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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. I love him with all my heart but in every case whether it be fights or what he wants, I have given in to him. I want him to give in to me once in a while and not just yell at me when I ask him for a favor. I know he's never going to change no matter how many times he says he will. I've had faith in him for changing for almost a year now and I see no improvement unless we're physically together. I know people are different hence I don't mind being in a LDR when he does. He tells me he wants to make it work but he doesn't act like it. I wish I had the guts to break up with him but every time it comes to that point I go weak and want him more. I want to let go more than anything but memories suck and I hate thinking about life without him. I don't know what to do. He's everything to me and has taken over my life for so long. I want to end it but I don't want to keep thinking what if? I still love him though. I don't know what to do :(
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reader, Kendra0589 +, writes (19 October 2009):
 Right now you in a tough situation. No matter how bad you may feel like you want to leave him it's not easy to jump up and leave the person that has your heart. As hard as it is to say you both will never come to a resolution unless you are physically together. Trust and believe me when I tell you because I've been there. A friend of mine that move away to another state that I was seeing was the same way. We never solved anything and it cost no only our relationship but our friendship. Don't give up work out some sort of arrangement to see each other talk your problems out. Another thing is two wrongs don't make a right. Never try to solve a problem by causing another. Rather than wanting him to give in sometimes try to talk it out. Good luck
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