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Unrequited love.........

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Question - (5 July 2011) 6 Answers - (Newest, 5 July 2011)
A female age 30-35, *opeFUL_romantic_13 writes:

Does anyone have any stories or experienced where they were/are in love with someone, and even if that person was/is interested, he/she was/is in love with someone else?

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A male reader, Jackalus United Kingdom +, writes (5 July 2011):

Yeah it's the worst (slight exaggeration) I may be just 15 but I love this girl with everything I've got. I told her about 3 months ago but she was with someone. So I did all I could to get over her I thought I was and I had a different girlfriend but I just wasn't over her so now I'm single again and I still want to just hold her as if she was my own. Thing is she has kissed me and stuff when she was interested in me and I liked her too. For anyone reading if you wait too long to tell them it will hurt you morewhen you do tell them they will probably be with or like someone else.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2011):

yes i love my gf to bits. She has lied to me, cheated on me and even told me she still has feelings for her ex she even Tried to go back to him till he beat her up again.

Sometimes i hate myself for not being able to end the relationship as i never really know how she feels about me.

Find someone who you can love and will love you equally in return. Anything else just breaks your heart.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2011):

Yes...It was very painful. I fell in love with someone who could only be my friend, and it took a long to accept that. Once you've accepted that it's not going to go anywhere, then you can move on.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2011):

All throughout highschool I loved a boy. No other boy. No, only him. And he knew it. And about every six months, I'd allow him to viciously use my body. I knew he was only using me, but I just needed to feel his body close to mine. He charmed me into nude pictures, sexual favors, etc. But I would've gone to the end of the world for him. And all I wanted was his love.

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A male reader, freeme United States +, writes (5 July 2011):

freeme agony auntAt your age unrequited love is an unfortunate right of passage. It hit me so hard when I was 16, it really messed my life up for a long time.

Please do not believe its the end of the world, though it might feel like it. Don't allow this to define you as you grow into adulthood. Try to find someone else to date, just to keep your mind occupied.

I'm 40, and that's what I'm going to do. If you let it, you'll be 40 before you can feel love like that again. Don't let that happen to you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2011):

I'm in love with a woman who's in love with another woman. She loves with every fiber of her being, and anyone whom comes in contact with is swallowed up into her love sand. I'm in deep. She loves and treats my children and myself like royalty, but she's encased in steel when it comes to keeping me from getting in. The story is her to tell, not mine. She'd skin me if I told. No way.

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