly a teen any more, and my gf is 24, we've been dating for year and a half now. She recently started a new job 3 months ago. But shes been acting really distant the last few days, shes been dressing up really nice, hardly calls me ...
A. 14 January 2010: I think you have every reason to be concerned. She being decitful and sneaky. And yes, because shes talking to another guy and you don't approve of it, I think it can be classified as cheating. If she has'nt had sex with him yet shes well on her ... (read in full...)
How much space do I give her?
Q. How much space do i give her? Summed up, ive known her for about 5 months now. We have been serious now for the past month. All of a sudden (like 3 days ago) i start getting a bad vibe/attitude. Really short replies on everything. Come...
A. 14 January 2010: Well, i would definitely back off and give her the space she wants. It would be nice though, if she could communicate with you if something is bothering her. Even though you have strong feelings for this girl, back off and let her decide how much ... (read in full...)
How do I become strong and start refusing this married man?
Q. not sure how to start and is not good and I know it but what's done is done and now I'm stuck. I started seeing this married guy at work and having intimate relationship with him at work only. This means only in the half hour of lunch being ...
A. 14 January 2010: Let me say that i know how you feel because i've been there. And it is true the longer it goes on the worst it hurts. He has no respect for you, he wont even see you outside of the workplace. And he has some nerve talking about the other girl lied ... (read in full...)
I'm paranoid about having bad breath! How do I get over this?
Q. hi im 18 years old and i have a rather embarrasing problem..but i dont know if it actually exists or its me being paranoid. i hate people coming close to my face because i think i have bad breath. i move away when people are in my face and ignor...
A. 14 January 2010: What makes you think you have bad breath? Has anyone told you that? If not, i would continue to brush my teeth, brush my tounge, and keep breath mints.... (read in full...)
How can I get him to hook up with me again? He's backed off.
Q. So once upon a time (a few months ago) I hooked up with a guy friend and things were fine. He said he would want to do it again and all that but then someone found out and it caused a lot of problems. At that point he backed out, stopped talking to ...
A. 13 January 2010: Ok does this guy friend have another girlfriend? i mean what else could keep you guys from hooking up. Whoever found out must really have a serious influence on his decision making, so i would say don't wait for him, you're very young and trust me ... (read in full...)
How do you move on when your heart doesn't want to let go?
Q. My ex-boyfriend broke up with me recently. We were together for six years. We were high school and college sweethearts. I am now 24. He said he broke up with me because he felt that I was not the "right one", meaning he couldn't see himself ...
A. 13 January 2010: Ok let me start by saying break ups are never easy, because they're hardly ever mutual. If he said you're not the right one for him, then he's not the right one for you.I think anybody you plan on spending you life with should adore you. There ... (read in full...)
Why won't my married lover call me??
Q. hello im a 32 year old woman who has been seeing this married man for 7 years. i thought we had a really good relationship and we talked on the phone every other day. now for some reason i have not heard from him in a week. i know thats not a very ...
A. 9 January 2010: Thank you all for the responses. They really helped me, i now see how foolish and selfish i have been. Thanks Again i'm moving on!!... (read in full...)
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