Guy with girlfriend keeps trying to string me along!!! I am nobody's puppet!!
Q. HELP!!!! This guy friend has a girlfriend. BUT he keeps trying to string me along!!! I told him I have feelings for him. He told me he has a girlfriend. So that should be the end of it, right? NO!!!! He just keeps giving me hope and then he...
A. 8 June 2012: Unfortunately men can be cruel sometimes and they dont realize the effect they can have on someone cause they dont ever let themselves be vulnerable. he keeps you around as a back up which is not right and its you that needs to end that and tell him ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend doesn't treat me well. Do I need to end things?
Q. Hello Iam 33 recently met a man 34years old who was very interested in me he told me interesting things about his past about his thug life and that he has slept with many women even there was a time he had 6 girlfriends all to be used for...
A. 6 June 2012: you need to end things with this man , cause if he was using 6 women at once before , most likely, he is right now to you. I know you have been together a year and it is hard but if your waiting for marriage , he is getting it from someone else I ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend of 15 years will not divorce his wife!
Q. Hi, I have been with my live in boyfriend for 15 years. He has given me 2 engagement rings, (not diamonds) but when I told someone we were engaged, he got very angry. I drive him to and from work, as he works in a bar. He lost his license for 3 ye...
A. 6 June 2012: This guy is a real tool! you are so used to living like this , its almost like you go in spurts where you can accept this cause you love him , but then you have days where you just cant deal with it. You need to have those not dealing with it days ... (read in full...)
Dating 4 years, no sex in 14 months..I know he's cheating!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years. In the last 14 months we have not been sexually intimate with each other. He stopped coming around and spending quality time with me. All we do is talk on the phone. I've talked to him about my ...
A. 6 June 2012: If you havent been intimate with him in over a year. Most definitely he is doing something. Just curious why you let it go so long. I mean I know sex isnt everything is some relationships, but it also is important to keep things alive. when that ... (read in full...)
Tips for changing the timing of my period?
Q. Right... So basically, im going on holiday on the 1st of August, but im due to be on my period then. I dont want this to ruin my holiday, so i want to dely my period? Im not ready to use a tampon and i dont want to go on birth control.. Does a...
A. 3 June 2012: I know you dont want anyone to suggest tampons or birth control pills but I just have to say dont be scared of using a tampon , my daughter is 14 and she uses them all the time no problem so when you have it , get the small tampons (smaller than ... (read in full...)
He confessed to like me. I don't like him. Should I not be around this group of friends now?
Q. A guy in a group of friends confessed to me and I rejected him. And because i really have no interest in me,i am feeling very disgusted with him and wish to avoid him. But recently he kept organising group outings,i really do not wish to attend as i ...
A. 2 June 2012: Yes depends on how close you were to the others in the group, if you arent close to them , then yeah maybe keep your distance from them for a little bit then the guy will have someone else he gets into and you will be old news and maybe can join ... (read in full...)
After hooking up with my ex, now FWB he doesn't respond back!
Q. I know this is going to sound petty but I'm pretty upset so it means alot to me :) My ex and I ( dated 6 mos) recently ended things but care fir each other and decided to stay friends. Well, then we realized seeing each other would lead to mo...
A. 2 June 2012: I wouldnt text him anymore. See if he contacts you.... (read in full...)
Is it normal for women to only like one night stands?
Q. Hi Just after some opinions really. I know we hear a lot about blokes liking one night stands then losing interest, but I seem to be the female equivilant. I am so happy in my life right now in all ways, and I love being single. Yet I also love ...
A. 2 June 2012: As my daughter would say YOLO , you only live once. yeah sleeping with more than one person may not be the ideal situation , but you know what , these days there is just worse things going on in the world. you are an adult , the men you are seeing ... (read in full...)
Lady parts are in pain, could I have caught something from oral sex?
Q. I had sex last week twice with a guy I am seeing. We used condoms apart from when we done oral. This week I am in a lot of pain down below I think it's probably thrush but I am a bit worried that I have caught an sti through oral sex though I don't ...
