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writes:ok i need help with this, i have been with my boyfriend almost 2years now we have a good relationship however around 2weeks ago i heard his cell phone go off in his pocket so i got the phone and there was a text from someone he named "who" the text simply said hi i wrote back hi, after a while with no response i called the number from my cell and a girl answered i got nervous and hung up a few minutes later i text her how did she no my boyfriend she sent me a text back saying she had slept with him a couple months back, i was in schock seconds after his phone rang and it was her i answered she went on to tell me they texed a bit and slept together only the one time and going on how the sex was the worst ever and she wished she never did it, of course we all know what my boyfriend said, he didnt do it he said he didnt even know the girl thats why he had the number saved under who, after a long while he did admit knowing her before but nothing happened they text a little and then he deleted her number thats why when she contacted him again he saved it under who, when she contacted him again she said her son was playing with the phone and must of text him, my boyfriend will not admitt to sleeping with this girl the only proof i have is her word HELP
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2010): I know you want to believe him, but in my experience, there are two types of men...those that cheat and those that don't. Those that do will always have this problem, it could be months or it could be years, but it will happen again. Oh, yes, I believe he did it. A guy will lie every time when confronted with cheating, you have to have the proof in hand when you confront or you will be faced with a stone faced lie.
Cheating is a character flaw, when a man doesn't cheat, he doesn't get himself into this type situation, he would not have saved her number on his phone, he would not even have her calling him in the first place...sorry hun, you have a cheater, find yourself a better man and lead a happier life... leave him.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (14 January 2010):
He did it. Sorry, but he did. She's not even trying to steal him. She's told you she wished it had never happened and it only happened once. He lied.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2010): babes, HE cheated.
whether the sex was good or bad it not an issue. HE f8CKED HER.
(HOW many women still go running back for the bad sex, many, many, many. why do people stay in bad marriages. same difference.)
throw out the loser and start your life. you are still young, nothing binds you to him. you know he is lying. and he cheated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2010): Sorry to say I agree with all the answers too - there is something going on - and I took a look at your age and if your bf is about the same - my advice is to drop him - you dont need that in your life.
I did if for several years listening to his lies and even checking the phone bill - what did it get me? lots of medication for depression and anxiety - lost self-esteem - weight gain. etc and the louse ending up grabbing another woman he was seeing behind my back and is now cheating on her - he tried cheating from day one with me being with her!
Sick sick - I would check the phone bills - but really I would watch real close or suggest a time out on this relationship.
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reader, nelle2472002 +, writes (14 January 2010):
 i smell a lie afoot...and not from her, i mean why would she lie about sleepin with him? what does she have to lose? men will lie if you have a picture in they're face saying proving its them. they will say its someone who looks like them. honey im sorry to say hes not telling to the whole truth.
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reader, lioness32 +, writes (14 January 2010):
 Ok i think i'm going to agree with boo22, theres no way i'd be texting someone if the sex was bad and i regreted doing it. I don't think he's being honest, first he lied and said he didn't know her then he said he did know her. I always say if theres a reason to lie theres something to hide.Keep your eyes open love
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reader, boo22 +, writes (14 January 2010):
 I'm sorry hun, but i smell bullshit.
Tell him you want to see all his cell phone bills if he's on a contract. You'll soon know then.
It doesn't sound true so that means it's not.
If the sex was shit though why is she texting him? I think he's guilty of more than he's letting on.
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