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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am at college at the moment, and met this guy on my course in the first few weeks, we seemed to hit it off, flirted and texted a lot. He told me he likes me a lot and I told him the same. Recently we have been seeing each other outside of class, we have made out several times, but we are not in an official relationship. I told him I didn't want a casual no strings thing, but he doesnt want to rush anything. We have a lot of mutual friends and none of them know what we have been doing, I dont know if he wants a relationship or not, and whether i am just being played? Should I wait longer for him, or try and move on?
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reader, lioness32 +, writes (14 January 2010):
 I would give it a couple of weeks, just to see what happens.
He really doesn't sound like he wants anything serious, So don't wait to long for him. You're young meet some more guys. Sometimes guys just want one thing, after that they're off and running.
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reader, Nitru  +, writes (14 January 2010):
 When ever I fell into that kind of situations, I just flirted with lots of boys until one of them anwered with same feelings and then told the others that sorry you were too late. Not once regretted my choices :) Maybe he'll respond to some competition..
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (14 January 2010):
Continue trying to get to know him, but stick to your guns about nothing happening. You need to really get to know him more and meet more. You'll soon know whether he's a player or not, because he'll get bored.
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