He is always accusing me! Does this mean he's upto no good? help!
Q. Hello, I have been with my bf 4 yrs now and he's had trust issues from the beginning. For starters I've always been loyal and I show him how much I love him. At first I chalked things off to insecurites, he's very jealous as well. He can be very h...
A. 2 January 2012: Don't bother with this guy, he has probably cheated on you and is scared you will do the same! Please just leave him,he is a controlling freak! Sorry honey..... (read in full...)
My feelings for my teacher are overwhelming. How do I deal with this?
Q. Well, I don't know whether I'm in love with my male English teacher or just having crush on him but I do know that I have feelings for him and it's more than just an admiration or respect.. I've been feeling it for more than one year now... I'm ...
A. 15 April 2011: we are in the same boat :)
well even if your feelings are just a crush or real love, nothing can happen until you leave school. And by that time you might have a boyfriend and forgotten all about him, or moved away to university and find love the... (read in full...)
I need help handling things (mainly jealousy) in my relationship...
Q. Hey Well yeah, I kinda need some help handling things that go on in my relationship. Me and my boyfriend have been together 8 months, both 16 years old and just leaving High School (UK). We have a few problems in our relationship, mainly because o...
A. 15 April 2011: You need to let him breathe for goodness sake! Sorry for being so harsh but keep going on like this and you are going to destroy this relationship! You remind me of this girl I used to be friends with. She started to become a control freak ov... (read in full...)
I have a crush on my teacher and I think he likes me also, but he's married to a woman who is way older than him!!
Q. Ok, so at the beginning of the school year I didn't like him that much I just thought he was kinda cute so I thought I would get over it but then he started flirting with me! He started staring at me, smiling at me, and he just treated me ...
A. 15 April 2011: Stay away from this creep. You know deep in your heart he is a bad guy, and although you are flattered by the attention he gives you, you are a sensible and smart girl who knows and deserves better. Never be alone with him, even in the classroom. I ... (read in full...)
How to comfort a friend when you don't have the words?
Q. A good friend of mine is going through a hard time and I want to comfort him and make him feel better, however when ever someone tells me their problem I never know what to say to them. I sort of blank out, and stay silent because I have no idea ...
A. 4 January 2011: if he's going through a hard time, having someone to listen to is always the best way to deal with it. if he's that good a friend he will know about your lack of good words to say. just buy him his favourite chocolate and dvd, watch it with him, and ... (read in full...)
I ended it with a text message!
Q. Hi everyone, wow this is going to be a long story, today I broke up with my ex, my reasons? well I am a very loving, thoughtful, kind, caring person to be with, my faults? I am clingy and needy, I was with my ex from October 2009 till today, we had ...
A. 4 January 2011: I was like you once, I was very needy and i panicked if someone was slightly annoyed at me. I didnt trust anyone because I though they were doing things behind my back, but I changed as I got older. You have a severe lack in confidence and you feel ... (read in full...)
How do I let her know I still love her?
Q. I saw myself being together with this girl forever; I even thought about marriage. However, she broke up with me a few days ago... and I still love her and want her more than anything. I think she really is the perfect one for me and I am ...
A. 4 January 2011: Ask her why she broke up with you.
If it is something about you that is bothering her, are you willing to change to make her happy?
You just need to have a calm and mature discussion about how to get her back.
If things cant change and y... (read in full...)
I can't compete with his ex fiance!
Q. hey everyone :) Iv been with my boyfriend for 8months. Before i met him, he lived in america at uni for 5 years. he was with his ex for 4 years and they were engaged.he met me and split up with his ex for me, but i felt terrible about it!but h...
A. 6 December 2010: Their life together cant have been perfect and their relationship cant have been perfect and the reason is very obvious: he broke off his 'perfect life' for you. His life is only perfect if you're in it!
My sister did this all the time. SHe has ... (read in full...)
What shall I get him for xmas?
Q. my boyfriend is 17 and im 16. I dont know what to get him for christmas, he loves xbox and has a ton of games. He likes soccer. He dosent like candy very much. He dosent like gum. and I need help because i want to get him something good.....
A. 22 November 2010: I am a tomboy who loves games! im not sure if you have call of duty in america, but Call of Duty Black Ops is out, or assassins creed brotherhood and they are both amazing! you can try that, but if he is into soccer, maybe you can get a personalised ... (read in full...)
How do I talk to her and ask her out? She is very pretty and I am the guy that gets bullied!
Q. I really like this girl in my class (me and her are 14) i like everything about her but i dont know have to talk to her. She is much taller than me :/ and some people dont like me (just for no reason) and sometimes bully me. She is not part of that ...
