I cannot get a boyfriend and don't know why...
Q. Hello.I am a 19 year old girl. My problem is I might never find a boyfriend. I dated this guy once but we were 12 and were just kids. Our idea of gf and bf were occasional hugs and love letters. He gave me my first kiss. actually my friend matched ...
A. 14 December 2009: Hey! me and you are in the same situation. It seems like I can't find a nice guy to save my life. Everytime I meet a guy they either want just sex or nothing serious at all. But don't beat yourself up over it. All of my friends are in relationships ... (read in full...)
I had never found my wife physically attractive so I left her for a woman I am attracted to
Q. This is something I am really struggling with at the moment and am in desperate need of some advice. A couple of months ago, I announced to my wife of 2 years (been together seven years in total) that I didn't want to be with her anymore. The re...
A. 12 December 2009: Why would you enter a relationship with someone you're not physcially attracted to? You are not wrong for not being attracted to your wife but you are wrong for wasting her time when I'm sure she loves you. It's sad because throughout reading your ... (read in full...)
His wont talk to me and acts beyond weird...does he like me or not?
Q. Well i aint to sure whats going on here. I have a guy mate who yes i do like, Ive never thought of us than anymore than mates however other people and myself have noticed he doesnt exactlly act the same with me as anyone else. There are many girls ...
A. 25 November 2009: Girl me are unpredictable! It seems to me like he likes you but his ego is getting the best of him. Men don't sometimes don't want to come off as being "soft" or "clingy" so they try to play it cool. However he could be the type that has his ways. I ... (read in full...)
Clingy friend who wants to be more is driving me insane!
Q. I have a friend who has been in love with me for the last 3 years. I have tried to be sensitive towards his feelings but it is getting to the point where I can't handle being the reason for his happiness or misery any longer. I have continually ...
A. 25 November 2009: You are totally right! It may has to get to the point where you has to get mean. You've done nothing but try to be his friend despite his other intentions. You've told him you only want to be friends so you have to take other options. If it gets to ... (read in full...)
Is sex painful?
Q. I love my boyfriend of 2 years with all my heart,the problem is when we kiss, whenever he feels horny and asks for sex, I get really scared, is sex really that bad and is it painful?...
A. 23 November 2009: Hi. I recently had sex for the first time about two months ago I have to admit it does hurt. I had sex a second time and it still hurt. The thing that caused me problems was that I was very scared because I had tried to have sex before and it hurt ... (read in full...)
When should I start my birth control pills?
Q. Okay I had unprotected sex about two and a half weeks ago. I've took pregnancy tests and they all came out negative. I went to the clinic to get started on birth control which I chose to take the pills. My period came about a week ago. They also ...
A. 28 October 2009: I think I will wait until next month. Oh and to oldersister I know everyone is strangers on this website but I feel some may know more than others. I'm sure you need advice every now and then or maybe you think you know it all.... (read in full...)
Where can we have sex without being interrupted?
Q. Ok so I'm losing my virginity to one of my guy-friends really soon, but i don't know when yet.....i'm really nervous, and i dont know what i need to expect, because i literally know nothing about sex....i don't want to get down on the bed with a guy ...
A. 27 October 2009: Trust me there are plenty of pains and risks that come. Yes sex hurts the first time and the time after that. Yes it's possible for the condom to tear and you can get pregnant. Yes you can get pregnant from precum. Oh and it's also possible to have ... (read in full...)
Where can we have sex without being interrupted?
Q. Ok so I'm losing my virginity to one of my guy-friends really soon, but i don't know when yet.....i'm really nervous, and i dont know what i need to expect, because i literally know nothing about sex....i don't want to get down on the bed with a guy ...
A. 27 October 2009: Not to sound judgemental but I don't think you are ready for sex at all. You have too many worries and what if's... You shouldn't plan sex it should just happen when you feel it's right. You guys have nowhere to have sex and on top of it you don't ... (read in full...)
I want him to give in to me once in a while and not just yell at me when I ask him for a favor.
Q. My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. I love him with all my heart but in every case whether it be fights or what he wants, I have given in to him. I want him to give in to me once in a while and not just yell at me when I ask him ...
A. 19 October 2009: Right now you in a tough situation. No matter how bad you may feel like you want to leave him it's not easy to jump up and leave the person that has your heart. As hard as it is to say you both will never come to a resolution unless you are ... (read in full...)
I feel so lonely and ugly because I cant get a boyfriend
Q. I just need to get my feelings out so if anyones got any advice on how to get through this, or have been in this just leave advice or tips please :( well im going trhough depression, aniexty and low self esteem. ive honestly never felt so u...
