Excited to be engaged, but Mum has raised some questions!
Q. Hi there! So, after a few months being on a LDR my bf proposed a few weeks ago over dinner. WOW! We've been together for nearly 2 years (too soon to get married?) and of course I said yes yes yes and I wanted to jump and scream and let the world ...
A. 16 September 2012: This is not typical advice you can find on dearcupid.org, but here it goes:
Your mother does have a valid point from the legal point of view. I know you're madly in love with him, and I can believe he is also, but 18 months is a long time, and diff... (read in full...)
I got my girlfriend mixed up with her twin sister and tried to get on with her. Should I tell my girlfriend?
Q. I was drunk one day after a party and a friend dropped me off at my girlfriends house. Not knowing my girlfriends twin sister was in the house i tried it on with her thinking she was my girlfriend. At the time i really couldn't tell the difference ...
A. 14 September 2012: My girlfriends sister said "forget about it"
Stick to the basic wisdom.
Her sister will probably not make a big deal as I'm sure they are used to be mixed up with each other. It should not be a big deal for your GF, but don't worry her unnece... (read in full...)
Do steroids affect relations with others?
Q. I want to know if any of you have had a friendship or relationship with any man whose done steroids? What mood changes did they experience? How did you deal with them? Etc thanks for any input....
A. 14 September 2012: Yes, they will cause you serious problems with controlling yourself. ... (read in full...)
My true love moved away to find himself. What do I do now?
Q. The guy I dated for over 2 years moved about 3,000 miles away a month ago because he wanted to go find out what a makes him tick. He told me when he made this decision to move is that he didn't want me to think he was trying to run away from me, ...
A. 13 September 2012: "What do I do now?" - Nothing.
Cruel as it may seem, love for men is just another thing in life. His trip all over the world may have seemed more interesting. It's not personally about you, it's about experiences (not that I personally support ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm losing him. My boyfriend is unhappy but why does he stay?
Q. My boyfriend and me have been together almost a year and a half, of course at the beginning things were great. We had a period where we broke up for a couple months because of all the arguing. I can be somewhat insecure, overbearing and controll...
A. 13 September 2012: "why does he stay" - because men "never leave into the vacuum", unless really driven against the wall. We do like our breakfast made, shirt ironed and all that.
He will leave you when he finds another girl ready to take him. I don't know how to h... (read in full...)
This guy cancelled a date at the last moment, twice, to me. Why do guys do this?
Q. Any advice as to why he kept blowing me out. Me and this guy used to work together we got on really well, there was chemistry between us from day one, we arranged to got out but he cancelled on me on the day (this was when we worked together)...
A. 12 September 2012: Tell him what you think about him, and of course never give him a chance again, however cute/handsome he may be. ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I'm a virgin? I want the first time to be special.
Q. Hey everyone I am 23 years old and I am a virgin..I have never really had any serious real relationship,I have just french kissed 2 men that's it..I was just waiting for the right man..now i'm finally in a real relationship but my boyfriend doesn't ...
A. 12 September 2012: Of course you have to tell him! Personally I don't really care to be the first one of any woman, it's lots of stress and little pleasure.
Surely if I ever had to do it, it's OK, but if I wasn't told, I'd be disappointed to say the least. ... (read in full...)
Is he in grief or is he mucking me about? I want to support him as he's lost a loved one, but....
Q. HI, I need advice please as I am a bit lost. I've started dating a really lovely man who treats me wonderfully but, just as things were starting to get serious between us, his mother unexpectedly died. He had to cancel a date at short notice - of ...
A. 12 September 2012: You've never seen his mother and you don't really know what kind of a relationship it was, hence you don't know what he's going through.
Be patient! C'mon, this is not at all a regular situation. And don't be pushy, perhaps he wants to be alone... (read in full...)
My 10 year old doesn't want to meet her long lost father!
Q. I had my daughter when I was 15 years old. I'm now 25 and she is a beautiful ten year old who is now in the sixth grade (she skipped a grade because she's a smart cookie!). Her father, unfortunately, decided not to be part of her life (or mine, f...
A. 7 November 2010: Keep him away from your daughter. He is a stranger after all.
You know what happened to the biological father? He realized his mistake. I must say it was rather early, I have a friend who came back when the child was 17 (and demanded contact)... (read in full...)
Help! I think my mom is cheating on my dad!!!
Q. Ever since my mom got a facebook I've had suspicions of her cheating on my Dad. I've seen her on it and she mostly talks to guys. About a month ago I was downstairs alone her phone went off, I looked ( I know I really shouldn't have) and it was all ...
A. 22 October 2010: What should you do? Stay away from it, it's not your business. ... (read in full...)
Getting rid of everything to do with the ex a good idea?