A. 12 November 2010: you are very brave for trying, that takes serious guts! its a shame it didnt work out but hopefully you will have the confidence now to just talk to girls without hesitation!... (read in full...)
How do I talk to her and ask her out? She is very pretty and I am the guy that gets bullied!
Q. I really like this girl in my class (me and her are 14) i like everything about her but i dont know have to talk to her. She is much taller than me :/ and some people dont like me (just for no reason) and sometimes bully me. She is not part of that ...
A. 10 November 2010: maybe you could ask her for some help on something in the class you two share? once you got her talking on the subject in class, try and find something you two have in common and steer that into the conversation. thats how me and my boyfriends got ... (read in full...)
I'm too nervous to talk to girls at school!
Q. How do I impress girls at school. I can't seem to talk to them I get extremely nervous....
A. 13 July 2010: Act confident! :)
you must think that girls are crazy sometimes and we think boys are from another planet sometimes but here is the things we like boys for
Look at a girl you like, wait until she returns your gaze, hold it for a couple of seco... (read in full...)
Is he just not into me?
Q. So I have met this guy, real cute seems very well mannered and just nice! lol I took his number as I am a bit of a control freak and said I would call him. I text him the morning after as he came down to where I live and had to drive home so i ask...
A. 13 July 2010: You need to calm down a little bit! He sounds like he might like you, but keep this up you will scare him away. it was nice of him to call to said he had no credit, but i think you are starting to scare him away. dont start chasing him because he ... (read in full...)
How do I get to be beautiful like these girls I see?
Q. Hello, I have a problem with one word that teenage girls go through and that's the word UGLY!!! I'm 5'2, brown hair and eyes, I have and average size body and I'm black. But even with that information I'm still called ugly. Everyday I get talked ...
A. 13 July 2010: I used to feel like i was ugly and boring and had no idea how to dress. i have a best friend who gets all the attention from guys and she was asked to model for her hairdresser which got published in a magazine.
I wanted a fresh start so i got a ... (read in full...)
How can I sort this out? Or rather can I sort this out?
Q. Hey... hope it's okay to post this here. I am in a horrible situation with the guy I am dating and I just wanted to hear what you guys thought of it. It's making me so sad and I just want to sort it out, but I don't know how. I met J about a mo...
A. 13 July 2010: You can sort this out, nothings impossible!
wat i would do i wait for a while (maybe a few weeks) with no contact about your relationship. i think you need to get away from each other for a while to sort ourselves out and decide if you are real... (read in full...)
20 year old boy with a serious problem
Q. Hello everybody, I'm a 20 year-old boy with a HUGE problem. I'm living in Germany now for almost 2 years, and in this time I've got to know different people. 2 months ago I met a girl who is 14, 15 in 3 months(... this is being so hard to write...). ...
A. 3 May 2009: nah u didnt irritate me. its good to let it out. maybe u should she things from the other side of this relationship...im 14, and in love with a 19 year old. it is hard and scary to realise u've fallen in love with the wrong person. me and h... (read in full...)
He's too old and my Mom says 'don't date him'...how do I get over him?
Q. i had a crush but he is too old for me (5 years older) so we thought (he loved me too) it was a good idea not to date until i was much older. my mum said it would be a good idea not to see him at all. i can understand why and im not angry at her at ...
A. 3 May 2009: thanks a lot. he sent me a text saying that he will keep my number but wont contact me and wen im 17 he will contact me again, but he will try to go with other people right now and he suggested i should to. im never going to forget him but i feel ... (read in full...)
Can't figure out if he likes me or not?
Q. I have this crush on this boy in my grade We share 6 out of 7 classes together. Well, in Spanish the other day, my friend and I finished our project, followed by our other friends, quickly. I went over to him and his friend, ignoring his fri...
A. 2 May 2009: it looks like it. keep acting normal though because he likes u for who u r. ur very lucky. keep being friends until u realise for urself that he fancies u, then hopefully he will ask u (or u can ask him).
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Too much wetness ?
Q. I produce way too much discharge my mum thinks that my system is working too fast, it smelled for a bit but then the smell went away .. what could it be HELP PLEASE x...
A. 30 April 2009: i was in a similar situation. i waited for a bit to see what happened and the smell went away. if your still worried about it go to the doctor. u can ask for a female doctor if u feel embarassed. dont worry she is used to discussing all kinds of ... (read in full...)
Does he want to give up on us?
Q. I have been hanging out with this guy off and on for 5 months. I text him and ask,Can we try and have a relationship? He says,i will have to think about the whole relationship thing. A day went by and i still had not heard anything from him. I ...
A. 30 April 2009: i think the best thing to do is to talk about it to him face-to-face -no messing around waiting for a reply. Good luck x... (read in full...)
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