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I'm in love but does she love me?

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Question - (13 January 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 January 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *eanyM writes:

Hey there.

So, I've known this girl for just about a year now and we are really good freinds. I'm starting to develop a crush on her, well, I say crush but really I think I'm in love with her.

I just really want to know whether she feels the same way about me. I think she does sorta like me though, as when I am doing my classwork, I see her on the other side of the room, glancing in my direction and then when I make eye contact, we sometimes stare at each other for a few seconds then smile or I put my head up and she looks away.

Also, she's getting touchy too. I don't mean attitude touchy, I mean physically touchy. She didn't do this before but she did do it to a few guys before me i.e. Jabbing them in them in the bicep for fun as they make harmless fun out of her. But lately, I've noticed she stands near me if she can and sometimes she leans against me and rests her head on my shoulder.

Now, this has happened on numerous occasions like she could'nt see a laptop our teacher was showing us so she leaned across me and just lay on me, even after the teacher put the laptop away. Also, when we were sat on a freind's couch waiting for them to get ready, she was just leaning against me and on the way to a meal we were going to (leaver's do) we sat in the back and she just rested her head on my shoulder leaned on me and kind of put her arm under mine so it would make a link.

Now, she knows I have feelings for her as I told her way back, but, I don't think she took me seriously. I really like her and from the signs she gives to me, I think she likes me too.

Another thing too add is she won't date anybody whilst she attends college i.e. she won't date anybody she knows whilst she's in the same class, as seeing your partner 24/7 may become a little irritating or something, you do need your space.

So, what do you guys think? Should I wait 5 months and see how she feels about me or am I just totally reading this out of proportion??

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A male reader, SeanyM United Kingdom +, writes (14 January 2010):

SeanyM is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you Lioness32. I shall take it slowly now and see how it goes and whther she wants to be more than just freinds when we leave college.

I would love to hear other people's opinions though!

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A female reader, lioness32 United States +, writes (14 January 2010):

lioness32 agony auntHello Seanym

I think she definitely likes you, and sounds like she's very comfortable with you as well. Take it slow though, you like her she likes you, things should only get better

wish you the best

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