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writes: How, how, how, how do I forget or put aside my love for this person that doesn't want me anymore. Its clear to me that he doesn't want me but I can't get over it. Please help me, what can I do, I tried keeping myself busy, but not working. Help please Reply to this Question
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reader, Aunt Clemontine  +, writes (14 January 2010):
Hi,
We have all gone through what you`re going through right now and you are right.. it seems that no matter what we do, we can`t get them out of our minds but you know what? we have and so will you. Some one else will come along, you`ll fall head over heels and look back and wonder what ever it was you saw in this one.
It will get easier ... promise!
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reader, Gridrebel  +, writes (14 January 2010):
 Maybe you are not keeping yourself busy enough. Volunteer in organizations in your community. Boys & Girls clubs or
senior centers. What do you want to acheive out of life? What are some of your goals. If you don't have any, set some. You don't need to set rocket science or brain surgeon at the top. Also, sit down and write down attributes you would like in a friend. Same thing now in a boyfriend. Now, if he doesn't have all those thing you think are important, consider yourself lucky. And finally, get out of the house, visit friends and find someone who does. Also, it helps to imagine yourself older.....much older. Him too. What exactly are you going to like in the much older guy you can't get over?
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reader, lioness32 +, writes (14 January 2010):
 Well i never heard of an easy break-up, so i understand whats going on with you. Think of yourself a lot more, if he doesn't want you anymore its his lost. In time you will get over it. Only time can heal us when we've lost someone, or someone has left us. Try hanging out with the girls, Do something for yourself, like i said in time it will go away,
and you won't think about him anymore you'll see.
Take care love
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (14 January 2010):
 Try to bring the focus on the positive things in your life and stay away from idea of him. Hang out with friends or focus on some other cute guy who catches your attention. There is no quick way to do this so be patient and those feelings will fade on their own. I don't recommend lokking for a rebound but you could. Get yourself back out there and trust me once a new boy comes into the picture it'll be much easier to get over the other one.
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