Q. I want to get rid of memorabilia of my ex, like cards, cinema tickets from the first date and photos. We were together for a long time and he was my "first love". But he's changed so much and not in a good way. I'm so upset with his attitude tow...
A. 21 October 2010: Get rid of the stuff as soon as possible, but be careful not to throw out things that have a big sentimental value for you as well. In other words, don't get revenge on stuff.
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Is my boyfriend falling out of love with me?
Q. Is my boyfriend falling out of love with me or lost interest? I'll try to keep this short. But here goes. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 4 years. I love him so much and I am stilll soo in love with him. I like to think that he's ...
A. 20 October 2010: Throughout your post you made it clear that your reaction to the growing distance was to became more "loving", or simply clingy. Can you imagine how annoying that is? Most men hate it, and they only put up with it when they are married, and not even ... (read in full...)
This guy I like asked me out, what should I do?
Q. A guy that I really like and I think likes me just got a friend to ask me out for him! I'm not sure whether to say yes or no because he's known as a bit of a player but his mate says that he genuenly likes me and that he has changed and wouldn't ...
A. 19 October 2010: He used a friend to ask you out? That's an automatic "no". Unless you're 14 and lying about your age. ... (read in full...)
How do I overcome my embarrassment?
Q. hi, so i've recently started dating a guy and i'm a super shy person and get embarrassed quite easily. my boyfriend also works away for 3 weeks at a time and would like to see me on skype but i'm embarrassed of showing him my body although he's seen ...
A. 19 October 2010: Why do you think that showing yourself to him over skype is an acceptable thing? It's not even any close to being in person. Send him a photo, a "normal" or naked one, at most. ... (read in full...)
Is something hand made for your boyfriend seen by them as being too mushy?
Q. Is it a good idea to make a hand made gift for your boyfriend? I mean... do guys appreciate stuff like hand made cards/poems/a home made dinner etc for them or is it considered to be too mushy? -_-...
A. 19 October 2010: My view: anything from the list but a poem.... (read in full...)
My sister is filing for divorce from her husband because she thinks him and me were playing "footsie"
Q. I am very close to my sister. I am single. My sister has been married for 10 years. I am also close to her husband. I was visiting my sister last Sunday and she, her husband, his parents and I were playing card games on a table. I accidentally ...
A. 19 October 2010: "She is really really upset and has decided to file for divorce. She has also cut me off. I am shattered by this."
Don't be. If your sister files a divorce for a "footsie", then either she is paranoid (sorry), or most likely there is somethin... (read in full...)
Why can't my ex and I let go of each other?
Q. Hello Dear Cupid. Please help!! I am stil madly in love wth my ex, and he knows it, and he messages me if I do not hear from him, and I message him vice versa. We do not see each other much, but when we do it usually really nice, but he always ...
A. 19 October 2010: First of all, why did you break up? ... (read in full...)
I enjoy bj's more from guys that girls, does that mean I am gay?
Q. Okay...so I am really confused. I enjoy getting blowjobs from guys more so than girls, particularly because they give them better. Does that mean I am gay...I mean I have thought about it and I could not see myself having an intimate relationship ...
A. 19 October 2010: I'm straight, and I'd like a guy to blow me. Don't really care how it would be called.
My advice is to drop this entire "am I gay" thinking, and just do what you like.
And besides, do you like having someone blow you, or do you also like to... (read in full...)
Men like girls who are bald?
Q. I've always shaved down there. I can't always get the hair completely bald off of the lip area though, so there is always hair though. I recently got in a relationship, and I am kind of worried that the guy might be turned off by a bit of the hair. ...
A. 19 October 2010: No, it's not always true. I prefer some hair, maybe not a full bush, but definitely not "Brazilian".
@Mrs-Greg-Sanders: You got it right, one of my ex's was totally shaved, and I did kind of feel like a child offender. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's lady friend doesn't want me around!
Q. Bf of 5 yrs has platonic(beyond doubt)unattractive lady friend nad I have befriended her at my insistance!I have eaten out with her,got her blind dates,girly goss together n the 3 of us have been out.However when my BF visits her from time to time ...
A. 18 October 2010: I understand your feelings towards him, but you want to be the first one, not the second, right? Value yourself. I'd say "It's either her, or me". Or at least "less her, more me"m but tell him exactly why. If you don't want him to take it as ... (read in full...)
Up to now its been nothing but a smooch, but I want to tear his clothes from him
Q. Hi Everyone Really hoping for some advice and reassurance. First some history. I split up with my ex husband 3 years ago, and apart from a fling right after the breakup (definate rebound fling) I havent slept with anyone since. Partly throug...
A. 18 October 2010: I've recently been with a woman, 40, who was a few years without sex as well, and I must say that she definitely didn't forget anything.
In fact I don't know why men like young women...... (read in full...)
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