Can you love somone without having the hots for them?
Q. I have a dilemma. Can you be in love with someone but not have a strong sexual desire to be with them? I've been dating this girl for about 5 months and i'm crazy about her...and I know she's crazy about me. Problem is, she told me about a ...
A. 6 May 2009: Of course you can! Relationships don't have to revolve around sex. Your girlfriend may seem very interested in it, but if that's all her previous relationship was based around, then being with you can only be completely different and amazing to what ... (read in full...)
Should I ask him out or is it worth possibly making our friendship weird?
Q. ive been best friends with this person for 2 years and i really fancy him! he has started to act differently around me and i dont know if i should just ask him out because we will still be best friends if he says no. do you think i should?! help ...
A. 6 May 2009: Go for it. Absolutely go for it. When you have a foundation of friendship, you already know so much about each other and know that you love being around each other, so what's the harm? You only have one life- live it!
And anyway, you will still be b... (read in full...)
What happened? Why is he ignoring me?
Q. I've known this boy since September and we used to hang out but now he ignores me. Doesn't talk to me any more. I feel like he hates me and it makes me cry! I didn't do anything to him but maybe like him. He used to like me when he first met me now ...
A. 5 May 2009: Boys are very confusing, aren't they? Well listen, this guy is being really immature because if he has a problem with you, he should open up and discuss it. Stop worrying and leave him alone, he's not worth fretting over. x... (read in full...)
Do I have no chance with her?
Q. So I asked a girl out via texting and this is the reply I got. So is this saying theres no chance? Because I think she's scared. I've wrote and re-wrote about ten msgs. l I erm. Im terrified of sending the msg ive wrote because i know u and urg g...
A. 5 May 2009: I'm sorry, but this girl has subtly wrote that she isn't interested. However, I think you should take it as a compliment that she cares so much about your friendship. This is a great bond, so hang on to it, ok? x... (read in full...)
Love my husband but feel the temptation to cheat on him with a co worker, what should I do?
Q. Help, I am married and I think my co-worker and I are falling for each other. I started a new job in a new country about 5 months ago. It was the first job I had in a long time where I've really enjoyed my colleagues and the work I've been doing,...
A. 5 May 2009: This is a classic problem, and not one without solutions. First of all, you should consider what you have. Your amazing husband- would you be able to live with losing him? And if this new relationship doesn't work out, where does that leave you?
I... (read in full...)
Should I go on holiday with my partner to please him even though we have unresolved arguments?
Q. My partner of 2 years recently asked me to go on holiday with him. Our situation at the moment is not all that great, and we argue almost daily. I've never been abroad before and I have a phobia of flying, so if I'm actually going to do this I nee...
A. 5 May 2009: As you feel like you are being pressured, I would strongly recommend you do not go on this holiday. It is a big thing of your boyfriend to ask this of you, and while it is a touching gesture, you must be entirely comfortable. And I'm afraid you ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is treating me differently since seeing these poems
Q. Dear Cupid, I dated this guy for 3 years in high school and without making this a long "pity-me" story, he passed away of brain cancer leaving me crushed. To help me cope I would write pages after pages and poems to release some of my intense fe...
A. 5 May 2009: It's obvious that your new guy is affected by these letters. It must be a shock to him, because I'm sure your written words would be heartfelt and meaningful and your new guy might be intimidated by your feelings. He might feel like second best ... (read in full...)
How do I flirt, with out flirting?
Q. Hi, I'm 16 years old and I really like this guy at the local sports club. I'm not entirely sure where I would stand on like a friendship scale. I mean we've known each other about two years and we get on well, but I haven't met his friends so I ...
A. 5 May 2009: You don't always have to flirt outrageously to find out if a guy likes you. Subtle hints like holding his gaze for a second longer than you should and smiling at him [although not too much, you don't want the hanger-in-mouth look!] might get his ... (read in full...)
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