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writes:i feel in love with a married co-worker and she is wonderful but i have suspiction that she is also having affair with someone else also plus her husband but my problem is i love her and she always on my mind and i just need to think of it as a peice of ass and having a hard time doing that cause she means more to me than that so what do i do
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2011): Is it just me or are women more sympathetic when a woman is having an affair??? If poster was a woman in love with a married man, the venom that would have come from women would be blinding just reading it..but here, he is even 'sweet' to some....Just saying..I'm not here to pour venom on this guy but it is just an observation....
Now on to the matter at hand....@ Poster, this woman is selfish in more ways than you are able to see...Sadly your feelings are involved, but you have to get out now...Find strength to move away from her...First of all what your are doing is wrong, and you also have to consider her husband...Imagine how he would feel...Some of these married individuals have a very selfish way of roping people to themselves, and wanting to keep having their cake and eating it....Stop sleeping with her(piece of ass or not)...Limit your contact with her to just official business and move on to find someone who will love you right...why do you have high expectations of this woman in your laison??..She is already cheating on her husband who she has made promises/vows, she seems to have no problem having more 'add-ons'....Be strong and quit, if she begs do not listen to her...Concentrate on your life...It will be hard but one day you will look back and be grateful for being able to get out of this mess....Plus promise never to allow yourself be enticed/seduced by someone who is laready attached(whether married or not)...Such association brings much guilt and misery(particularly if you fall for them, and also to their spouse if they find out)....I believe you can leave and find someone who is FREE for yourself...She is not a free woman..You have to believe you can leave, and want to leave for your one good and in consideration for her husband....All the best
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reader, incendia1990 +, writes (10 February 2011):
 Its sweet that you love her, but regardless of whether she loves you back or not, if she has a husband, that alone is way more drama and trouble that someone as sweet as you needs, especially at your place of work. And if she's having an affair, that's double the trouble. My advice, realize that you deserve better than that and move on. There are plenty of good women out there who are just waiting for the right one. And it seems like you are searching for that too, just in the wrong place. It's not going to be easy but trust me, this woman doesn't sound like she is worth the trouble if she has a husband and is possibly having an affair.
Good luck. Let me know what happens. I hope things get better for you.
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reader, lioness32 +, writes (10 February 2011):
 I can understand how you must feel, but loving someone who is already married will only lead to heartbreak. shes selfish because she's cheating on her husband with you. you wont be able to get the love you need from her. don't even think of her at all, cut her off!!!
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reader, dirtball +, writes (10 February 2011):
 Stop having sex with a married woman and find someone who will love you back.
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