A. 2 June 2012: It could be just a urinary tract infection or something like that. i would go to your dr, they will know right away what it is. Worse case scenario it could be genital herpes , but dont panic! go to your dr and they'll tell you.... (read in full...)
My parents beat me, and now I try to push my husband to beat me. What can I do?
Q. Hi, I just need a little advice or whatever that can help me with this. I grow up in a disfunctional family. Im used to get beat from my parents physically and emotionally. Believe me its really hurt. It planted in my heart and in my soul. My eye...
A. 22 May 2012: This is a hard situation and the only solution I would say is a counselor to counsel you and your family, and with the support of your other members of your family , not the ones that beat you, I believe you can realize that you dont need to be in ... (read in full...)
She still texts and I don't think she is moving on!
Q. So I'm 23 and about 10 months ago things started happening with a friend, we hadn't really talked that much one on one before, but we were part of the same circle of friends. This was towards the end of my degree at university, while she still had ...
A. 13 May 2012: Just be honest with her, tell her she really needs to move on and find someone else.If she keeps texting you I would change your number or maybe tell her to stop texting you or you will.... (read in full...)
Why is he still coming around when he said we didn't have a future?
Q. I have been seeing this guy for the last 2 and a half years on strictly a friends with benefits situation. Well he lived with me for around 3 months and the more I got to know him and we got along so good and he made me laugh and we just really had ...
A. 11 May 2012: So ugh ugh ugh people, major setback. My fwb is now living with me so he was upgraded to a rwb, roommate. He got me at a weak moment, he was in a jam and asked if he could stay with me a little while. I said yes and he has been with me 3 weeks now. ... (read in full...)
Is it possible that someone like my ex can change?
Q. Hey, everyone :) This may be a bit long so please bear with me. I'v just come out of a three year relationship. We lived together the majority of those three years. Resons why we broke up: -he was extremely paranoid and jealous- constan...
A. 11 May 2012: Someone that acts like this is never going to change and you need to try as hard as you possibly can to resist him. I'm not saying it will be easy but you need to be in a relationship that is real that is healthy and you need to be with a man who ... (read in full...)
I am in love with someone I work with and can't get over him!
Q. I feel a bit stupid writing this at all, even if it is anonymous, but the thing is I am going crazy, and it is starting to make me unhappy. I don't really know where to begin, but basically I am in love with someone I work with. I have been wor...
A. 25 April 2012: you need to move on and you need to move on fast. This situation is not healthy for you and that this person is in a relationship with someone else. regardless if he talks about his relationship he is in one and you know it. I wouldnt do anything ... (read in full...)
Dating a divorcee?
Q. I am a single mom of 3 and 27. I have been in a relationship with my neighbor for about 4 months. Hes 40, divorced with 1 child he gets every other weekend. We have been friends since I moved into the house 2 years ago. We had long conversations ...
A. 14 April 2012: I dont think its a meaningless thing, cuz if it was , he wouldnt be exclusive with you , he'd be seeing other women too. Is it convenient , I would say yes but I could say the same for you too seeing that he is a neighbor, its very convenient. I ... (read in full...)
I don't love him but don't know whether to go or stay
Q. My husband is a controlling man and I've had enough and finally ended our unhappy marriage of 20 years. I've met this man while I was divorcing my husband. He is 16 years older than me. He is helpful and supportive at my difficult time. Two ...
A. 14 April 2012: be honest with him. I think you need to move out and let him go. It is the only fair thing to do. It is gonna be really hard since he is much older and the chances are slim he will meet someone else. but you arent his age , you still are in your ... (read in full...)
Should I press charges because she uploaded a photo of us on facebook?
Q. Hi. I'm new, here. Last week, I have had a photograph of me with a female friend. I thought she would NOT post the photograph on the internet. However, just yesterday, I check her Facebook, just to see her photo album, as she mentionned a nea...
A. 12 April 2012: If she is a friend. You should be able to just call her and tell her to remove it. Suing her or contacting a lawyer is drastic and try talking to her and see how that goes. If she doesn't want to get rid of it. She can always hide it in her settings ... (read in full...)
The girl I like is living with her ex who is a friend of mine!
