New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

Someone not liking you back + rebound = a whole lotta trouble!

Tagged as: Dating, Three is a crowd<< Previous question   Next question >>
Article - (5 June 2011) 0 Comments - (Newest, )
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, Jackalus writes:

So when you where growing up did you ever feel as if you liked someone but they didn't like you back?

Well you are most certainly not alone there! Probably the majority of the population have at one point in their lives experienced the exact same problem. I have had my fair share too. One of my worst issues was probably when this girl I had been flirting quite a lot with started liking me but I didn't know that at the time, so I left it and then I decided that because I now liked her I had to ask if she ever had feeling for me.

She said yes she had but she had lost them now. And then the other problem of wanting what you can't have, I obviously knew that I couldn't ask her out and I tried to get over her but it wouldn't happen. I just wanted her more.

In the end I very regretfully used this other girl as a rebound and after 2 months now I still can't get over her - I just want her. I have many other stories of liking people and not being liked back but I won't bore you.

So if you have managed to make it this far here are a few tips that I would recommend:

Don't use a rebound

Don't ask her/him out if you know they don't like you back (yet)

Just show them how good you would be as a boy/girlfriend

Be civil and respectful of their feelings towards you: basically don't get angry with them

I hope you peeps have more luck than me

View related questions: flirt

<-- Rate this Article

Reply to this Article


Share

You can add your comments or thoughts to this article

Register or login to comment on this article...

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0312277999983053!