A. 19 October 2009: I know exactly how you feel because I feel the same sometimes. All of my friends have boyfriends but I'm the only one left out. The guys that do pay me attention only want one thing. The best advice I can give to you if love who you are no matter ... (read in full...)
Can anyone assess this relationship?
Q. I am 23 she is 21 .We both r in college.I am in deep love with this girl who was in relationship with 2 boys before me.I am a really intelligent guy who has a balding problem and an irregular shape(i ll fix that). the last boyfriend ditche...
A. 14 October 2009: It's imposssible to make someone fall in love with you. I agree it is disturbing to have feelings for someone but all they do is ignore you in return. Trust me I know how it feels. You are trying to help her and she just doesn't see it right now ... (read in full...)
Should I take full custody of my two year old brother?
Q. I have a 2 year old brother that I have Temp. custody of. I am 18 myself....I'm getting a job, he has medicaid, and I'm going to be going to school online at some point in the future. I want full custody of my brother because my mother is a horrible ...
A. 13 October 2009: If you want to take care of your little brother I think you should go for it. Eventually your mother will lose custody because she doesn't tend to him properly. Your boyfriend is telling you otherwise but if he can't understand you love your brother ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for a woman to ask a man out?
Q. I have another question, is it wrong for woman to ask man out on a date? Does it start a cycle of a woman taking the male role in the relationship?...
A. 8 October 2009: Definately not!!! As a matter of fact it makes you feel better knowing you took a chance. I use to sit back and wait for guys to ask me out. But I think the only way to do that is face to face. Go for it you never know!!!... (read in full...)
Once we had sex he changed.Does he see me as nothing?
Q. Okay there is this guy that I really like. If you've read one of my similar posts I stated that he was ignoring me. I gave my virginity to him and afterwards he started ignoring me. I told him that I really liked him but he doesn't want to hear it. ...
A. 6 October 2009: Thanks everyone for all your positive answers. To xanthic I have self respect for myself. If I didn't then I would be doing the things he asked.... (read in full...)
I thought we were flirting, but she was getting serious
Q. I have a serious problem I know this girl,she's 22(and has a child) and I'm 18.She really likes me and I like her too.Anyways we started to flirt.This I didn't take serious as I was only joking and also thought she was joking too. Because I k...
A. 2 October 2009: I applaud you for not having sex with her. The average guy would do it and then ignore her as I've had done to me. But next time don't flirt people sometimes take it seriously. Inform her that you want to be friends and nothing more. Yes she might ... (read in full...)
Does this mean he likes me back?
Q. hey people i have a problem i realy like this guy but he has a gf and every day that i see him he sais some thing diffrent like today he said that some one told him i want to have sex with him and make out with him does this mean he likes me back?...
A. 30 September 2009: Honey don't listen to him. He's just trying to use you for your body. He has a girlfriend and if he's flirting with you that means he's unfaithful. I know you can't help who you like but there's more boys out there. Find someone that will treat you ... (read in full...)
G/f says that I'm not your call girl..I get no affection from her at all
Q. I am 21. I and my girlfriend have been together for 2 years now. I always try to make her happy by cracking jokes, make her laugh. In our 1st 6 months, she completely ignored me as if we were just friends and took more interest in other guys. But ...
A. 28 September 2009: It seems to me like she is confused. I'm figuring she wants to be affectionate with you but she's afraid of getting hurt. If she's been hurt in the past maybe that is part of the problem. Continue to give her time and see if she comes around if not ... (read in full...)
How do I make him understand I'm not a machine?
Q. I am almost thirty yrs old, I am married to a man who is four years younger than me and has a sex drive of a sixteen yr old. We have 3 children together, all between the ages of 6 to 1 yr old. I work full time as well as have the children in various ...
A. 28 September 2009: Your husband shoud understand that you're tired with everything you do. Explain to him that sex more than 3 time out of the week is out of the question. Most men want sex 5 or 6 times of the day but mainly because men have a higher sex drive. You ... (read in full...)
B/f keeps telling me to move out when he knows I don't have enough money, treats me badly so much
Q. All my weekend are a mess ,i have been having piece jobs for six months and this time I have got a jb which recently started .I also do massage at home well it is not busy am still looking for clients by advertising. My problem is I moved in with ...
A. 28 September 2009: It seems to me that this guy has split personalities. He's the nice caring guy one moment and the next he is a monster. I think his age plays a role in this as well. He's 49 and you're 27. You deserve someone that is understanding and caring. Of ... (read in full...)
Why is he ignoring me?
Q. I like this guy a lot. We had sex about a week ago which was my first time and now he's ignoring me. When I call he doesn't answer when I text he doesn't text back. If he does he says he's working. I really don't know since he use to do it before he ...
A. 28 September 2009: Thanks everyone I will try I appreciate all of your answers :)... (read in full...)
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