Q. Hi, I've been seeing this girl off and on for about 5 months. We were really intense when we first met - still are in a way. Recently we met up and she told me that she was in a open relationship with her ex last time we met she told me she didn't ...
A. 12 April 2012: I wouldn't go near her. Will only effect you friendship with the guy and will be a complete waste of time spending any time with her. Have her have an open relationship with someone else and not you. Will only create drama. Good luck!... (read in full...)
Girlfriend has low self esteem and doesn't believe me when I say she's beautiful
Q. How can I boost my girlfriend's self confidence? We have been together for three years and over time she has gained some weight. She is still as beautiful as ever but she is really down about the weight. I keep telling her she is perfect but she ...
A. 10 April 2012: you are doing what you can and saying the right things, but for her , she just thinks , oh its my boyfriend, of course he is going to say those things. But she doesnt believe them. She needs to feel better about herself and boost her own self ... (read in full...)
I don't know if we're ready for a child! Should I ask my wife to get an abortion?
Q. Hello. I am 25 years old and I'm graduating from college with my bachelor's degree in three weeks. I've been married for two years and my wife is 21 going on 22 in september. Here is my dilemma. My wife has one more semester to go after the end of ...
A. 10 April 2012: This is a decision your wife should make , and you should of course add your input and tell her how you feel , but the ultimate decision should be hers. Its her body, she is the one that is carrying this baby in her and she is the one that has to ... (read in full...)
Cross dressing has taken over his life
Q. This is my first time on here so, here goes, ive known a man for nearly 20 years infact i was a bridesmaid at his wedding he split up from his wife about 3 years ago - she was very unkind and decided to tell everybody that he was a cross dresser ...
A. 10 April 2012: Its sounds to me like you need to separate yourself from him and take a break. See if being apart is meant to be.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's ex is telling their children she won't be their mom if they talk to me
Q. Hiya, hope you can help me cos I am torn here... I have been with my fella for 9 months, very happy togeether and planning our future together. However, he has 2 wonderful children who I adore and they like me. However his ex is tearing me apart...
A. 10 April 2012: Your boyfriend needs to step up and talk to this ex of his and make it clear that saying these things to their small kids is not acceptable and is just absolutely horrible. This ex is obviously still hung up on your boyfriend whether she has someone ... (read in full...)
Why is he still coming around when he said we didn't have a future?
Q. I have been seeing this guy for the last 2 and a half years on strictly a friends with benefits situation. Well he lived with me for around 3 months and the more I got to know him and we got along so good and he made me laugh and we just really had ...
A. 10 April 2012: I just want to send a thank you to those who responded to this situation of mine, and I appreciate your advice and input and you gave me a lot to think about and I really do want to end this vicious cycle of madness, cause thats what this is. My ex ... (read in full...)
Why is he still coming around when he said we didn't have a future?
Q. I have been seeing this guy for the last 2 and a half years on strictly a friends with benefits situation. Well he lived with me for around 3 months and the more I got to know him and we got along so good and he made me laugh and we just really had ...
A. 7 April 2012: You all are right I know this and I do deserve better. I know I do but yet I'm caught in this twisted messed up situation. I need to let these assholes go and tell them I'm over it . Enough is enough and tell them to f off. I'm better off alone and ... (read in full...)
Why is he still coming around when he said we didn't have a future?
Q. I have been seeing this guy for the last 2 and a half years on strictly a friends with benefits situation. Well he lived with me for around 3 months and the more I got to know him and we got along so good and he made me laugh and we just really had ...
A. 7 April 2012: I'm hearing all this advice and when I am writing this down reading these responses . You all are right. I'm 38 how the hell did I get so stupid so insecure so damn messed up in the head.... (read in full...)
Why is he still coming around when he said we didn't have a future?
Q. I have been seeing this guy for the last 2 and a half years on strictly a friends with benefits situation. Well he lived with me for around 3 months and the more I got to know him and we got along so good and he made me laugh and we just really had ...
A. 7 April 2012: Cerberus I know your right and yeah when u say it like that its true. I'm not a fool and I do get angry after he leaves and feel like shit but by the time he comes over again I'm over it and he's got me again. I know when he told me he will never ... (read in full...)
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