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writes:Hello.I am a 19 year old girl. My problem is I might never find a boyfriend. I dated this guy once but we were 12 and were just kids. Our idea of gf and bf were occasional hugs and love letters. He gave me my first kiss. actually my friend matched us up. He is gay now and he was just trying to convince himself he was straight. in essence i was an experiment. ?Ever since then no-one has even looked in my direction. People compliment my looks alot but never ask me out. I dont think its because im an albino cause we are quite common in South Africa and i know some who are real players. something about me seems to turn guys off. its been a running joke among my friends that i will be the worlds youngest spinster. dont blame them, i start it. its either that or embarassing tension when conversations about relationships pop up. im so envious of my friends who have great relationships and are so happy when im alone as usual. back in high school i used 2 stay behind after school and go 2 the library cause my friends would walk with their bfs and i would walk quietly behind them. even my family has noticed. your opinion would be greatly appreciated.
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reader, Kendra0589  +, writes (14 December 2009):
 Hey! me and you are in the same situation. It seems like I can't find a nice guy to save my life. Everytime I meet a guy they either want just sex or nothing serious at all. But don't beat yourself up over it. All of my friends are in relationships too and I'm always left out. I feel like we must be patient because good things come to those who wait. Love isn't going anywhere. I just got my feelings hurt so badly a couple of days ago by a guy that I just knew could possibly be the one. Yes being in a relationship is great but it hads its disadvantages too. THe time will come and when it does I hope you find everything you look for in a guy :)
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (14 December 2009):
Groom yourself, do your hair really pretty and take care of your skin by wearing sunscreen even in the shade, your dressing and your general appearance (eyebrows, nails, everything). Go and get those free make overs at the Edgars MAC counters because although you are black culturally, your skin in white and your hair is blonde so all your grooming needs to be with products and colours meant for really pale white people. After that, have some nice photos taken looking your best then join some online dating sites and put up your new pics. Some good ones that also cover South Africa are on cupidmedia.com. If you want to date or make friends with other albinos try google "albino dating" and lots of blogs and dating sites you might like to try. Just have confidence in yourself. I know here in Africa people believe all sorts of things about Albinism but in Europe men love women like you and will have no problem with it. So try online dating and find someone who will get to know you without some stupid superstition affecting their interest.
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